When making friends, many people are not sure whether the person in front of them can be in a relationship, whether they can be our good friends, how to judge whether such a friend should be in a relationship, and what kind of person is worthy of me. Making deep friends is often a problem that troubles us. As the saying goes, time makes a difference, so how can we make a correct judgment? I have summarized the following points for reference only: the selfish type, the ungrateful type, the scheming type, the pessimistic type, the dishonest type, the taken-for-granted type, the bad-quality type, the cheap-loving type, the secretly hiding type, and the type with me Irrelevant type.
A selfish person only cares about himself, and he will never help you if his own interests are not involved. There's a good chance that an ungrateful person will give you a "we don't know each other" face when you need help. A scheming person will quietly "take over" without you noticing. The pessimist type is full of negative emotions when looking at everything and everyone every day. If you stay with such a friend for a long time, you will become pessimistic. All transactions in this world are based on integrity. If your friend is not honest, how can you know when he is telling the truth and when he is lying.
If your friends take it for granted no matter what you do, then what you have made is not a friend, but an ancestor. I'm not against smoking, but I have to pay attention to the occasion and time. I don't want my friends to smoke in front of my children, and I don't want to breathe second-hand smoke myself. When one of my sisters got married, I saw an old lady starting to take drinks from other people’s tables before the banquet was over. I really thought this was very bad. If your friend is a kind-hearted person on the surface, you should Can you still sleep at night? What I hate the most is "I have no choice but to please understand me", the kind of person who ignores things that have nothing to do with me.
No one can tell the difference between good and bad in a short time. Everyone is changing slowly. Better friends are not achieved all at once. You have to use this life to make friends. Keep understanding, keep contacting, and keep trying. You must not have the intention of harming others, but you must also have the intention of guarding against others. While learning to protect yourself, you must also know how to compare your feelings with others. If you are good enough, why don't you have friends who are suitable for you!