Don't compare, pursue famous brands. When making friends, don't invite people to dinner at will, manage your finances according to your own conditions, spend rationally and strengthen self-control. Be sure to keep your money secret, and try to avoid revealing your family's financial situation to others, and protect your privacy so as not to attract others' jealousy. Wear less gold and silver jewelry when going out, and don't lend your passport, bank card, student ID card, driver's license and other important items to others. Stay away from drugs in life, don't drink too much, avoid going to bars, casinos and other complex places, save unnecessary expenses and reduce extravagance and waste.
Be careful of your daily words and deeds, or you will hurt your friends and family.
Don't reveal your friends' private information to strangers or unfamiliar friends. Driving a friend home, it's best to wait until the friend enters the house. Frequent phone calls to relatives in China will lead to phone fraud groups extorting or defrauding money from your relatives on the grounds of kidnapping or seeing a doctor. Therefore, it is necessary to establish multi-channel contact with relatives in China. In addition to telephone calls, there must be emails and text messages, and you can also tell relatives the contact information of friends around you.
Make friends carefully and pay attention to communication.
As the saying goes, there are many friends, and a person's loneliness in learning is inevitable, so there is a need to make friends. When you are away from home, you should abandon the idea that everything is Dont Ask For Help, and keep in touch and communicate with friends more, which can not only avoid friction and help each other, but also call the police in time when an accident occurs. However, in the process of choosing friends, we should pay attention to avoid being fooled. At the same time, we should also pay attention to choosing friends carefully and try to stay away from people with bad living habits and complicated backgrounds such as drug abuse and gambling. When dealing with people, we should pay attention to the ways and occasions of communication, exercise reasonable restraint and use proper words. Use less vague words, such as "I'm sorry" or "that, that" (similar to negro negro, a word that discriminates against blacks).
Choose roommates carefully when studying in the United States
Roommates will have an important impact on our lives, so we should choose roommates carefully. It is very important to choose roommates with complicated social relations carefully to avoid being tempted or hurt. Students who choose foreign roommates should be psychologically prepared for the cultural differences between the two sides. Choose a good-natured and easy-going roommate. At the same time, you should be careful in your words and deeds, consider your roommate's feelings and get along well with your roommate. Reach an agreement on public affairs to avoid future conflicts.
The above is an introduction about making friends carefully when studying in the United States. I hope this article can help you live in America. I wish you all a bright future!