Skills of chatting with girls in online dating 1. The correct way of caring
Many boys have this idea: I try to care about girls, and girls will be moved by the strength of their boyfriends. On the surface, this idea is correct, such as? You should eat well, take care of yourself and wear more clothes when it is cold. Wait, I think she's bullying and tough on girls, and I'm sure she'll like it. This is actually brainwashed by idol dramas. In real love and making friends, girls will not only think that you are attractive, but will think that you are not pure to her and are divided into spare tires or friendship zones by girls. Is this a crime? Male chauvinism? This mistake. Example: girl:? Want to eat spicy food today? Boy:? You have a cold and a fever. Why do you want to eat spicy food? Never eat it. (Wrong answer). Boy:? I want to eat it recently. You are not afraid of catching a cold anyway. Why don't we do it together? (Correct answer). Answering a girl like this will make her feel that you know her very well, and you will definitely be able to play with her, and at the same time, you will achieve the purpose of inviting girls to date.
Skills of chatting with girls in online dating 2. There is no need to please girls deliberately.
In order to establish a relationship with girls quickly, many boys will deliberately please girls in the early stage of chatting. On the one hand, I exposed my sense of need, on the other hand, I lost myself, leaving a low-key impression on girls and being posted by them. Cheerful personality? Label. The correct way to chat is to show girls their high value while chatting according to their preferences. Example: female:? I heard that Wanda has opened a new western restaurant? Man:? How about I invite you to dinner one day? (Wrong answer). Man:? Is it? I also like western food very much. I just went to Wanda for dinner with my friends last Sunday. I don't know if I'm talking about a family. (Correct answer). This way of replying to girls, on the one hand, combines with girls' preferences to make girls feel that you have the same hobbies; On the other hand, showing your life taste to girls will increase your impression in girls' hearts.
Skills of chatting with girls in online dating 3. Creating feelings with each other.
If you want to be closer to your heart with a girl, the fastest way is with a girl? The mood * * *? Emotional singing is a shortcut to quickly enter the inner world of girls. Emotion can be summed up as: * * the same experience+* * the same feeling. How to do it specifically?
Work life is too complicated? This is a tried-and-tested technique to create * * * songs.
When expressing feelings, it is best not to talk with girls about very emotional topics, such as houses, cars, jobs, salaries, etc. But if you talk to girls about movies, stars, gossip, food, constellations and so on. I believe you can feel the same way as girls. Women are the most emotional creatures in the world. When chatting with girls, try to express your feelings, that is, try not to make comments and opinions. For example, when a girl is scolded by her boss at work, don't talk to her about right and wrong and argue about right and wrong when she spits at you. The girl was already very sad when she was scolded by her boss. At this time, your blame will only make her more dissatisfied with you. The correct way is to stand from her point of view: you have worked so hard, and your boss is too inhuman, right? , and she stood in a * * * team with a spit, heartbroken.