In online dating, many people don’t know how to start a conversation with each other. Not knowing how to greet the person you like has become a problem that bothers many people. A good opening sentence can not only add points to the first impression, but also quickly shorten the distance between each other.
Today I will introduce 4 types of ways to start a conversation. I hope everyone can have a good start in online dating and get out of singles smoothly!
1. Direct type
Many people ask each other "Are you there?" and "What are you doing?" when they start a conversation online. If there were a poll for the most offensive greetings for online dating, I believe these two would definitely be selected with high votes. "Are you there?" does not contain any communication information, which makes people confused; "What are you doing?" is abrupt and impolite like checking a post.
If you want to strike up a conversation straight to the point, you must pay attention to politeness, respect, and preferably a little humor. For example, "Hello, can I get to know you?" or "You are so cute, I would like to send a chat request (shy face~)" and so on. You must express your goodwill and interest in the other party on the basis of humility and courtesy.
2. Emoticon type
If you are a relatively introverted, inarticulate person and feel shy about striking up a conversation directly, you might as well try using some interesting and cute emoticons as your opening remarks. A suitable emoticon pack can become an artifact that breaks down the barriers between people and quickly brings them closer together. It can be said to be good news for patients with social anxiety!
(Ps: In addition to the emoji that come with the mobile phone system, Laixi APP also has a variety of emoticon packs to choose from~)
3. Self-introduction type
"Self-introduction type" greetings are also recommended. You can simply introduce your basic situation, interests and hobbies to the other party, show your advantages, and initially establish a sense of trust.
What are the following examples?:
4. Search for topic types
There is no topic that cannot be found. Only people who don’t care! You can also start with the other person's personal homepage information, find some tweeting topics, ask the other person questions, or praise the other person appropriately. This will not only make the other person think you are a smart and careful person, but also make the other person feel your sincerity~
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User of the above picture? For example, there are many topics that can be found. For example: "Your profile picture is so special, where was it taken?", "You like Cantonese songs, so do I!", "You have been to Dali, is it fun? I have always wanted to go there.", "You know how to shoot archery. You're so good. Can you teach me?"
How about it? Have you learned it? I hope you can use these high-quality greeting methods to get out of singles smoothly~