Han Han said: How far a person can go depends on who he has with him; how good a person is depends on who guides him; how successful a person is depends on who he accompanies. . ?

Social communication not only means how many people we know, but also its quality requirements. Thousands of casual acquaintances are not as good as one or two close friends. Low-quality social interaction is not as comfortable and beneficial as being alone.

The most important thing about friends is fine ones, not too many. There is no need to invite too many people into your life. Just make a few close friends. Drink tea and talk about friendship when you are free, and say simple greetings when you are busy. That’s it. Enough.

The older I get, the more lonely I become. There are so many friends around me, and they all come and go for profit. Those who are close to vermilion are red, those who are close to ink are black. The kind of people you hang out with will determine the kind of life you will have. When making friends, you must be aware of which ones you can have deep friendships with and which ones are just casual acquaintances.

A person's life energy is limited, and the social circle does not need to be too large. It only needs to be able to accommodate people who are compatible with you, and you don't have to invite everyone into your life. To know people, you need to look at their character; to make friends, you need to look at their hearts. To survive in society, don't disturb these three people easily, especially the second one.

A person who is different from what he looks like to what he is, and has a deep inner city.

Knowing people but not their hearts, many people do one thing to their faces and another behind their backs. I call you a brother in front of you, but I do evil things behind your back. Never bother such a person.

Such people often wear false masks. Behind their false faces, you may not even know their true intentions. They tend to do whatever it takes to pursue their own interests, and usually do not take into account any feelings.

You must not have the intention to harm others, and you must have the intention to guard against others. People with deep pockets are often extremely dangerous. They may be chatting and laughing with you one second, but turn around and sell you out the next second.

They often flatter you with sweet words on the surface, but secretly like to do things that are harmful to you. In order to protect yourself, it is better to stay away from those who have a city. You must stay away from them as soon as possible, don't have close friendships, and don't stay away from them.

A person who likes to stir up trouble and hates the good things of others.

Some people like to stir up trouble, fearing that it is their wish to keep the world in chaos. Such a person doesn't like the good things of others, and becomes jealous when others achieve success.

Don't bother this kind of person. If you stay away from him, you will stay away from right and wrong, and away from unreasonable troubles. Because you get along with them, you may accidentally become the target of their rumors and trouble.

They will use alienation methods to sow discord between you and others for their own personal gain so that they can profit from it. Therefore, you need to recognize and stay away early, otherwise your future will be delayed.

A person who is negative and pessimistic and full of negative energy.

Positive people are like the sun, which shines brightly wherever it shines. Negative people are like the moon, which is the same on the first and fifteenth day of the lunar month.

Writer Li Shanglong said: "Negative energy is lashing out at other people's faults and scolding social injustice; positive energy is telling you after finishing speaking, no matter how hard it is, I can still make some changes through hard work." ?

There are always people around who spread negative energy. Having such friends is like a disaster. If you want to be happy, you must stay away from people with overwhelming negative energy in your life. They will only cause trouble for you and consume your happiness.

Negative emotions will subtly destroy people’s yearning for beauty. Stay away from people who are full of negative energy, and don't let them disturb your sunshine and happiness.

Zeng Guofan once said: Choosing friends is the first important thing in life. The success or failure of your life depends on the virtuousness of your friends, so don't be careless. ?

Who you choose to associate with will change your life. When you are with comfortable people, you will feel comfortable and casual, even if you are silent, you will feel comfortable.

Some people are very tired of getting along with them, so don’t continue to get along with them. Stay with whomever you feel comfortable with! Get close to someone who gives you positive energy, and don't bother someone who consumes you.

You will feel very powerful when you are with positive and sunny people; when you are with people who are prone to pessimism and are always complaining, you will also become more and more negative. In short, when people survive in society, don't easily disturb the above three people, especially the second one.

Because it really matters who you hang out with!