1. Summary

1. Disciple rules and sage training. The first is to be a filial brother, and the second is to be faithful.

Explanation: Disciple rules include honoring parents, being friendly to brothers and sisters, followed by being cautious in words and deeds, and keeping promises.

2. Love everyone and be kind. If you have enough energy, study literature.

Explanation: Love the public and be close to virtuous people. After you have learned your own thoughts and morals well, if you have extra energy, you should learn more and ask more questions.

2. Be filial when you enter the house

1. Don’t be slow when your parents call you, and don’t be lazy when your parents ask you to do it.

Explanation: If your parents call you, you should answer in time, and do not delay on purpose; if your parents ask you to do something, you should start to do it immediately, and do not delay or be lazy on purpose.

2. Parents must listen to their teachings, and obey their parents’ responsibilities.

Explanation: When parents teach themselves, they should be respectful and listen carefully to their parents' words; when their parents criticize and blame themselves, regardless of whether they think their parents' criticism is right or wrong, they should not hesitate to face their parents' criticism. You should be respectful and don't contradict someone in person.

3. Winter is warm, summer is cool, morning is calm, and dusk is calm.

Explanation: When the weather is cold in winter, you should warm the bed for your parents in advance before they go to bed. In summer when the weather is very hot, you should help your parents fan the bed to cool down in advance; after getting up in the morning, you should visit your parents first and say hello to them. Say hello; at night, you should wait for your parents to go to bed before falling asleep.

4. When you go out, you must report it, and when you go against it, you must face it. Your home will remain constant, and your business will not change.

Explanation: Before going out, you should tell your parents where you are going, so as not to worry them if they cannot find you; when you return home, you should first meet your parents in person to report that you are safe;

Although parents will be happy if their children have a promising future, the biggest expectation that parents have for their children is not how promising you are, but that you will be safe, secure, and free from disasters in your life. Therefore, the place of residence should be as fixed as possible and do not move frequently, and the job of making a living should not be changed frequently.

5. Even if the matter is small, don’t do it arbitrarily. If you do it arbitrarily, you will be in trouble.

Explanation: No matter how small the matter is, don’t make the decision and act without authorization; acting without authorization will cause mistakes, make parents worry, and violate the duty of children.

6. Although the things are small, do not hide them privately. If you hide them privately, your loved ones will be hurt.

Explanation: If you have something, even if it is small, don’t hide it behind your parents’ back. There is no airtight wall in the world. If you hide something secretly, even if you are very cautious, you will inevitably be discovered by your parents one day, and your parents will be sad at that time.

7. If you like what you like, use your strength to do it; if you dislike what you like, be careful to get rid of it. ?

Explanation: You should try your best to do things that your parents like; you should be careful not to do things that your parents hate.

8. Injury to one’s body brings sorrow to one’s relatives; one’s moral injury brings shame to one’s relatives.

Explanation: Injury to your body will inevitably cause worries to your parents. Therefore, you should try your best to take care of your body and avoid unnecessary harm to yourself. If your reputation and moral character are damaged, your parents will be humiliated and humiliated. Therefore, you should be careful in your words and deeds, and do not let your reputation and moral character be damaged for no reason, let alone do things that corrupt morals, tarnish your reputation, and debase your moral character.

9. If you love me, it’s so difficult to be filial. If you hate me, if you love me, filial piety is virtuous.

Explanation: When our parents have a loving attitude towards us, it is not difficult to be filial and respectful to them; when our parents have a bad attitude towards us, criticize us, complain about us, or make bad remarks, dislike us, hate us, beat and scold us , even use knives and guns to kill us, but still have filial piety towards our parents, which is commendable.

10. I have had my faults, and I am more admonished. My appearance is pleasing and my voice is gentle.

Explanation: If you think your parents are at fault, you should try to persuade them to change for the better, so as to prevent them from making bigger mistakes and putting them in an unjust situation; however, you should pay attention to the method and be pleasant when persuading them. , Have a sincere attitude and speak softly.

11. If the remonstrance fails to come in, the remonstrance will be repeated with joy, and the cry will follow, and there will be no resentment.

Explanation: If your parents don’t listen to your advice, don’t force it. You should wait until your parents are happy before persuading you. Don’t contradict your parents, which will only make them angry, but will not achieve the effect of persuasion. ; If your parents don’t listen to their advice and cry and make trouble, obey them for the time being; if your parents displease you and beat yourself up in anger, don’t feel resentful, let alone complain in person.

12. If a relative is ill, taste the medicine first, attend to her day and night, and never leave the bed.

Explanation: When your parents are sick, you should first taste the hot and cold medicine for them and its safety; you should try your best to serve them day and night, and never leave your parents' bedside for a while.

13. After three years of mourning, I often feel sad, my living place has changed, and I have stopped drinking and eating.

Explanation: After the death of parents, observe filial piety for three years, often remember and express gratitude for the upbringing of parents; in daily life, abstain from alcohol and meat.

14. The funeral ceremony is complete, the sacrifice is sincere, and the deceased is treated as if he were alive.

Explanation: The funeral of parents must be carried out with etiquette and should not be extravagant and wasteful; paying homage to parents must be sincere; treating parents who have passed away must be as respectful as when they were alive.

3. Brothers are brothers

1. Brothers are friends, brothers are respectful, brothers are harmonious, and filial piety is at the center.

Explanation: Elders should be friendly to their younger siblings, and younger siblings should respect their elders. If brothers and sisters can live in harmony, parents will naturally be happy, and filial piety is part of it.

2. If your possessions are light, why should you complain? If you are patient with your words, your anger will disappear.

Explanation: If wealth is valued over justice, resentment will not arise; if words are tolerant and tolerant, anger will naturally disappear.

3. When eating, drinking, or sitting or walking, the elderly go first, followed by the young.

Explanation: Regardless of eating, drinking, sitting or walking, the elderly should be given priority, and the younger should be followed.

4. If you call someone for a long time, you will call on your behalf. If the person is not there, you will arrive immediately.

Explanation: When elders call someone else, they should immediately summon and inform them; if that person is not there or cannot find that person, they should inform the elders in time.

5. Address your elders, do not call them by name, and do not show your ability to your elders.

Explanation: When addressing the venerable elders, you should not call them by their names; in front of the venerable elders, you should be humble and polite. When you see the venerable elders are unable to do something, you can help, but you should not deliberately show off your own power. Talent, deliberately showing that he is better than the venerable elders.

6. When the road encounters a long road, I quickly bow to you. When the road is long, I am speechless. I retreat and stand respectfully.

Explanation: When you meet an elder on the road, you should say hello and salute respectfully; if the elder does not speak, you should step back and stand respectfully, waiting for the elder to leave.

7. Get off the horse, get off the horse, and wait for more than a hundred steps.

Explanation: If you are riding a horse or riding a car when you meet an elder, you should dismount or get off your horse to greet them; wait until the elder is a hundred steps away before continuing.

8. If the elders stand, the young should not sit. If the elders sit, it is their destiny to sit.

Explanation: While the elders are standing, the younger ones should not sit. Specifically, the younger generation should not sit down before the elders sit down; when everyone is sitting, when the elder stands up, the younger generation should also stand up; when everyone is sitting, and another elder comes in, the younger generation should also stand up immediately , to show respect. After the elders sit down, the younger ones should wait until the elders signal them to sit down before they can sit down.

9. When speaking in front of elders, keep your voice low. It is not appropriate to not listen.

Explanation: When talking to elders in front of elders, or talking to others in front of elders, you should be low-pitched and soft, and you should not make any noises; but the voice is too low, whispering or whispering, and the elders cannot hear clearly. , also inappropriate.

10. If you advance, you must move forward, but if you retreat, you must be late. When asked, don’t look away.

Explanation: When you come in front of your elders, you should move forward quickly; when you retreat, it is only polite to move a little slower; when your elders ask questions, you should stand up and answer, and you should look and listen, and you should not look around.

11. Serve your fathers as you would your father, and serve your brothers as you would your brothers.

Explanation: Treat your parents and grandparents, such as adoptive father, aunt, uncle, uncle, uncle, father-in-law, grandfather, maternal grandfather, great-grandfather, maternal great-grandfather, etc., as you would treat your biological father with filial respect; treat them with filial respect; Elder brothers, such as cousins, cousins, clan brothers, etc., should be treated with the same kindness and respect as one's own brothers.

Four. Sincerely

1. Get up early in the morning and sleep late at night. It is easy to get old, so cherish this time.

Explanation: You should get up early in the morning and not go to bed early at night; because life gets old easily, you should cherish time.

2. Wash your hands in the morning, rinse your mouth, and wash your hands frequently.

Explanation: When you get up in the morning, you must wash your face, make up, brush your teeth and rinse your mouth; you should wash your hands after going to the toilet.

3. The crown must be straight, the buttons must be knotted, and the socks and shoes must be tight.

Explanation: Dress neatly and button your clothes well; wear your socks smoothly and tie your shoelaces tightly.

4. Wear your crown and clothes in a certain position, and do not mess around and cause filth. ?

Explanation: When placing clothes, they should be placed in a fixed position; clothes should not be thrown around to avoid making the home dirty.

5. The clothes are noble and clean, not luxurious.

Explanation: Clothes should be neat and tidy, not gorgeous; on the one hand, one should consider one's own status, and on the other hand, one should act according to the strength of the family.

6. Don’t be picky about your diet, eat in moderation, and don’t eat too much.

Explanation: When it comes to food, don’t be picky and picky about this; just eat well and eat well. Don’t pursue delicious food too much. You only need to eat eight times full for three meals to avoid overdosing and harmful effects. healthy.

7. Don’t drink alcohol when you are young. Being drunk is the ugliest thing.

Explanation: Teenagers should not drink alcohol; drunkenness is the ugliest state.

8. Walk calmly, stand upright, bow deeply and roundly, and bow respectfully.

Explanation: Walk calmly and steadily, and stand upright; when visiting others, bow your hands and be sincere and respectful.

9. Don’t step on the threshold, don’t lean on it lamely, don’t squat on it, and don’t shake your knees.

Explanation: Don’t step on the threshold, don’t stand crookedly, and don’t lean on the wall; don’t stretch out your legs when sitting, and don’t shake your legs randomly.

10. Open the curtain slowly without making any noise, and make a wide turn without touching the edges.

Explanation: When entering and exiting a room, opening curtains or opening and closing doors, you should move gently and do not deliberately make any noise; when turning a corner, you should make a larger circle instead of leaning straight against the corner or turning at a right angle. , so that they will not hit the edges and corners of objects and cause injury, nor will they bump into each other because someone suddenly appears around the corner. ?

11. Holding an empty weapon is like holding a full one, and entering an empty room is like holding someone there.

Explanation: When holding an empty utensil, you should hold it straight and straight as if you were holding a full utensil. Do not swing it around, otherwise it will look very frivolous. When entering an unoccupied room, you should also It should be like entering a room with someone in it, not casually.

12. Don’t be busy with things. You will make many mistakes if you are busy. Don’t be afraid of difficulties and don’t take things lightly.

Explanation: When doing things, no matter how urgent it is, don’t panic, because mistakes are easy to make while busy; don’t be afraid of difficulties, and don’t act hastily.

13. Never approach a fight scene, and never ask about eccentric things.

Explanation: Never approach bad places such as fighting, gambling, pornography, etc.; do not be curious about weird things.

14. When you are about to enter the door, ask who is alive. When you are about to go to the hall, your voice will be loud.

Explanation: Before entering the room, you should ask: "Is anyone there?" Before entering the living room, you should raise your voice to let the people in the room know that someone is coming.

15. When people ask who to name, there is no distinction between me and me.

Explanation: When people in the room ask: "Who is it?", they should answer with their name; if they answer: "It's me", people can't tell who it is.

16. When using characters, you must clearly ask for them. If you don’t ask, it is stealing.

Explanation: If you want to use other people's belongings, you should clearly ask for permission; if you do not ask the owner's wishes, or ask but do not obtain the owner's consent, and take it without permission, that is Theft.

17. If you borrow someone, return it promptly. If you are in a hurry, it will not be difficult to borrow.

Explanation: Borrowed items should be returned promptly; if you need them urgently in the future, it will not be difficult to borrow them again.

5. Faith

1. When speaking, faith comes first. There is no room for ridicule or deceit.

Explanation: When speaking, honesty should come first; deception and nonsense are not allowed.

2. It is better to say too little than to say too much, but only what is true and not to be sarcastic.

Explanation: It is better to talk more than to talk less; speak truthfully and do not make false claims.

3. Avoid treacherous words, dirty words, and market atmosphere. ?

Explanation: Don’t use treacherous words or dirty words; you must avoid the snobbery and market spirit.

4. If you see something is not true, don’t speak lightly; if you know something is true, don’t pass it on lightly.

Explanation: Do not express opinions easily before knowing the truth; do not believe rumors without knowing the truth and spread them again.

5. Don’t take your promises lightly when things are not right. If you take your promises lightly, you will make mistakes in advance and retreat.

Explanation: Don’t easily agree to unreasonable demands or things you can’t do; if you agree easily, you will be in a dilemma.

6. The word "dao" should be heavy and comfortable, not sharp or blurry.

Explanation: When speaking, pronounce words clearly and speak slowly; do not speak too fast and pronounce words unclearly.

7. What he says is long and what he says is short is none of your business. Don’t meddle.

Explanation: Don’t talk about other people’s strengths to their faces and their shortcomings behind their backs; it’s not about your own right and wrong, and don’t make trouble over nothing.

8. When you see good people, you will think about them together. Even if you go far away, you will gradually get closer.

Explanation: When you see the kindness of others, you should immediately learn to emulate them; even if your abilities are far apart, you should work hard and gradually catch up.

9. When you see someone being evil, you should introspect yourself and correct it without warning.

Explanation: When you see other people’s shortcomings or bad behaviors, you should reflect on yourself; if there are any, you should change them, if not, be vigilant.

10. Only study with virtue and talent. If you are not as good as others, you should train yourself.

Explanation: Only with moral character and knowledge can one's skills be inferior to others. One should be self-motivated, self-sharpened, and self-improved.

11. If clothes and food are not as good as others, don’t worry about them. ?

Explanation: If you are not as good as others in clothes and food, don’t worry about comparison.

12. You will be angry when you hear it, and you will be happy when you hear praise. It will harm your friends, but it will benefit your friends.

Explanation: If you get angry when you hear criticism from others and are happy when you hear praise from others, bad friends will come to you and good friends will leave you.

13. I am afraid when I hear the reputation, but I am happy when I hear it.

Explanation: When you hear others praising yourself, you are afraid of overpraising yourself; when you hear others criticize yourself, accept it happily, and your mentors and helpful friends will gradually get closer to you.

14. Unintentional wrong is called wrong, intentional wrong is called evil.

Explanation: If you do something wrong intentionally, it is called a fault; if you do it knowingly, it is a sin.

15. If a mistake can be corrected, it will be lost, but if it is covered up, it will increase the guilt.

Explanation: If you recognize your mistakes and correct them, they will disappear; if you cover up your mistakes, you will add to them.

6. Universal love for all

1. All people must be loved. The sky covers them and the earth carries them.

Explanation: All human beings must love each other; because we share the same sky and live on the same earth.

2. Those who practice high things have a high reputation, and what people value is not their appearance.

Explanation: People with high moral character will naturally have a high reputation; what people really respect in their hearts is virtue, not those who appear to be powerful and high status. ?

3. Those with great talents are arrogant and admired by others, not by words of greatness.

Explanation: Those with great virtues and talents will naturally have high prestige; people are truly convinced by their virtues and talents in their hearts, rather than those high-ranking officials, big figures, and big financial businessmen who talk about them.

4. If you are capable, don’t be selfish. If others are capable, don’t take it lightly.

Explanation: If you are capable, don’t be selfish and help others; if others are capable, don’t be jealous and should appreciate and learn from them. ?[6]?

5. Don’t flatter the rich, don’t be proud of the poor, don’t get tired of the old, and don’t like the new.

Explanation: Don’t flatter the rich, and don’t be arrogant in front of the poor; don’t like the new and dislike the old.

6. When people are not idle, don’t disturb them with things; when people are uneasy, don’t disturb them with words.

Explanation: Don’t disturb others when they are busy; don’t disturb others with idle chatter when they are in a bad mood.

7. Don’t expose people’s shortcomings, and don’t talk about people’s selfishness.

Explanation: Remember not to expose other people’s shortcomings; remember not to publicize other people’s privacy.

8. If a Taoist is good, he is good. When people know it, they will think more about it.

Explanation: Praising others for their good deeds means doing good deeds; when others hear your praise, they will be more encouraged to do good deeds.

9. Encouraging others to do evil is evil, causing serious illness and causing disaster.

Explanation: Promoting the evil deeds of others is doing evil things; excessive criticism and criticism of others will bring disaster to oneself.

10. Good advice and good advice will lead to the establishment of virtue, but failure to follow the rules will lead to both losses.

Explanation: If you encourage each other to do good, your virtue and talent will be cultivated; if you fail to persuade each other when you make mistakes, both people will suffer from moral defects.

11. When it comes to taking and giving, the price should be clearly defined. It is better to give more and to take less.

Explanation: When it comes to obtaining or giving property, the important thing is to be clear about it, take it when you need it, and give it when you should give it; it is better to give more and get less.

12. When you are about to join someone else, ask yourself first.

Explanation: When you ask others to do something, you should first reflect on yourself and ask yourself if you are willing to do it. If you are unwilling to do something, you should immediately stop asking for it and do not force others to do it.

13. Kindness is repaid, grudges are forgotten, grudges are short-lived, and kindness is long-lasting.

Explanation: If you want to repay others' kindness, you must forget your resentment towards others; you should complain in the short term and repay the kindness in the long term.

14. Treat your maids and servants in a dignified manner. Although you are dignified, you should be kind and generous.

Explanation: When dealing with maids and servants, you must behave well and set an example; although good conduct is important, kindness and generosity are more valuable.

15. If you are convinced by force, you will be speechless. If you are convinced by reason, you will be speechless. ?

Explanation: If you use power to force others to obey, the other party will inevitably be dissatisfied. Only by convincing people with reason can others be sincerely convinced.

7. Be kind and benevolent

1. We are all human beings, but we are of different kinds. We are popular among the people, but benevolent people are rare.

Explanation: We are all human beings, good and evil, good and bad, good and bad, good and bad; there are many worldly people, but few people who are benevolent, righteous and philanthropic.

2. Those who are nutty are afraid of many people, do not mince words, and are not charming in appearance.

Explanation: If a benevolent person appears, everyone will naturally respect him; he will speak his mind and will not judge the appearance of flattery.

3. Being able to be kind and benevolent is infinitely good. Virtue increases with each passing day and life becomes less with each passing day.

Explanation: It is infinitely good to be close to a virtuous person and learn from him; he will make our virtue increase day by day and our faults decrease day by day.

4. Being unkind will cause unlimited harm. If villains enter, everything will be bad.

Explanation: If we refuse to get close to benevolent and righteous gentlemen, there will be endless harm; evil villains will take advantage of the situation and influence us, leading to the failure of the entire life.

8. Yu learns literature

1. If you don’t practice it, but study literature, you will become a person.

Explanation: If you cannot practice filial piety when you enter, brotherhood when you go out, sincerity and trust, universal love for others, and kindness, even if you have knowledge, it will only increase your flashy habits and become an unrealistic person. people.

2. But if you practice hard, do not learn literature, and follow your own opinions, you will ignore the truth.

Explanation: If you just practice what you do and refuse to read and study, you will easily act according to your own prejudices and lose sight of the truth.

3. There are three ways to read, including heart, eyes, mouth, and faith.

Explanation: There are three ways to read: with the eyes, with the mouth, and with the heart. All three are indispensable.

4. Just read this, don’t admire the other, don’t start the other before this ends.

Explanation: You must be dedicated when doing knowledge. You cannot not understand one subject and then want to engage in other subjects.

5. The width is the limit, work hard, when the time is up, the stagnation will be cleared.

Explanation: There should be tolerance in the study plan, and the study should be intensified; when the study is completed, the knowledge will be clear

6. If you have doubts, take notes and ask people for confirmation.

Explanation: If you don’t understand a question, take notes and ask a mentor or friend for the correct answer.

7. The room is clean, the walls are clean, the desks are clean, and the pens and inkstones are straight.

Explanation: The room is tidy, the walls are clean, the desk is clean, and the writing is neat.

8. The ink grinding is biased, the mind is not right, the words are disrespectful, and the heart is sick first.

Explanation: The ink grinding is off-center, the mind is not right, the writing is not neat, and the mood is not good.

9. List the classics and have a fixed place. After reading them, restore them to their original place.

Explanation: Take books from the bookshelf, and after reading them, put them back to their original places.

10. Even if you are in a hurry, the rolls and bundles should be in order. If there are any defects, make up for them.

Explanation: Even if there is an emergency, you must put the books away before leaving. If there is any damage, you must repair it.

11. If it is not a holy book, do not read it. It will cover your intelligence and bad intentions.

Explanation: Abandon reading bad books and periodicals to avoid blinding your wisdom and damaging your ambition.

12. Don’t bully yourself, don’t give up on yourself, saints and sages can be tamed. ?

Explanation: When encountering setbacks, don’t give up on yourself. You can reach the state of a sage by practicing the sages’ precepts personally.

The original name of "Disciples' Regulations" is "Xun Mengwen". It is a three-character rhyme written by Li Yuxiu, a famous scholar and educator in the Qing Dynasty. It was later renamed "Disciples' Regulations".

Extended information:

There are essences and dross in traditional culture. Speaking of dross, "Disciples' Regulations" is one of them.

But today, the "Disciples' Regulations" are becoming more and more popular. Primary school students are required to learn them, college students are also required to learn them, and even specialized disciples' regulations schools have emerged. It's impossible to sit back and watch such a scene.

"Disciple Regulations" *** has 360 sentences and 1080 words. The whole article is a general introduction, filial piety when entering, brotherhood when going out, sincerity, trust, universal love for all, kindness, and remaining learning essays. Excerpt a few sentences and see what the author says.

Let’s look at “filial piety” first. "You must listen to your parents' teachings, and obey your parents' responsibilities. No matter how small the matter is, don't do it arbitrarily. If you do it arbitrarily, your children will suffer." Parents' education and punishment, regardless of whether they are right or wrong, should be listened to and their own affairs No matter how big or small, you should report it to your parents before doing it; moreover, you should not do what you like, but what your parents like.

Look at "Winter is warm, summer is clear", which means to warm the bed for parents in advance when it is cold in winter, and to help parents cool the bed in advance when it is hot in summer. Which child can do this? Can children in ancient times do it? I doubt it. It is quite common for parents to do this for their children.

“After three years of mourning, I often gulp down with sadness, my living environment changes, and I stop eating and drinking.” It is human nature to shed tears when remembering your parents after their parents are gone, but is there any reason to stipulate a three-year period of “sorrowing down” on a regular basis? It’s enough to fulfill your filial piety, but it still has to be a mere formality? Is it true that you are filial to your parents by suffering yourself?

The "filial piety" prescribed by disciples is a foolish filial piety centered on parents. , regardless of whether the parents are alive or dead. While various forms of "filial piety" are emphasized, there is no word about children's love for their parents.

Look at "Ti" again. "The elders go first, the younger ones follow. The older ones stand, the younger ones don't sit down. Respect the elders and keep your voice low." It is true that we should respect our elders; but we must "serve all our fathers as we serve our fathers" and clearly understand that it is difficult to force others. Too much emphasis is placed on the status of the elderly, but the rights of the young are completely ignored. The word "Ti" emphasizes the superiority of the elder and the inferiority of the young, but it says nothing about the equality between people.

Look at "sincere" again. The whole paragraph is very long, but the central idea is clear--they are all words that should be sanctimonious and cautious in words and deeds. There are also many behavioral taboos, such as "don't step on the threshold, don't lean on it, don't squat on the dustpan, don't shake your hips, slowly open the curtain, don't make any noise, turn wide, don't touch the edges", etc., which makes me tired just looking at them. In this regard, I am reminded of the saying "No one should be frivolous and waste his youth."

This is not to advocate wanton behavior, but if people want to live a wonderful life, they need to live out their personality. The word "personality" is exactly what "jin" strictly prohibits.

Look at "letter" again. The "Letter" paragraph actually said a lot of things like "you should keep your word". But Yu didn't hide his shortcomings. He only looked at this sentence: "The other person's opinion is long, and this person's opinion is short. It's none of your own business. Don't meddle." This is clearly misleading people and creating "good gentlemen" who have no principles and no sense of justice.

"Disciple Regulations" is based on the literal meaning of "The Analects of Confucius": "Disciples should be filial when they enter, be fraternal when they leave, be sincere and trustworthy, love others and be benevolent; if they have enough ability to do, they should study literature" written. But the author Li Yuxiu didn't know that Confucius hated good old people the most. Confucius said, "Hometown wishes are the thief of virtue." He was criticizing hypocritical and deceptive people who do not distinguish between right and wrong. Li Yuxiu didn't know this, so he was a scholar in vain.

Look again at "loving all the people" and "loving benevolence". "Love everyone universally" is quite right. "All people must love each other. The sky is the same and the earth is the same." However, he immediately claimed to be on a moral high ground by saying that "we are all human beings, but we are of different kinds. We follow the common customs, but the benevolent ones are welcome." This classification is inherently inappropriate. Because the crowd is divided into men and women with professional qualifications, but there is no distinction between morals and righteousness.

This paragraph forcibly categorizes people, and then "be kind to the benevolent, and stay away from the villain", which reminds me of "The Swordsman" Yue Buqun himself is a hypocrite, but strictly prohibits Hu Chong from associating with the so-called "evil cult" "Middle Man", how consistent with this paragraph. The so-called "kindness" only makes people see hypocrisy.

Finally, read "Yu Liwen". What are you learning? "If it is not a holy book, don't look at it, it will cover your intelligence and have a bad intention." What are the holy books? A list of the Four Books and Five Classics will suffice? Moreover, most of the books are "non-holy books", so don't read them all? How unreasonable! More importantly, reading "non-holy books" will "block your intelligence." "Bad intention"? How fragile is the thought and psychology behind such words?

A "Disciple Rules" is really not worthy of careful reading. An "enlightenment book" does not mention a word or completely deviates from the most important things such as children's love for their parents, equality between people, cultivation of personality, persistence in justice, sincere friendship, and cultivation of wisdom. According to " "Disciple Rules", even if he succeeds in the end, "sages and sages can be tamed", he will still be a person with no personality or even no humanity at all.

"Disciple Rules" is a book that teaches children how to "sight, hear, speak and act" and describes various etiquette and rules. The author, Li Yuxiu, was born in Shanxi in the early Qing Dynasty. He only had the reputation of being a scholar in his life, and his most famous work "Disciples' Regulations" did not gradually become popular until the late Qing Dynasty. There is no doubt that the "Disciple Rules" is just an ancient enlightenment book. It only "teaches people things" and does not "teach people principles."

However, countless literati in ancient China compiled verse-style enlightenment books for their children or students, but "Disciples' Regulations" stands out from them because of its comprehensive content, neat structure, easy-to-understand arguments, and Concise speech is related.

It is certainly inappropriate for some people to worship the "Disciples' Regulations" as a god, but some recent comments have regarded it as completely feudal dross, and regarded it as the same as the textbooks for stupid people, which makes people confused. If we go back to the era when it was severely criticized as a "poisonous weed".

In fact, what is described in the "Disciples' Regulations" is probably the same as what the elders said before, "open a household and close a household". They are all daily etiquette. Scholars in ancient times emphasized "telling without writing." These etiquettes and even every sentence in them can be said to be supported by classic sources.

So, on the surface it is a small issue of how to view the "Disciple Rules", but in fact it is a big issue of how to understand traditional etiquette and even traditional culture. The ancient Chinese understood this issue quite thoroughly. "The Book of Rites·Liyun" said that "the old etiquette is the reality of righteousness." Benevolence and righteousness are like soil. Depending on the climate and environment, various "rituals" can grow. "The fruit comes.

If today’s people just see that these flowers and fruits are out of season, and ignore or even abandon the entire fertile land that raises flowers and fruits, then they will really come back empty-handed.

Going back to the "Disciple Rules", with the rapid changes in the social era, it is true that many etiquette rules in it are no longer needed. Memorizing them by rote is useless, and copying them completely is even more unreliable. However, if we can trace its origins, explain it, and explore its original intention, "Disciple Rules" can still be regarded as one of the introductory books for children to inquire about Chinese ritual and music civilization.

The level of social aging is increasing, and there are more and more quarrels between brothers over the division of their parents' property, and more and more empty-nesters are appearing. Investigating its essence, the reason is that there is no "filial piety" in the heart. This most basic principle of life should be cultivated from an early age. How to raise it? We cannot rely on coaxing or exchanging conditions. We must let everyone understand that "filial piety" cannot be discounted and there is no reason to explain it.

For newcomers who are just starting out in society, it is most important to be cautious in their words and deeds. Their environment is no longer a relatively relaxed place like school, but a workplace full of competition. Being self-righteous and disrespecting your leadership is a must; coming to work on time is basic; complying with regulations is a must; increase business learning, ask for advice humbly, and promote your own progress.

At the same time, you must be responsible for your work and your own commitments. There is no need to be vain or deceitful; words must be deeded and deeds must be resolute. This is work.

When it comes to "benevolence and love", people are always limited to a small part: such as public welfare undertakings and disaster relief. But in fact, a heart of kindness needs to be integrated into life at all times. A tolerant and broad heart can often eliminate many problems. Just like the current traffic congestion phenomenon, the quality issues reflected here are particularly prominent.

Disobeying the rules, merging at will, overtaking at will, occupying bus lanes, and driving aggressive cars. "I would rather wait three minutes than rush for a second." If every driver can wait with a tolerant and kind heart and slow down his temper, he may be able to get good results.

The last part of the "Disciple Regulations" states, "Leave a little time to study literature" and put learning at the end. This should be said to be completely contrary to the educational philosophy of modern parents and the demands for personal development. Nowadays, everyone believes that we cannot lose at the starting line. A good academic qualification means a good future. For this goal, children are arranged to attend various tutoring classes from an early age.

Outside the school gate, you can see groups of elders waiting, and the roads near the campus are also crowded with private cars picking up children. Parents give the green light all the way for their children's future. They switch among various roles as coachman, cook, and follower, but they forget that they are an elder. This directly leads to the reversal of the order of moral development and learning in traditional education. If the foundation is not strong, how can the building be stable?

The most troublesome problems in modern enterprises are low employee work efficiency, insufficient employee execution, low employee loyalty, insufficient team cohesion, and high brain drain rate.

How many heroes in the corporate world have been killed by serious internal strife in the company?

The "Disciple Rules" is a classic reading that touches the heart, and it is also an excellent teaching material for companies to cultivate first-class employees. Studying the "Disciple Rules" not only allows employees to learn how to be a good person, but also how to do things. The following examples illustrate.

Chapter "Filial Piety": Filial piety comes first, dutifulness and loyalty come first, and loyalty is regarded as a way of professional survival. "Dedication" for employees is as noble as "respect for elders". Being filial and conscientious are your job responsibilities. If you practice "filial piety", you will become a person who does not make excuses and dares to take responsibility. When working, you can improve your efficiency, stay calm in times of trouble, and work in an organized manner.

Chapter "Being Out and Competing": This is very important for the company to create a good working atmosphere. How to be a popular person in the team? That is to be an employee who works for growth rather than salary. Don't care about everything and complain less. The resentment will gradually disappear.

The second part of "Disciple Regulations" is divided into "Brothers are friends, brothers are respectful, filial piety is in the middle" mainly educates children on how to deal with the relationship between brothers and sisters. In the same way for business management, it tells us how to deal with the relationship between colleagues. For example, respect each other, care for each other, and help each other. If colleagues are away, you should take the initiative to take on relevant work, etc.

The narration of "Letter", "Whenever you speak, trust comes first, and deceit and deception are not allowed to be ridiculed." It talks about the principles of life and educates children not to say unfounded words and not to make promises easily. Just do it, don’t break your word; don’t speak ill of others behind their backs;

Don’t spread rumors. From an enterprise perspective, this part is also of great practical significance. It reminds employees to strengthen their personal cultivation, make continuous efforts to improve their personal moral character, and grasp their own development direction clearly and accurately.

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