I don’t want to make friends less and less, and I feel like just getting along on the surface is enough.
From your description, it seems that the other girl (let’s call her B) doesn’t really like you very much. Because you are not her type. She has made it very clear that she prefers people who can take things and let them go, and she likes to be friends with ruthless women. But you don’t have to worry about it, at least she doesn’t hate you, she is the kind who treats you as transparent, that is, she is not afraid that you will hear her words, and she doesn’t care whether you will take it to your heart. The girl who comes home with you (let's call her A for now) is the one who tells you what's on your mind. She is relatively more dependent on you. You are a good listener, so she will tell you. But she relies more on the girl B in front of her, because B will help her analyze and give her ideas, unlike you who just listen. Your character is relatively cowardly, which also has the advantage that others don't feel threatened and don't have much defensiveness against you. If you are a friend, let it go. Cherish it and bless it. It's that simple. I feel like I am becoming less and less able to make friends
I also want to know. I also feel that I am becoming more and more withdrawn. I don’t know how to communicate with others. Those old friends in the past would not be able to communicate with me even if they exchanged some greetings. Know how to explain why you don’t like making friends more and more
First, materialism. Too hypocritical
Second, you don’t know how to make friends.
Three, you have no friends
Four, you have no world of your own, inside.
Five, you are too stupid, you need to read more, enrich yourself, and make yourself a wise man
At least,, grow your brain
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People are very simple, and friends are also simple. Why do you think it is getting more and more difficult to make friends
When things happen, you don’t think about yourself first, but always think about others
Cheerful and optimistic
Generous and not fussy
Always willing to help others and help others solve their problems without expecting anything in return.
See if you can basically do it. There are of course other qualities, such as focus, skill and humility. Why are you less and less interested in making friends of the same age?
If you are in love with one person, but you don’t feel anything about the other person, then it’s just a secret love for him or her and unrequited love at best? But then again, if that girl is so infatuated with a man, if that man should be able to feel loved and feel the sincerity of the girl's love for him, he should also be moved by it, and he should also be able to feel it. Feeling something.
What should I do if I don’t want to be with the opposite sex anymore?
Answer
If I don’t want to be with the opposite sex, is that a homosexual intention?
First check if you are not interested in the same sex.
If not, you may want to be quiet.
So don’t worry about it.
Anyway, you will get used to it in the future. Why do I dislike making friends less and less?
Find out why they bother you, and then solve the problem. They will not bother you for no reason. Those of you On the surface, people think you are hypocritical. Why do you want to make less friends as you grow older?
No, if this is the case, it is your personal reason. Maybe it is because your best friend has hit you too hard
Please adopt
Because as people grow older, they will be hurt more and more, and they will be less and less afraid to give their sincerity to others for fear of being hurt. You need to be sincere to make friends. If you don't make friends with sincerity, of course you won't be able to make friends. So people always get lonelier as they grow older. As long as the salary is decent, it's fine. The main reason is that I can't find a place to recruit.
If you are online, the Internet is okay. You can check it out. Some agencies will also post it online. Just be careful to prevent fraud. You You can check in the markets around you to find out if there are agents