If a man loves you so much that he won’t marry you, he should restrain the development of love. If a man truly loves a woman, he will carefully care for her and approach her cautiously. In "The Legend of the New White Snake", Xiao Qing leaves her umbrella to Xu Xian in order to let Xu Xian come to propose marriage. There are a lot of Xu Xian's inner activities in this paragraph. First, he expressed his anxiety to the teacher at the drug store. He was afraid of being rude and afraid of being rejected. He was heart-wrenching, but he didn't dare to move forward. This is not what an infatuated man is like. When going to the White House, the way he took one step forward and three steps back, and his entangled little thoughts, made people laugh and feel warm. When Xu Xian saw the luxurious Baifu, he hesitated to move forward, worried that he was not worthy of her, but he couldn't help his throbbing heart. Perhaps when a man is truly in love, there will be a stage where he seems to become cautious even when he breathes. If he gets too close, he is afraid that the woman will hate his enthusiasm. He was too far away, and he was afraid that the woman would turn around and forget about him. Often there is a flame of passion burning in the heart, but on the surface he remains calm, trying to restrain himself and present his most perfect side in front of women. Such a man is often the cutest. He is willing to think about problems from a woman's perspective, hoping that he can give her the best love and let her accept him bit by bit. Every step a man takes is cautious, every decision he makes is cautious, and behind his cautious approach is his ultimate care and concern for women. A man loves you so much that he won’t marry you unless he wants to, so he should restrain his shortcomings. A man who truly loves a woman will care about her feelings, learn to self-analyze, and restrain his shortcomings. There will always be a lot of dissatisfaction and complaints in life. When a woman hopes that a man can spend more time with her, a man who truly loves her will not use any reason to stall her, but will try every means to spare more time. Use your time to accompany your lover and manage this relationship carefully. She hates the smell of tobacco and hates men coming home smelling of alcohol. Men will try to restrain themselves and try to quit these hobbies, even if they have a very painful period of time. A man will reduce socializing or drink as little as possible for her, not only for his own health, but also because he doesn’t want to see her worried or angry. Everyone is imperfect, and everyone has their own set of circumstances, but if you truly love someone, all difficulties can be overcome. Yi Shu wrote in "People Are as Pale as Chrysanthemums": "There is nothing easy to say about feelings. Anyone who has difficulties is just because his feelings are not strong. As long as the feelings are deep enough, there is nothing that no one can change. For you , I am willing to do anything.” When a man loves you, he will tell you with practical actions that even if he gives you everything, he is still afraid that he will not give you enough. Even if you correct all your shortcomings, you still worry that you are not good enough. Does the more restrained a man's feelings are, the more he falls into a relationship? 2 Signs of a man's fall: 1. He always misses her involuntarily. A person is very good, serious at work, and self-disciplined in life. None of these will prevent him from being crazy about love. The better a man is, the more persistently he loves someone and the stronger his desire to conquer. Just like how a woman loves someone deeply, a man loves someone deeply and wants to know what the other person is doing all the time. As long as he is not working, he will involuntarily think about her, her every move and every frown. Every movement comes to mind. Even if he is usually serious, the corners of his mouth will turn up at this time. 2. Change your principles and bottom line for her. Excellent people have principles in doing things and cannot waver. This is a person's personality label. It is precisely because of this that it will become better and better. Every person who looks strong on the outside will have a tender corner in his heart. Here, it will be the paradise of a special person. When a man loves someone deeply, he will be "free" for her at any time and unconditionally. No matter how busy he is, no matter how important he is to deal with, he will always be available anytime and anywhere as long as the other party needs him. 3. Allow the other party to speak freely. When a man loves someone deeply, he will pamper the other person like a child. Allow the other person to be "rude" to you, and don't care even if the other person is rude. When a man loves someone deeply, no matter how much he pays attention to appearance and details, he will allow the other person to wipe his nose on his white shirt, mess up his hairstyle, and allow the other person to "bully" him. No matter how beautiful and cold you are outside, you will always have the low profile of a weak person in front of the one you love. A good man must know how to control himself and be disciplined, but when he really meets someone he likes, his heart will collapse and he cannot control himself. This is the magic of feelings.

Does the more restrained a man's relationship is, the more he falls into it? 3. Men have three kinds of restraint in front of you. It's not that they don't love you, but they love you to the core. 1: Restraining the desire to control. A person's temper determines how he will treat his partner. If the person you love never restrains his desire to control when he is with you, then he will definitely not respect your decision and will not be able to bring you a warm love. In the process of falling in love, the man who knows how to restrain his desire for control is the one who truly loves you. Men with strong personalities, when they are with the girl they like, will only consider their own feelings and will not think about problems from the other person's perspective. In order to satisfy their desire for control, they will even do things to hurt their partners, thinking only of controlling each other's thoughts. This kind of love will make girls feel depressed and fearful, and unable to experience happiness. Gentleman-like men, when they are in a relationship with their significant other, know how to restrain their desire to control in order to make her happy. In their understanding, women can also have their own choices and independent thoughts, and there is no reason for her to live according to her own ideas. Chen Ling's (pseudonym) boyfriend is a good man who knows how to restrain his desire for control. During a relationship, it is impossible for both of them to have the same views on everything. Chen Ling has clear plans for her work and future, but there are some plans that her boyfriend doesn't like so much. For example, Chen Ling has always wanted to work in the sales industry, but her boyfriend thinks that girls don’t need to work too hard and can just find a more relaxed clerical job. Being a salesperson requires often working overtime and socializing. The two had conflicts on this matter, but with Chen Ling's insistence, her boyfriend still gave her enough respect. As long as it was something she liked to do, he would support it to the end. A man who knows how to restrain his desire for control does not dislike you, but loves you deeply. He will be attentive to your opinions and needs, and just wants you to be happier. 2: Restrain possessiveness. True love must make each other better people, rather than just thinking about possessing each other. However, usually after a man becomes interested in a girl, he will behave out of control. The most common behavior is to become extremely possessive. He doesn't allow you any private space and just wants to be with you all the time. But love that is too possessive cannot make the relationship between two people better. Men who truly love you know how to restrain their possessiveness towards you. He will allow his other half to have his own life and circle of friends. Although the time away from you is like a year to him, because he loves you, he is willing to work hard to make adjustments and changes. Chen Nan has been dating his girlfriend for two years. He is a boy with a relatively sensitive personality and is very possessive. But since he met the girl he loved deeply, he began to slowly change. For example, when someone of the opposite sex approaches his girlfriend, he won't always be inexplicably jealous. He also accepts that his girlfriend can be friends with the opposite sex, and he will not always want her to belong to him only. Men who can restrain their possessiveness towards you do not mean they do not love you, but it is a sign of deep love. Love that is too crazy can make people feel suffocated, so he uses restraint to protect each other's feelings and show his gentlest side in front of you. He hopes that girls can understand this deep love of men. Three: Restrain missing. Falling in love with someone is accompanied by missing. Although the two people are only separated for a short time, the days without seeing each other are a kind of suffering. A deeply affectionate man, once he truly falls in love with the other person, will also be unable to restrain his thoughts and hope to be with you every minute. Zhao Bin (pseudonym) and his girlfriend are college classmates. When they were in school, they were almost inseparable. But after graduation, Zhao Bin knew that his girlfriend was an independent and capable woman with certain career ambitions. As long as she wants to win a project, she will stick to it no matter how long she has to work overtime. After they started working, they spent less and less time seeing each other. Although Zhao Bin felt sad about this, he also missed his girlfriend very much. But he will try hard to restrain his thoughts and not disturb his girlfriend's time too much. From Zhao Bin's point of view, she admired her girlfriend's attitude towards work. Her hard work was really beautiful, like she was shining with a dazzling light, which made him even more excited. The more a man loves you, the more he knows how to help you. Just like Zhao Bin, although he misses his girlfriend very much, he hopes to see her every day. But when his girlfriend has work to deal with, he will not make trouble unreasonably, but will know how to restrain his thoughts so that his girlfriend can concentrate on doing her own things. Such a man is more mature in thinking and it also shows that he loves you deeply.

Some people say: "In the process of continuous maturity, people are actually constantly learning to exercise restraint, restrain their desires, restrain their emotions, and restrain their obsessions." Restraint is a beautiful character, and its existence can help people of the opposite sex interact with each other. Let each other's feelings be more orderly and have a sense of propriety when getting along. Therefore, the three restraint actions of men are not that they don’t love, but that they love to the core. Men who don't know how to restrain their possessiveness and control will not like you deeply. They will only consider their own feelings and face. In heterosexual interactions, if a man knows how to respect you, he will not always want to control and possess you. He will give you reasonable freedom and allow you to live according to your own ideas and rhythm. Missing is a beautiful feeling in itself, but during a relationship, no matter how passionate the love for each other is, a man who truly loves you will know how to restrain missing. Especially when you are pursuing your ideals, he can hold back even if he misses you crazily, and will not disturb you too much, but will allow you to have a broader world. If they don’t take the initiative to contact you, it’s not because they don’t love you, but they are worried about affecting your work and plans. If you are lucky enough to meet such a mature and considerate man in your life, you must hold on tight. Bernard Shaw once said: "He who knows how to control himself is the strongest." The bigger the man, the more he knows how to restrain his desire for control, possessiveness and longing when managing relationships. Such behavior does not mean lack of love, but deep love. Every kind of restraint represents respect and appreciation, and this emotion is worth cherishing.