1. Introverts are not good at finding topics. When talking with people, you usually don't know how to speak. But introverts are good listeners. They are good at love and have the patience to listen to you carefully.
Introverts don't like to attend lively parties. They feel tired from attending many strangers' parties and often slip away halfway. But introverts like to get together with friends from time to time. Of course, introverts prefer to be alone.
3. Introverts can't get answers quickly in conversation; But the answers of introverts are all obtained after thinking. Introverts are very cautious about what they say, and sometimes they even prefer not to talk.
So how do you communicate with an introvert?
You may need to pay attention to the following three points:
1, you need to take the initiative to find a topic to start a conversation.
If you don't take the initiative to talk to introverts, introverts who are not good at finding topics will usually finish what they have to say, adding at most one or two polite words, such as "It was nice talking to you" and "How have you been recently", and then say goodbye with a smile.
If you have something to say, try not to chat aimlessly.
If you are uncomfortable and want to talk to someone, introverts will be a good person to talk to.
If you are bored and want to kill time by chatting, please don't look for introverts. When listening to others chatting aimlessly, introverts will listen with a smile and nod from time to time. In fact, their hearts are constantly sliding through various barrage:
"Find me say this? Shall I comfort you? "
"Where is the logical relationship between this sentence and the previous sentence? ! How can you suddenly turn to this topic? "
"It's been 20 minutes, and I still don't understand why you are talking to me. Can you let me go back to school! "
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Don't speak too fast.
No matter the speed of speech or the speed of topic change, don't be too fast. Leave some time for introverts to change their ideas. Otherwise, you have talked about another topic, and the thinking of introverts is still on the previous topic, which is easy to cause misunderstanding.