Infatuation has not been a woman's patent since ancient times. Men can also be loyal, especially men with a strong sense of responsibility. Treating emotional marriage is quite serious. Once they fall in love, they decide to die.
Unfortunately, not all marriages can be smooth sailing. Marriage is like a besieged city. People outside the city want to come in. Men and women in the city have lived too long and are eager for the scenery outside the city. Either side can't stand the dullness, can't resist the temptation, and the feelings are easy to split. If the heart can't come back, it can only end in divorce.
Wang Hai is six years older than Ding Lu. When they fell in love at first sight, Ding Lu decided to marry Wang Hai regardless of her family's opposition. Wang Hai was lucky and vowed to treat her well all her life.
After the marriage, Wang Hai did it. Besides going to work, he also does all the housework. When his wife wants to eat anything, he runs away and gets ready at once. As long as she is interested in clothes and shoes, she is willing to buy them, no matter how expensive they are, which simply spoiled her. Ding Lu's girlfriends complained directly and envied her for marrying a good husband. For women, material things are easy to get, but true feelings are hard to find. It's really hard to meet such a man who is kind to you wholeheartedly.
Both of them are working-class people and don't earn much money. In addition, Ding Lu spends a lot of money, and the days after his son was born are stretched. I wanted my mother-in-law to take care of her son when he was older, but Ding Lu was willful and frivolous, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was always bad. Finally, I was so angry that my daughter-in-law cried and went back to her hometown. Ding Lu had to continue to be a full-time mother.
Wang Hai earns money for her family. As a mother, Ding Lu still has no sense of responsibility, spends money without restraint, and keeps friends as before. Wang Hai couldn't afford to buy it for her, so she cried and scolded him for being useless, and the previous love affair ceased to exist. On the one hand, Wang Hai feels miserable, on the other hand, he feels that as a man, he can't give his wife and children a rich life.
By chance, the company got a well-paid job abroad. Encouraged by his wife, Wang Hai volunteered. Working in other provinces, I can go home once a month. Before leaving, Ding Lu promised gently that she would take good care of her son and let her husband earn the money back. Don't worry about things at home.
Going to work in a foreign country is a stranger, and Wang Hai, who is alone, is always worried about his home. The couple agreed to video for an hour after dinner. For this warm moment, Wang Hai works hopefully every day, hoping that the night will come soon. He never talks about the hardships in his work. Looking at the fashionable wife and the thriving son in the video, he felt that it was worthwhile to be bitter and tired again.
However, during a family reunion, Wang Hai found that Ding Lu had changed a lot. Although she used to like shopping, most of the goods she consumed were not expensive. Now, she is full of famous brands, and the latest mobile phone she just changed is at least 7000 yuan. Even if the monthly salary is sent back, it can't keep up with her consumption level. Where did his wife's money come from became Wang Hai's heart disease.
During the four days of rest at home, Ding Lu put her mobile phone at home every day, and also hid on the balcony to make a phone call while Wang Hai was asleep, even making out with him seemed perfunctory. There are indications that there is someone outside his wife. When this happened for the first time, Wang Hai was anxious and angry. He hates himself for neglecting his love for his wife in order to earn money. He just wants to talk to her. When Ding Lu heard her husband's doubts about her, she was furious and drove him away before the holiday was over.
Wang Hai stayed up all night. Finally, he came up with an idea. Ding Lu likes chatting online. Why doesn't he pretend to be a stranger and get in touch with her to see if he can get some clues? Wang Haixin applied for a trumpet. He remembered that Ding Lu especially admired men who drove luxury cars and deliberately chose a luxury car as his avatar. I didn't expect this to really work. Friend Request has just passed the verification for less than 5 minutes.
Wang Hai lied that he was a successful person. He worked hard alone in this city and was very lonely. He wanted to talk to a confidante. In order to show the sincerity of making friends, Wang Hai gave Ding Lu two 88 red envelopes, which undoubtedly narrowed the distance between them.
Ding Lu was very happy to receive a red envelope and took the initiative to send a few selfies to prove that she was online. Women love to hear compliments, and Wang Hai has always praised her for her beauty, a bit like her first girlfriend. When asked about Ding Lu's family situation, her answer was unexpected, saying that she was unlucky and married a man who didn't want to make progress. I'm really sad and want to talk to someone.
Hearing this, Wang Hai held back all the grievances in his heart and expressed his willingness to listen to his own voice. From that day on, Wang Hai often received news from Ding Lu. He tried to say something ambiguous. Ding Lu was not angry, but molested him. Wang Hai sends Ding Lu several red envelopes from time to time. After a while, Ding Lu developed feelings for him and took the initiative to meet him for further development.
Wang Hai pretended not to, saying that he was worried that Ding Lu would fall in love with himself after meeting and ruined his life. Ding Lu sent a message without thinking: "I haven't felt anything for my husband for a long time. As long as you are really good to me and let me live a good life, I am willing to divorce immediately and stay with you. "
A week later, the two agreed to meet in the cafe. When Ding Lu, dressed up, saw that it was Wang Hai, she was so scared that she insisted that she would go shopping on the way. Seeing that she was a liar, Wang Hai was heartbroken, no longer wanted to tolerate it, and resolutely divorced.
After the divorce, Wang Hai took his son and never contacted his ex-wife Ding Lu again. Nine years later, he took his wife and children back to his hometown to visit relatives. He passed a fruit stall and saw Ding Lu shouting to sell fruit. The once delicate face was caramelized by the wind and sun, and they looked at each other through the window of the luxury car. Finally, Wang Hai didn't come down and drove away, leaving Ding Lu alone.
For marriage, men value family integrity more. Maybe a man plays outside by himself, but he can't tolerate his wife's unscrupulous feelings. If a man can lead an honest and clean life, he is even less likely to accept his wife's affair.
In marriage, men bear more pressure and responsibility than women. He is not afraid of hardship, in order to have a harbor for physical and mental habitation. There is no intrigue in the mall, no intrigue among friends, only the warmth and companionship of his family.
Neither man nor woman wants to face the betrayal of the other half in marriage. This betrayal from family members is far more harmful than the outside world. Especially for men, having a successful career may have nothing to show off, and having a wife who never leaves is the most glorious pride.
In short, no matter whether you are single or married, everyone has the right to choose happiness, but before making a decision, please respect the people around you and never make a regretful choice for a little profit.