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Parenting is not an easy thing. In real life, raising a child is not much easier than giving birth to a child. Parents all have expectations for their children, and parents will also put expectations on their children in parenting. Parents should all hope that their children will grow up to be filial, sensible and excellent talents.
I will work hard to make money. In order not to let my children fall behind the starting line, I will send them to interest classes. Even if my parents scrimp and save, it doesn't matter. Whether a child will become a success is not only related to his own efforts, but also closely related to his parents' education.
Everyone should be familiar with the mention of Professor Li Meijin. Many treasure moms should be familiar with her. Professor Li Meijin has been engaged in the psychological research of teenagers for a long time. The main research objects are children of all ages and children with different personalities. Professor Li Meijin must understand the children and their growing environment. Professor Li Meijin is very experienced and unique in the family education of children.
Most of the children's problems in Professor Li Meijin are caused by their parents. If parents don't guide them correctly or correct them too late, it seems to Professor Li Meijin that children's personality, temperament and good outlook on life have a lot to do with their family education.
1. Being lazy is not used to being a parent
Parents can't do everything for their children at home, and don't let their children intervene in anything. Parents do everything for their children just like "nannies" and "personal housekeepers". It is wrong for parents to do this, and it is easy for children to develop the bad habit of being lazy. Children who love being lazy can't bear hardships and are not diligent enough. If children grow up, they will be less motivated.
If parents don't give guidance to their children, it will be difficult for them to become talents when they grow up. If they don't pay, they will get something. Parents must not get used to their children's bad habits of being lazy, so they should help them correct them as soon as possible.
2. disrespectful and impolite parents are not used to it
Politeness is a good quality in a child. No one likes a child with bad manners. Politeness is also a very important character for a child to communicate with others and make friends with others, and it is also one of the important factors to maintain a long-term relationship with others.
Respect for others and politeness is one of the basic enlightenment education that parents should teach their children. Parents must not get used to children's bad habits of disrespect and rudeness, so they should help their children to correct them as soon as possible, otherwise it will be difficult for them to become talents when they grow up.
3. parents are not used to playing tricks on their parents
when a child's needs are not met by his parents, some children like to use this trick to ask their parents to satisfy themselves. If their parents compromise, the children will know that this trick is effective and will continue to use it in the future. Parents will continue to let their children play tricks on their own.
If it is not stopped, children will become more and more willful, and they will easily be regarded as "uneducated". Parents may not be used to children's bad habits, so they should communicate with their children and help them correct them.
1. No matter what difficulties and setbacks the child can bear
The future of the child is his own after all. The child will leave his parents' side one day. The child should have some ability to resist setbacks and deal with problems. Parents don't care about the difficulties and setbacks the child can bear.
2. It is very important for children to do what they can, regardless of whether
children have a sense of independence. Parents don't care about what children can do, so let them do it themselves.
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