Dink is not right or wrong, mainly depends on whether you like children or not. Many people love having children. If you don't have the idea of carrying on the family line, you'd better not be together!
Personally, I think Dink's reason is.
(1) I don't like children, but I like plush animals.
(2) They prefer to invest in themselves or improve their living conditions rather than leave money to their children.
(3) Life is so beautiful and the world is so big. It is not worth losing infinite possibilities and fun for children.
(4) I support women's rights and think that women who can still fight for their careers in the workplace at the age of 40 are the greatest. Raising children makes it impossible for women to try their skills in the workplace (except for the old-age care institutions within the system)
(5) Making friends, traveling, studying, career, hobbies, sports, fitness, reading, etc. I am confident, I am old, and I have a very rich spiritual world. I really want to try and experience. I need time and energy.
(6) Unwilling to let the other half bear the cost of childbirth, such as pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum depression, occupational fault, out of shape, endless time cost and opportunity cost.
(7) Have a slight idealism, and feel that you should either give your children the best or not have children. Although I have 2kw assets (including real estate), I feel that I am just an ordinary middle class in Shenzhen, and I can't make my children stand out.
(8) Strong ability to resist risks. If you encounter risks, you can't support the elderly with your own strength. There are not too many responsibilities and high opportunity costs, such as changing the living environment, starting a business, investing, etc.
In a word, I suggest you jump out of the circle of traditional thinking and carefully consider whether you love children from the heart and have children.
Finding a girlfriend is definitely no problem. Marriage depends on fate! After all, Dink's acceptance range is still relatively small!
As long as you can find a girl who doesn't want children and still likes you, it shouldn't be difficult, because many young people don't want children psychologically and rarely face the pressure from their parents and relatives. As long as you can resist the pressure, it's easy. If you don't consider having children after marriage, it is recommended to make it clear before telling the girl that the girl wants children at a certain age, and don't regret getting married on impulse, so that you, the girl and both parents will be hurt. Please think twice before you act.