I'm my best psychiatrist.
Bold, cautious and thick-skinned. People should be diligent, ready to help others, do their best to help small things that can help, and win a good reputation.
If you get this word, you will get more help, but if you lose it, you will get less help. Treat people with sincerity and discuss things with things. In interpersonal communication, there are four taboos:
First, avoid being rude. Some people think that "thick needles and big threads" and simplicity and rudeness are the true colors of working people, while elegance in speech and manners are all bourgeois "goods". This small-scale peasant consciousness that despises modern civilization is very harmful.
Second, avoid losing your temper. Emotions and sorrows are human nature. But if you are in a bad mood, you must "digest" yourself, but you must never "attack" others, otherwise it will be very uncivilized. No matter how bad your mood is, don't lose your mind. Instead, we should restrain our bad emotions and control our anger ideologically. Being impatient and losing your temper casually will not only hurt harmony, but also make people "stay away from it."
Third, avoid flying short and flying long. It is not an exaggeration for colleagues and friends to say a few words from the heart, but it is absolutely not allowed to spread rumors and gossip irresponsibly everywhere. In particular, we should be careful not to gloat over other people's misfortunes, or even look back on them, adding fuel to the vinegar, and taking other people's privacy and suffering as our own talk.
Fourth, avoid talking too much. When getting along with others, don't overdo it, especially don't make fun of others casually in public places and office hours, and make fun of "degree".
In short, if you want to be popular in interpersonal communication, please be sure to abide by the "three A principles". The meaning of this principle is to ask people to accept, identify and value others as much as possible in interpersonal communication. It is called the "three-A principle" because in English, the initials of these three words are all A. American scholar Bujilin believes that "three-A" is like a basic food to satisfy people's self-esteem, which is irreplaceable by other things in interpersonal communication. His words deserve to be remembered by every employee of the enterprise, if you don't want to be hated.
Life is a process, not a point. Life lies in the process! Life lies in every day, and every day is unique and unrepeatable.
So we should make ourselves beautiful and happy every day and every minute.
So you have to adjust yourself:
1. Less desire,
2. Less,
3. psychological balance point,
4. contentment is always happy.
5. Change what can be changed, accept what cannot be changed, and don't lose yourself. 6. Live according to your own ability, and don't let other people's living conditions affect your mood.