Relationships are not like monkeys, so they will not be let go easily.

No matter what kind of person he is, at least you once had a good impression of him or may still have a good impression of him. Everyone is like this. As long as you have that feeling, even if you want it to disappear, it will not leave your sight so easily.

Actually, judging from your description of him, he is not as good as you think. Just because he has left such a deep imprint in your heart, your emotions always maintain his image in your heart.

If a person has a good impression of another person, then he (she) will impose many advantages on him (her). This is the strong reaction encountered in the relationship, which often makes people If you make a wrong decision, after two people get along for a while, you will slowly discover that the other person is not that good after all. So some people in relationships often regret it after they get it.

You and I are the same. Life is full of life, and no one knows what kind of world it will be tomorrow, so don’t place all your hopes on today. Maybe what you encounter tomorrow will be called happiness. Maybe there will be another person who walks into your world tomorrow, or maybe the person who walks into your world tomorrow is the person in your life.

Don’t be too attached to your feelings, just do what you need to do now! Put your happiness to tomorrow!

It’s not that you don’t have choices in your life, it’s that you don’t dare to choose, because you only have one choice most of the time, and once you make a decision, there is no room for regret. So we should be more cautious.

There is such a story: "There was an old gentleman who took three of his disciples to the edge of a wheat field. He asked his three disciples to walk from one end of the wheat field to the other and pick the one they were satisfied with. Wheat grains can only be picked once. As soon as the first disciple walked into the wheat field, he saw a big one, so he picked it. As he gradually walked through the wheat field, he found many bigger wheat grains. He couldn't pick it anymore, so he couldn't catch it. The second disciple walked into the wheat field and saw a big wheat grain. He wanted to pick it, but he was afraid that there would be a bigger one behind him, so he had to give up as he was about to leave. When he finished the wheat field, he didn't see any big wheat grains anymore, so he had to pick one at random. After the third son walked into the wheat field, he began to look at the wheat grains carefully. Halfway through, he roughly understood the size of the wheat grains in the wheat field, so he saw a big wheat grain in the second half of the wheat field and plucked it.

Perhaps you are all familiar with this story, but I am just wasting my breath by telling it. However, you should learn the method of the third disciple in the story and use his method to walk your life.

No matter what kind of person he is, or how you feel about him, just treat him as the big wheat grain you saw when you first entered the wheat field. After all, your wheat field is still full of grains. Not halfway through. So you should study hard. If you can't forget him, don't deliberately find ways to forget him. Let everything take its course, and when you really show up to him one day, he will leave naturally.

I wish you progress in your studies and get out of the emotional whirlpool as soon as possible!