The Orchid in the Konggu, 2021.11.7.
Being a person requires treating others sincerely, but you must also know how to guard against others.
Understand these five sentences of "Guiguzi" and cultivate your own city.
Easily see through the villain and leave him nowhere to hide!
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Look at words and deeds
To know a person is not to listen to how beautiful his words are, but to see whether his words and deeds are consistent.
Everyone likes to hear nice words, but they have no nutrition.
Anyone can write a bad check, but only a few can keep it.
There is a saying in "Guiguzi":
"Words and deeds are inconsistent, always contradictory, external and internal are inconsistent, and false festivals are established to appreciate the sight and sound."
A gentleman is naive. He is good at words and quick at actions. What he says may not sound nice, but he can stick to his principles in every move;
The villain has a bright tongue, but he says one thing and does another, but in the end he can't achieve anything. .
Confucius said: "Knowledge and beauty are the most benevolent."
When you meet such a person who only knows how to talk, you must be vigilant.
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Look at friends
You can see a person's character by who you are with.
Being in the company of gentlemen all day long, you will be influenced by what you hear and see, and your character and knowledge will not be too bad.
If you hang out with villains all day long, you will inevitably go astray together.
There is a saying in "Guiguzi": "If you benefit each other, you will be close; if you harm each other, you will be alienated."
Those who benefit from each other will benefit from it. Those who suffer damage will be harmed.
Get closer to those who are beneficial to you;
Stay as far away from those who are harmful to you.
The warmth and warmth of human relationships are such a reality.
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Look at interests
A person’s character can be known by looking at his attitude towards interests.
A gentleman cares about wealth while a villain regards wealth as his life. This is the difference between the two.
"Guiguzi" says:
"Eating and drinking are related to relatives, goods are bribed to exchange, losses and profits are combined, and rights and reputations are obtained and hidden in things."
For a villain, others are just tools for his profit.
What they care about is always their own little calculation.
Once a conflict of interest arises, they will immediately turn against each other.
You must stay away from such people.
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Seeing the world
There is a saying in "Guiguzi":
"A little knowledge but no great understanding, a little ability but no great achievement "People who care about small things and don't know the big rules will not live a good life."
People with narrow vision will not live a good life.
The poorest people in the world are not penniless beggars, but short-sighted villains.
If you only focus on the one-third of an acre of land under your feet, you will miss the scenery along the way;
If you are a little bit successful, you will feel that you are the best in the world, and you can't tolerate others in your eyes.
I can only see the small profits in front of me and have no longer-term plans at all.
Go for the benefits, take advantage when you see them, and care about others all the time.
When encountering difficulties in the future, it is easy to betray others and be abandoned by others.
Confucius said: "A gentleman has no power."
Only when a person stands higher can he see further.
Open your horizons and you will have no limits in life.
I feel more confident in speaking and doing things, and I treat others more appropriately.
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Look at the mind
A gentleman has an open mind and does things openly and aboveboard;
The villain succeeds. He is arrogant and loves to bully others.
He cares about everything and has no room for things, let alone others.
There is a saying in "Guiguzi": "To approach others with color, to be superior to others with spirit, to conquer others with words."
Strive for temporary gain, take advantage of words, and never review Own.
Always put the blame on others and show off to others at every turn.
As a human being, you win by being generous and lose by being careless.
If you behave like this, the situation will only become smaller and smaller.