My girlfriend and I met abroad. After working for five years, my girlfriend will graduate next year. The purpose of contact at that time was to get married. First, I am old and there are not many girls in China. Second, because my girlfriend is from the same province, it will be much more convenient in the future.
After getting along, I feel that my girlfriend is a decent and hard-working person, and I like it even more. To my surprise, my girlfriend is still a virgin. She was surprised that when two people were alone, they would think of men and women. I admit that I may be dark inside and think that something will change if I can't get it, so I kept asking her for it until she gave it to me more than half a year ago. I remember that I was very moved at that time and felt that I must be with her in my life. And as I said more than once, you can sign up at any time or go to the embassy. But my girlfriend said she was still at school and couldn't get married. I think so too. It's not too late to go home and see her parents before graduation and marriage.
But what happened next made me depressed. The second week after giving it to me, my girlfriend actually asked me for money, saying that she was afraid that I wouldn't marry her then and wanted 6.5438+0.5 million as a down payment. I said I couldn't afford so much money at the moment, and she asked me to give her more than 10 thousand from my salary every month until I got married. To tell the truth, it's not that I don't believe her. I just feel uneasy about giving her such a large sum of money before she gets married. And my previous salary was left to my mother. If it suddenly disappears now, it is hard for my mother to tell me. After all, she is not married.
So, I'd better register with her. After registration, I will leave all my salary to her, but she won't. Now he is pestering this matter all day, and the two of them have a very unpleasant quarrel. Obviously, they don't trust me. I always felt uneasy when she didn't give it to me at that time. Now that she gave it to me, she felt uneasy. I really don't know what to do. Do two people who don't trust me want to continue dating?
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