It is unforgettable that the ancients sighed for thousands of years: "A thousand cups will be too little when drinking with a close friend!" Such a close friend will definitely allow us to express our pent-up worries. Fine wine and song, the long moon in the sky, and the companionship of close friends, how happy it is!

However, most of our time is spent in the "unforgettable" situation. Even the poet Lu Li said, treat yourself as clay! If you always think of yourself as a pearl, you will always feel the pain of being buried. Yes, our eyes are so "picky" that we can only put ourselves in our eyes. The song "Mountains and Flowing Waters" written by Boya and Ziqi still lingers in my ears. There is no need to wonder why it is so rare to meet a close friend. The moment the qin was cut off, Boya already understood that there are only a handful of close friends in a person's life. There are all living beings in the world. If it is true, as the Buddha said, that five hundred times of looking back in the past life are just one pass in this life, then we must have seen through the past life.

When I first started learning classical Chinese, I was deeply attracted by Tao Qian's "The Peach Blossom Spring". It seems that a beautiful woman comes with a smile, her hands and feet are colorful, and the world is so beautiful. However, this mysterious world seems to have disappeared from the world. Liu Ziji from Nanyang was a noble scholar, and Tao Yuanming must have regarded him as a confidant whom he could only meet once in a lifetime, but it was a pity that "no one cared about him in the future".

Some people say that people struggle fearlessly throughout their lives. Baby Annie said that the perfect journey of life is to end without any problems and to say goodbye without saying goodbye. I think a close friend can make up for all this, even if it is "a rare occasion". I remember that there is a line in the ending song of "Crossing Guandong": "Your arms warm my frozen expectations." For some reason, these words warmed me and my family in the cold winter. Even if things are hard in the world, these gentle words make me believe that there will always be a confidant in this world with whom we can talk about our ideals and sing songs over wine. In order to meet this rare soulmate, I will cherish myself...

Fang Wenshan's lyrics are beautiful, and when sung by Jay Chou, they have a strong Chinese style. I accidentally learned that the two of them had a very difficult and even bumpy road before they became famous. But fate brought two ambitious young people together. Their combination is the most touching scene in the history of Chinese pop music. Meeting a soulmate is a miracle that shakes the world, both for yourself and the whole world.

I once read a sentence on the Internet: "When I meet you in my lifetime, I am like a bird and a fish. One is in the sky, and the other is deep under the sea." The sorrow of the two worlds is always heartbreaking, but I I think, as long as we have faith in our hearts, "the spring dries up" and the two worlds intersect, there will always be a day when they "help each other".

Friends are rare, at least I can wait...

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Friend definition:

Friends are Communicative objects are very important in interpersonal relationships. Some people's communication with friends has no beginning and ends halfway; some even turn against each other, plotting against each other and attacking each other.

Basic concepts:

Chinese Pinyin: péng you[1]

English spelling: Friend

English plural: Friends[2]

Spanish: amigo (male), amiga (female), amigos (male plural) amigas (female plural)

Italian: amico (male), amica (female) amici (male plural) amiche (female plural)

French: ami (male), amie (female), amis (male plural), amies (female plural)

Russian: друг

Japanese: Friend (ともだち)

Korean: 泎 (relative)

German: Freund

Arabic: [2]

Dutch: vriend

Thai: ?

Basic explanation:

1. People who have friendship with each other except lovers or relatives

As for making friends, it is enough to encourage people to do good and discipline others... - "Collected Works of Meng Tu" by Liu Kai of the Qing Dynasty

2. The object of love

Talk about Friend

3. Refers to friend [2]

I want to invite friends there, so you can pick a suitable thing and do it for me. - "Surprise at Two Moments" [1]

Traditional title

Friends - friends with a strong friendship.

Friends

Dead friends - friends who have a deep friendship and will be loyal until death.

Best friend - a friend with deep friendship.

Suyou - a sincere and simple friend.

Bad friends - friends who do not consider themselves (responsible).

Critical friends - friends who are honest and forthright with each other.

Friends who are helpful to you.

Allies - friends who form alliances for a specific purpose.

Netizens - friends made on the Internet.

Literary friends - friends who engage in literary exchanges.

Close friends - close friends.

Gay friend - refers to homosexuality

Best friend - a friend who talks about everything in the boudoir.

Pen pal - a friend who communicates through letters.

Constant friends - friends who will never leave you, forever.

Friends at the end of the year: break the differences in age and generation and become friends.

Zhitangjiao: refers to the friendship between opposite sexes.

Junzijiao: refers to moral friends, that is, friends who support each other morally.

Don’t cross paths with each other: It means that each other has the same mind and will never go against it.

Cut one's neck to make love: Refers to the deep and sincere friendship that can lead to life and death together and to overcome adversity.

Friendship between pestle and mortar: friendship regardless of poverty or humbleness.

Friends made between the poor and the humble: friends made when one is impoverished.

Buyijiao: Friendship between each other without being an official.

Friends in need: Become friends through hardships together.

Best friend: a friend with the deepest friendship and no suspicion.

Shijiao: also known as Shiyi and Shihao. It generally refers to the friendship between the two families for generations.

Old friend: also called old friend, old friend, old friend. Generally refers to old friendships.

Mere acquaintance: just acquaintance, but not very understanding.

Shidaojiao: In ancient times, it refers to friends made by doing business. Because of their heavy profits and forgetfulness of loyalty, they were later called "villain friends".

Friends: friends who know each other deeply.

Jinlanzhijia: refers to friends who have similar feelings. Later it also refers to sworn brothers.

Bamboo horse friends: friends who rode bamboo horses for fun when they were young, refers to friends who have known each other since childhood.

Rebirth acquaintance: Become friends with someone from both father and son generations.

Friends in cars and hats: friends who are not distinguished by their status.

Friendship between gold and stone: Friendship is deep and as strong as gold and stone.

Old acquaintance: a friend made in the past.

Friends from the bottom of my heart: A friend who talks about everything and confides in the heart.

Friends of poetry and prose: Friends made through poetry and prose.

Treat each other with sincerity: treat each other with sincerity. [1]

Related quotes

Quotes about friendship

●The most valuable thing about knowing each other is knowing each other "Han Li Ling"

●A gentleman dies for a confidant, and a woman looks good for a person who pleases herself.

●Have a close friend in the sea, and you will be as close to each other as far as the end of the world (Tang Dynasty, Wang Bo)

●If a husband has a close friend, he will be content in the world (Tang Dynasty, Zhang Wei)

●The most valuable thing in life is close friends, who meet flesh and blood relatives from all over the world (Li He of the Tang Dynasty)

●How many close friends can you count on your fingers in your life? (Bai Juyi, Tang Dynasty)

●I want to play the piano, but I hate not knowing how to appreciate the music (Meng Haoran, Tang Dynasty)

●High mountains and flowing water cannot be listened to unless I have a close friend (Wen Tianxiang, Song Dynasty)

●A bosom friend shows sincerity and sincerity (Song Dynasty, Wen Tianxiang)

●Those who are united in kindness and kindness are called bosom friends; those who are united heart-to-heart are called bosom friends --- (Ming Dynasty, Feng Menglong)

●A confidant is enough for a lifetime (Zhao Yi, Qing Dynasty)

●Reward a confidant with a strong heart.

●It is not difficult to die for a friend, but it is difficult to find a friend worth dying for (UK)

●The so-called friendship is one heart in two bodies ( Europe)

●Friends are the second self

●A thousand cups of wine is too little when meeting a close friend, half a sentence is enough to talk without speculation

●Like a small person in society A group of like-minded friends, this is the basic principle of human social attributes (Edmund Burke)

●Different ways, do not work together "The Analects"

●Comrades are Friend "Shuowen"

●The same tone corresponds to the same tone, and the same tone corresponds to the "Zhouyi"

●Compared to the same kind, the same tone corresponds to the same tone, and the solid principles are also "Zhuangzi"

●Those who are aspiring to the Way will have few friends, while those who are pursuing profit will have many friends. "Han Wang Fu"

●Those who share the same aspirations will not regard mountains and seas as far away; those who are good on the road will not regard the distance as close (Jin·Ge Hong)

●With the same voice, we respond, and with the same heart, we understand each other (Jin Dynasty Fu Xuan)

●Those who act in the same way tend to be the same, and follow each other thousands of miles away; )

●Like-minded people love each other

●A hero loves when he meets a hero, and a tiger and leopard rejoice when they meet a tiger and leopard

●If you want to understand a person, look at him friends (Mongolian)

●Look at the outside to know the inside, look at the friends to know the person

●There is a gentleman inside the door, a gentleman outside the door; there is a villain inside the door , the little person outside the door arrives

●True friendship is a plant that grows slowly (USA)

●People need to make friends for a long time, but the accounts must be short-term

●Be slow to choose friends, and even slower to change friends (Franklin)

●If you don’t make friends, you won’t be able to make friends

●The newer things, the better, friendship The older the better (Turkey)

●Sugar cane becomes sweeter as you eat it from the top down, and the longer the friendship lasts, the more sincere it becomes (Uyghur)

●The friendship between life and death is extremely precious.

●The deep love of friends can be cut with knives (Uyghur)

●New clothes are good, but old friends are good (Uyghur)

● Deep love Less respect, more jokes with close friends

●Remember it in your heart when you live, remember it in your bones when you die

●No one can defeat the one who can maintain friendship with those who often blame him (India)

●Do not leave opinions between friends until the next day (Africa)

●If a person does not have good friends, he will not see his own shortcomings (Soviet Union)

●A punch from a friend is better than a kiss from an enemy (Africa)

●The smile of an enemy can hurt, but the blame of a friend is friendship (Soviet Union)

●Except Except for a true friend, there is no medicine that can heal the heart (UK)

●The light gained from another person’s criticism is better than that gained from his own understanding and judgment. The light that comes out is cleaner and more pure (UK)

●The one who lures you with honey is not a good friend, but the one who gives you honest advice is a good friend

●A serious face towards you, That is a bright light (Kirgiz)

●A small quarrel in friendship is as good as adding some pepper to the food (Hungary)

●The stick should be long. When looking for a partner, look for someone who is strong

●When making friends, you must choose the one who wins (He Tan, Song Dynasty)

●There are scholars who talk and laugh, but there are no white people when you come and go (Liu Yuxi, Tang Dynasty)

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●Make friends with literature, and support people with friends

●A house full of distinguished friends, a cloud of successful friends

●A teacher for one day, a friend for life

●Learn from your friends and dress up in front of your shadow (Mongolian)

●Pearls and jade are not as good as good friends, and wealth is better than benevolent friends

●Ask your surname and you are surprised to see me for the first time. Calling names and recalling old looks (Tang Dynasty, Li Yi)

●At first glance, one can doubt one's dreams, and each other laments the age of each other (Tang Dynasty, Sikong Shu)

●Telling all the infinite things in the past, each other Look at the smooth white mustache (Tang Dynasty·Zhang Ji)

●See the autumn grass at sunset, and meet old friends in old age (Tang Dynasty·Li Duan)

●In the past, the king was unmarried, and his children suddenly came together (Tang Dynasty) ·Du Fu)

●Meet friends with literature, and use friends to assist people. "The Analects"

●In ancient times, from the time when the emperor reached the common people, he must mentor his friends to achieve his virtues.

(Cheng Hao, Song Dynasty)

●When learning, you must have a teacher, and when you teach, you must have friends (Lu Dian, Song Dynasty)

●It is difficult to be poor in learning, so help your teacher and make friends (Qing Dynasty) Tang Bin)

●It is important to learn and have teachers, and it is also important to have friends (Tang Zhen, Qing Dynasty)

●Teachers use questioning, and friends can resolve doubts (Li Xing, Qing Dynasty)

●If you are well-informed, you will be wise and wise. If you win over your friends, it will be easy to learn from them (Qing Dynasty, Wei Yuan)

●A hundred friends will benefit you if you have few, but one friend will harm you if you have many friends (Tibetan)

● Hypocritical friends often bow their heads when things go wrong

●If you make bad friends, it’s hard to get people’s respect. A friend is someone who sees you through and still likes you.

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Discord between friends is an opportunity for enemies to attack.

----Chinese proverb

Those who are close to vermillion are red, and those who are close to ink are black.

---Fu Xuan

There are three kinds of real friends: friends who love you, friends who forget you, and friends who hate you.

--Sanfer

A true friend is one soul conceived in two bodies.

---Aristotle

To learn alone without friends is to be lonely and ignorant.

---Confucius

Friendship is really the most sacred thing, not only worthy of special admiration, but worthy of eternal praise. It is the wisest mother of generosity and honour, the sister of gratitude and kindness, the sworn enemy of hatred and greed; it is ever ready to sacrifice itself for others, and does so entirely of its own free will, without the need of entreaty.

--Boccaccio

Friendship! How many people in the world, when they say this word, mean pleasant conversations over tea and drinks and tolerance of each other's weaknesses! But what does this have to do with friendship? --Fadeyev

Young men and women should maintain a sincere relationship, that is to say, there must be such a relationship: neither exaggerate nor underestimate anything. If you don't deceive each other, if you respect yourself and others, then no matter what kind of relationship you maintain - friendship, love, etc. - it will be a healthy relationship.

---Makarenko

We should not tarnish a friendship by maintaining it at any cost. If friendship must be sacrificed for the greater love, there is no way around it; but if it can be maintained, then it can truly reach perfection.

---Tagore

Ask nothing from your friends. When your friends are in trouble, you should do your best to help them. With such sincerity, you will know yourself. ——Fang Haiquan

Choose friends who are benevolent, righteous and moral. They will bring you unexpected joy. ——Fang Haiquan

Friendship is as valuable to the human heart as alchemy often says that their gems are to the human body.

--Bacon

Be careful when choosing friends! The pure selfishness will put on the mask of friendship, but also set traps to trap you.

--Krylov

Friendship is like pottery, it can be repaired if it is broken; love is like a mirror, once it is broken it is difficult to put it back together.

--Billings

Friendship has many names, but once youth and beauty intervene, friendship is called love and is deified as the most beautiful angel

--Chrysosl

Friendship is a selfless exchange between two equals; love is a humble exchange between a tyrant and a slave

-- Oliver Goldsmith

A large amount of friendship makes life strong, loving and being loved is the greatest happiness in life

--Sidney Smith

Since we are all mortals, it is better to keep friendship at a moderate level and not to get too involved in each other's spiritual life

--Euripides

Our friends Less than we imagine, but more than we know

---(Hofmannsthal)

There is something wonderful about great danger, it can make the unfamiliar The friendship among people is revealed----(France)

A just person has many friends (Europe)

Only by being generous to others and praising their beauty, can we Winning Friends

----(Evelyn Endhilf)

A straight tree has many uses, and a straight man has many friends

Loyalty is the basis of friendship. Bridges, deception is the enemy of friendship (Uygur)

A person with a cheerful personality always has three friends around him (Kazakh)

A person with a cheerful personality has many friends and a strong body Straight wood is of great use

A lazy horse travels a long way, a stingy friend is far away (Mongolia)

It is the rotten roots that destroy the water embankment, and it is the words that destroy the friendship. People who believe --- (Kirgiz)

You cannot become close friends with people who only care about your own happiness (Uyghur)

Although insidious friendship allows you to get some trivial Xiaohui, I want to deprive you of your precious independent thinking and pure love for the truth! (Russia) Belinsky

True friends do not talk about friendship. They do not ask each other for anything for the sake of friendship, but do everything they can for each other. (Russia) Belinsky

Words of kindness and promises of kindness are easy to say. Only in times of trouble can you see the sincerity of your friends. (Russia) Krylov

A true friend should tell the truth, no matter how sharp... (Former Soviet Union) Ostrovsky

Friendship, a noble and beautiful friendship based on mutual respect, deep sympathy, never malicious envy of others' achievements, and cultivating a sense of collective interests above all else for oneself. (Former Soviet Union) Ostrovsky

A true friend is happy for you when you succeed, but does not support you. When you encounter misfortune or sadness, we will give you timely support and encouragement. When you have shortcomings or make mistakes, we will give you the correct criticism and help. (Former Soviet Union) Gorky

Life is inseparable from friendship, but it is not easy to obtain true friendship; friendship always requires loyalty to sow seeds, enthusiasm to water, principles to cultivate, and understanding to care. . Marx

True and very sensible friendship is the most beautiful and priceless treasure in life. (Former Soviet Union) Gorky

Keep a certain distance between friends to make friendship last forever

——Charles

Whether it is a sentimental poem or a beautiful article , or the joy of leisure, nothing can replace the extremely close friendship. (Russia) Pushkin

Twelve thousand pieces of gold are easy to get, but it is hard to find a close friend!

——Cao Xueqin

Some people will compliment you endlessly, but they are not friends in need.

--Shakespeare

There is an umbrella that has been held out for a long time, but it still refuses to close when the rain stops; there is a bouquet of flowers that has been smelled for a long time, and it withers and refuses to be thrown away; there is a kind of friendship and hope. It can last forever, even if the hair turns gray, it will remain deep in my heart. (I saw this on the Internet. I don’t know who the author is.)

Only true friends will be shot for you.

--(USA) Newton

A true friend can forgive, let go, and care for everything except betrayal! --(middle) Ah K

Generation Qi Kuo, and Zicheng said. Hold your son's hand and grow old with him - The Book of Songs

Morality and justice are incompatible, faults are equal, and you are afraid of friends; priorities and priorities are trustworthy in life and death, and you are close friends; sweet words are like sweetmeats, and you are playing games to conquer them. Friends are like friends; when they benefit, they fight against each other; when they suffer, they fall in love with each other. They are thieves and friends. [1]

Famous Friendship

The friendship between Marx and Engels, the two revolutionary giants, is unmatched by any friendship in the world. Marx admired Engels' talents very much and said that he always followed in Engels' footsteps. Engels always believed that Marx's talents exceeded his own. In their common cause, Marx was the first fiddler and he was the second fiddler. The writing and publication of the classic "Das Kapital" was the fruit of their great friendship.

After the failure of the Revolution in 1848, Engels had to return to the Manchester office and engage in business activities. This annoyed Engels so much that he called it "damned business knowledge" more than once. And he made up his mind more than once: to get rid of these things forever and do his favorite political activities and scientific research. However, when Engels thought that the Marx family who was forced to live in exile in London often ate bread and potatoes and lived a poor life, he put aside the idea of ??abandoning business, gritted his teeth, persisted, and achieved success. This was done to help Marx materially, so that friends and the best thinkers of the communist movement could be preserved, so that "Das Kapital" could be written and published as soon as possible.

So, every month, sometimes even every week, there would always be a draft of one pound, two pounds, five pounds or ten pounds sent from Manchester to London. In 1864, Engels became a partner of the Manchester Ermen-Engels Company and began to provide vigorous assistance to Marx. A few years later, after he sold his partnership shares in the company, he gave Marx ￡350 a year. The sum totaled greatly exceeded Engels' family expenses.

From Marx's perspective, it was precisely in order to provide effective guidance to the newly emerging scientific socialism and to expose the fundamental flaws of capitalism that he accepted Engels' help.

Marx and Engels were close friends. Everything they had, whether it was money or knowledge, was inseparable from each other.

Although they have been separated for 20 years, their ideological common life has not ended. They corresponded every day and discussed political and scientific issues. For a time, Marx regarded reading Engels's letters as the most enjoyable thing. He often held the letter and talked to himself, as if he was talking to Engels.

"Well, no, that's not the case anyway..."

"You are right on this point!"

Marx was actually happy as he spoke. Tears were shed.

Marx and Engels respected each other so much that, in their view, anyone's criticism of their thoughts and works was not as significant as their exchange of opinions. So, at the first opportunity, Engels broke away from business and ran back to London. The two of them met every day, either at this home or that home. During the discussion they walked up and down a diagonal in the room and talked for hours. Sometimes the two of them walked in front of each other, sometimes they walked to the left and the other to the right, pacing silently for a long time until they reached a consensus. Then, the two of them laughed loudly.

August 16, 1867, this is a day worth remembering. At two o'clock in the morning that day, Marx reported to his comrades that the proofreading of all printed sheets (49 printed sheets per day) of the first volume of "Das Kapital" had been completed.

He was so excited that he wrote to Engels: "This volume can be completed only because of you! Without your sacrifice for me, such a three-volume tome would have been impossible." What I can't do, I embrace you and am extremely grateful!"

"Das Kapital" was published in Hamburg, Germany on September 14, 1867. This was a major event of great significance in the entire international workers' movement! , is also the fruit of the friendship between the two giants.

This understanding and friendship was so profound that it even lasted until after Marx's death.

When Marx was seriously ill, he told his daughter Elena that he hoped Engels could "do something" for the second and third volumes of his unpublished "Das Kapital". Of course, even if Marx had not made such a request, Engels would have done it.

For ten years from the time of Marx’s death in 1883, Engels put aside his work and worked hard to organize and publish the manuscripts of the last two volumes of Capital, adding a lot of materials and rewriting some chapters. This enabled "Das Kapital" to be published in 1885 and 1894

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"Talk about Friends"

◎Author: Ye Qianhua

When I mention friends, the feeling and warmth of cordial friendship will surge in my heart, but I can’t always tell how much deep or shallow meaning the word “friend” contains, nor what kind of separation is condensed between friends. Constant emotions. Friends are always established in relationships, hobbies and interests. The affection, care, and comfort that exist between people's acquaintance, congeniality, understanding, trust, love, and getting along with each other all benefit from human friendship.

Today's language may not be very particular, and people are accustomed to calling them friends in general. It's just friendship, and it doesn't have much profound meaning. In ancient Chinese, there is a clear difference in meaning between "friend" and "friend". Fellow teachers are called "friends" and comrades are called "friends". "Isn't it a joy to have friends come from afar" in "The Analects of Confucius·Xueer"? The "friends" here refer to classmates. Regardless of the part and meaning of words, it seems now that as long as people can talk to each other, they can call themselves friends. Therefore, regardless of age, job level, nationality, skin color, or personality and gender, as long as they can be classified as friends, everyone will feel that the distance is shortening, the hearts are getting closer, and the feelings are deepening.

Throughout the ages, we have been praised by the ages for those sworn brothers who are not born but are willing to die together, heroes who go out of their way to save their friends, bosom friends who share the same interests but hate each other, and those who are difficult to get married and hold grudges for life. The infatuated men and women are so heroic and tragic! How many soul-stirring chapters of generosity or immortal tales of tear-jerking wet wipes have been deduced. The reason for this is none other than the word "friendship". This friendship is the word "fate" in Buddhism, so that we can become close friends who make suggestions and confidants, classmates who seek knowledge and explore the truth, comrades who share the joys and sorrows, and friends who share the same interests.

The establishment and maintenance of relationships between friends relies on friendship. Only those who value friendship are true friends. Otherwise, how can "friendship be priceless"? The famous writer Liang Xiaosheng believes that there are three most precious friendships in life: one is first love, the other is a friend in need, and the third is middle school classmates. First love is everyone's first time. Innocent young men and women do not know how to pretentiousness and deception. Among the thousands of first times in life, it can be said that first love is the truest and purest. A sincere spring flows; a friend in need. After experiencing the test of life and death and difficult years, just like being tempered by a high-temperature furnace, it may become tough and resolute, or it may melt and disappear. The true feelings of being lucky enough to survive life will be more cherished; classmates in middle school have not yet matured, and they will not They will pretend to say things they don't mean, and there is no competition for profit or power. What they hold on to is their ideal, struggle and pursuit of the future. These are the foundations of true friendship.

However, the purity of first love will not freeze or terminate the rising relationship. In a stable society and a peaceful environment, how many times can anyone encounter life and death situations? Maybe it is so plain that you have never encountered anything, or maybe pain, troubles and twists and turns are always with you. Whether you like it or not, if not, people will not stay in the past and stand still.

Changes in current events can turn established friendships into close or distant ones, not to mention that people's concepts and understandings develop and change to varying degrees or continuously. Fame, wealth and power always squeeze into people's lives from time to time, tempting people to pursue or covet. Or seize or take advantage of. So there was a situation of focusing on one thing and not on the other. To use a common saying, people go to higher places. It is not enough to explain this, but it can only be divided into stages. At this stage, we are friends, and at the other stage, we may be passers-by or enemies.

In life, people cannot avoid the involvement of interests, and the existence and quality of interests can be said to be the touchstone for testing friends. I remember a foreign fable about two dogs who usually swore to be lifelong friends. Once their master threw a bone, they would glare at each other and fight for it until their heads were bloody. No wonder people often say that fair-weather friends are unreliable. The reason is that their relationship is based on the sharing of interests and mutual utilization. Villains have no friends, and if they do, they are not sincere, because they value self-interest and desire too much, and do not value friendship. In their eyes, friends are just weights for profit and playing cards for use. Especially those who trade in the officialdom and business world, even at the cost of their lives for greed.

Whenever interests and friendship conflict, feelings will become unbalanced and tilted. Therefore, things such as betraying relatives and friends in exchange for official fortune, sacrificing friends for personal gain, and deceiving friends for greed and enjoyment happen. The principles of life, laws and rationale for doing things were all thrown out of the window. All these and more, probably this is their character and their society.

In fact, the people of the opposite sex who are talked about the most and most enthusiastically in life are undoubtedly the friends of the opposite sex. It cannot be said whether it is magical or mysterious. Good people always enjoy it by making up stories, and poets and literati all over the world have also done their best. Some are deeply in love and unwavering, sighing, "I wish we had met before we were married"; some broadcast their love but never reap the rewards, singing a few lines: "Drinking without getting drunk is the highest, being lustful without being messy is a hero." There are also historical anecdotes, such as Confucius's special liking for Nanzi, but the friendship between the two never went beyond incest. Both parties "gentlemen use words but do not use hands." Another example is when Churchill met the female star Vivien Leigh. Although Qiu's heart has never grown old and he has admired her for a long time, he always kept a distance between them. He looked at the moon in the water and flowers in the mist. He touched the beauty with his eyes, radiated tenderness with his words, and radiated tenderness with his singing. Convey your feelings and become a beautiful talk in the world.

Distance produces beauty, and beauty comes from the communication between people. The basis of communication is sincerity, and sincerity is based on the true conditions of dialogue. It possesses love and seeks love. This is a topic of aesthetics, but why don’t people pursue beauty, discover beauty, understand beauty and enjoy beauty? Distance is a measure of propriety, and not all saints or great men can grasp it. Between friends, as long as they value friendship and cherish friendship, they will leave good memories and a permanent place in each other's hearts.

We must cherish our friends and be kind to the emotional relationships we have established. We must be able to sit together as equals to talk about the past and plan for the future, listen to each other, learn from each other, encourage each other, support and respect each other. These are good friends. Only in this way can we become good partners and good comrades. [1]

"Friends"

The colorless, tasteless and silent sadness in life is loneliness. It's not astringent, but it's distressing enough, as if a fluttering feather is falling from the gray and cold sky, and the loneliness is endless.

For me, experiencing such loneliness is when I miss my friends. Friends are a high-spirited song, a lyrical poem, a green grassland, a large forest with chirping birds and a cool breeze, and a sail that has gone away, swimming in Among the floating clouds, floating under the moon...

I miss my friends, often on nights when everything is silent and the wind is clear and the moon is bright. The curtains were gently blown by the wind, and the friend's words and deeds, especially the long and deep eyes, were rippling, either affectionate or lively and cheerful, pouring in along with the tidal moonlight, so it was clear that he was sitting in front of him. Friends who have not seen each other for a long time may excitedly recount their feelings when they met, or eloquently tell stories about what happened in the years after parting, or they may imagine and look forward to a better future together.

I miss my friends, often when the snowflakes are falling, and I walk comfortably in a world surrounded by white and dancing snowflakes. Each snowflake is like a letter from a friend. , like the greetings from friends, floating between the eyebrows and melting in the palms. In a trance, I seemed to see a blue dragon swimming on the snowfield, sometimes moving in the abyss, sometimes soaring into the sky. My friends were singing and dancing when they saw this, and they were happy and in love with the snow. For a moment, I felt that missing my friends was actually a beautiful enjoyment, because all the loneliness had turned into an unparalleled wonderful state.

I miss my friends, sometimes walking quietly alone in the vast wilderness. Occasionally, I looked towards the gray-blue sky and saw a group of wild geese forming a "human" shape overhead, chirping and flying leisurely towards the distant sky. At this time, you think, this wild goose must have flown across the vast Gobi desert, over the majestic snow-capped mountains and forests, relying on a kind of friendship and team spirit, always flying towards the warm and humid hometown with rich grass and clear water. At this time, you will think of and miss your friends, and think of the road you and your friends have walked together, walking hand in hand on such a wasteland, stepping on the moonlight, stepping on the Gobi, and finally at the dawn of the sound of wild geese, you two After walking out of the wilderness, friendship will remain in your heart. From now on, as long as you see a group of wild geese flying leisurely, you will always strengthen your faith and walk out of the lonely and long desert deserts one after another.

When I miss my friends, sometimes I miss an environment and an atmosphere. Even friends who meet by chance and are fleeting, as long as their hearts are so pure and kind, they are all so interesting and congenial and full of care and help. , so the environment, weather, colors when we met, and even the subtle feelings in my heart at that time will be engraved in the depths of the memory gallery with strong colors and different shades. As long as I think of it, I feel that there is a clear breeze and bright moon in my lonely and dark heart, and there is a clear and flowing mountain spring.