Eating a meal, being alone, is a bit embarrassing;
Others are chatting, and they can only play mobile phones silently, which can be said to be very embarrassing;
I wanted to go out to play on the weekend. I contacted WeChat for 5 minutes and couldn't find it. How embarrassing!
Why are you out of place in the company?
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Don't take yourself too seriously
Everyone thinks he is the most special and excellent.
If you keep this belief, then people around you are not pleasing to the eye.
Either she thinks there is something wrong with her personality, or he thinks there is something wrong with her personality.
Many times, we really should reflect on ourselves and why we always take ourselves so seriously!
"Looking at the mountain side into a peak, the distance is different."
You don't know other people, so don't define them easily.
Communicate more and know more about others, and you will find the bright spots of others.
Some people will constantly blame others for their faults and shortcomings, and feel that the surrounding environment and people are against themselves everywhere;
Or think that they are "high and low", and ordinary people can't understand their rich and profound thoughts.
You know, everyone has different ideas and different ways of doing things.
No one is obliged to accommodate you.
It is impossible to ask others to do things according to your point of view, just like you.
Lower yourself and look at the people around you with appreciation!
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Learn to appreciate others.
There is such a little story:
Divide the steamed rice into three bottles, say "thank you" to the first bottle, "asshole" to the second bottle, and say nothing to the last bottle, ignoring its existence.
As a result, the rice in the first bottle fermented and gave off a fragrance;
The rice in the second bottle rots and turns black;
The worst is the rice in the third bottle, which has a pungent taste.
Learning to appreciate, fundamentally speaking, is to challenge our inherent mentality.
Know yourself and yourself.
It is not enough to see only your own advantages. Learn to look at others with appreciation.
Look at others with appreciation, find out your own shortcomings, and try to catch up with your opponents.
In this way, skills can maintain a good cooperative relationship and promote their own progress.
It is not contradictory to be a man in the workplace to maintain good cooperation in the competition and not forget to help the old and take care of the young after success. Good character cultivation will only make competition more conducive to people's all-round development.
Look at the world with goodwill, and you will find that the world returns with goodwill;
Look at the world with a just eye, and you can only get bitterness.
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Ignite enthusiasm and make friends actively.
Although it is difficult to have real friendship in such a complicated environment in the workplace,
But you haven't tried. how do you know
It's easy to make friends when we have things together and have common topics.
Sometimes office friendships last longer than the work itself, as long as you have a good proper limit.
Good popularity is made.
You can't make everyone in the company like you, but you can make most people in the company like you.
So you should work hard at ordinary times and help others as much as possible while doing your job well. People's hearts are all meat, and everyone will see what you have done. Everyone is a witness to your growth.
In the final analysis, loneliness is your choice. As long as you take the initiative to step out of this step, you will certainly gain friendship.
Being out of place is actually a manifestation of autism and loneliness.
If you don't want to associate with others, how can others actively associate with you?
We should keep a calm heart and look at the world with a kind eye.