Personally, the biggest feature of people with low emotional intelligence is their lack of emotional ability. Generally speaking, ta can't stand on the other side's point of view, perceive the other side's emotions, and adjust their behavior accordingly, so that both sides feel relaxed and happy. Therefore, when you get along with people with low emotional intelligence, you think ta should have understood what you mean, but ta doesn't. You think ta should see that you are unhappy, but ta keeps poking at your sore spot ... But people with high emotional intelligence probably ignore this point, and maybe they get along well.