When interacting with colleagues, you must pay attention to five things. Only by paying attention to these five things can you have a harmonious relationship with colleagues.

First, don’t expect to make colleagues with whom you can talk about anything.

What is the relationship between colleagues? That is, we work together to do the same thing, that is, we choose a company together, and everyone has the same aspirations, cooperates with each other, and works together. When we leave the company, the relationship is basically gone.

Second, except for work matters, try not to talk too deeply about other things. The workplace is like a battlefield, and the relationship between colleagues is also very complicated. Especially, don’t speak ill of other colleagues in front of colleagues.

Don’t think that you two have a good relationship. Maybe they have a better relationship.

Third, managing relationships with colleagues is actually managing yourself. As long as you do a good job and your boss praises you, your colleagues will also look at you with admiration. This is the same as in society. As long as you are a well-known person, many people will chase you, otherwise others will ignore you.

Fourth, do not have financial dealings with your colleagues. It doesn’t matter if you treat your colleagues to a meal, but try not to lend money to your colleagues, otherwise it will be difficult for you to get it back after you leave the company.

Fifth, this is based on experience. You must learn to accumulate social capital. That is, you should do more good deeds, but do good deeds without worrying about your future. There is a saying that goes well, if you come out to mess around, you have to pay back.

This sentence sounds quite social, doesn’t it? I have another interpretation. I think the purpose of hanging out is to make others owe you. Except for borrowing money from you, you don't want to borrow money. If you can help others, then let's help.

For example, at work, even if you stay up all night to help your colleagues, you have nothing to lose. You are just a little tired, and you will recover after going back to sleep for a day, but he owes you a favor and your popularity. It’s hard not to be good. It feels good when others owe you something.

Most people are very polite and reciprocal. If I owe others, I will be very troubled and will always think about repaying others. I don’t like to owe others and would rather let others owe me.