The road of life is a continuous process, and you will inevitably meet all kinds of people along the way. The so-called immune, is just an ideal state. Most of the time, we should step into the group and keep the necessary social intercourse. Interpersonal communication, there are deep and shallow, the wiser choice is: to make friends with simple people, and to guard against complicated people. Naturally, a person's personality is good or bad, and it is not easy to hang on his face. There are people who follow the crowd. On the surface, they slap you, but in private, they are full of tricks. Just as the old saying goes: it is difficult to draw bones by painting a tiger's skin, but people know their faces but don't know their hearts.
there is nothing that can be guaranteed so easily to see through a person. Only by frequent exchanges can we get to know each other gradually. Simple-minded people don't have too many gossip in dealing with people, so it's not easy to make you unhappy intentionally, and they won't slander you behind your back. Those who are insidious and vicious in their hearts flatter you, deceive your trust, and make use of you while making you stumble. Crossing with the previous one, I feel free and easy; Crossing with the latter one, we feel hypocrisy.
when dealing with people, you must know how to "choose a teacher and pay for it". You can be vigilant when you meet people who have different opinions. People with dark hearts have such characteristics in communicating with others: blind comparison and jealousy, sowing dissension and heavy revenge. No matter which one you encounter, it is all inconvenience and calculation. Therefore, we must not so much distance ourselves, but try not to fraternize. 1 envy: I can't be nice to others
There is a kind of person who can't be nice to others even if his own life is not good. When you associate with such people, you can clearly feel that their words and deeds contain jealousy and resentment towards the people around them. Whoever lives better than him, he will slander others. One minute it is said that the origin of people's money is unknown, and the other minute it is revealed that rich people still have troubles. Even, driven by jealousy, they will do something against morality, such as deliberately framing others behind their backs.
people who hate the rich have distorted three views. I don't want to chase others with diligence, but I can only take pains to stop others from moving forward. She is not happy when others are better off; When others are in trouble, he will secretly laugh behind him. When you have such a good friend around you, you will not easily reveal your income to him, because this guarantee will arouse his jealousy. The effective way is to hide one's strength and forbid him to know a lot of information about himself, so as to prevent him from being slandered and even harmed. Right and wrong: those who love to play tricks behind their backs
who sow discord are not sincere to anyone. Or, it has no bottom line at all. What such people like best is to inquire about other people's privacy, and then take the secrets they know to get more people's secrets. Because he knows a lot, there is never a shortage of peers around him. Just because of this, he seized the opportunity to dominate the party. You spit out who you are in front of him, and he can sell you in an instant. Its purpose is to mess up other people's lives and then hide behind to join in the fun.
you should be extremely careful when talking to such people, because every word he says is setting a trap for you. It will deliberately say who is not good, test your mouth, and then let you say a lot of words that are not good for that person. If you don't mind and keep your mouth shut, it is equivalent to giving her a chance to sell you. The more you reveal to her, the worse your reputation will be. Generally speaking, no matter who you touch, you need to master and try not to discuss the right and wrong of others, so that you will be safe. Revenge: You must suffer
People with dark hearts not only like to distort other people's ideas, but also tend to hold grudges. Sometimes, you can annoy them for no reason without a word. Later, it will imagine many interfaces and stubbornly feel that you have been treating him. With these assumptions, no matter what you say or do, you can touch his sensitive brain. Its paranoia made him unable to think rationally about everyone's contradictions. It's small, which makes him worry about your casual posture.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with arguing between people. But it happened that he couldn't accept it, he couldn't swallow that breath, and he would think of all ways to get back at you. When it comes to revenge, that way must be very cheap. He wants to make it difficult for you to make a bad move behind his back, or it is easy to be associated with his family. From your parents to your children, it will become a thorn in its side. Just look at it and get angry. It is extremely dangerous to have such people around you. The sooner you avoid them, the better. You would rather suffer some losses than intensify contradictions. 4 emotional message
Life, like wandering the Jianghu, will be considerate to everyone around her during walking. The initial intention of doing this is not that everyone has complicated ideas, but that they don't want to be derailed by people with a heart. People in this life, intimate in essence. Only when you cross with a gentleman can you taste the taste of friendship.
There is a saying in The Analects: an upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried.. A gentleman is simple and broad-minded. It is not so much about exchanges, but may feel safe and secure. Little people, sinister and vicious, have complicated ideas. Not so much * * *, you may feel untrustworthy. When you meet a villain, you should keep a distance. Only in this way can you reduce unnecessary losses.