In the past, love was the order of parents, the words of matchmakers, and feudal customs, so one should not listen to them all. But now young people are becoming more and more independent-minded. They fall in love and make friends by themselves without asking for the advice of their elders. Some people secretly get married by themselves without consulting their elders. But if you don’t recognize people well, your family will be very distressed if you meet a scumbag or a bad person. A woman in Nanchang, Jiangxi was killed by her boyfriend just before she got engaged. What happened? Her family even foolishly planned her wedding.
The 18th was originally the day when Xiao Yi and Wang Donglong got engaged, but on the 17th, Xiao Yi’s body was discovered in the fish pond. It was completely unrecognizable at the time. After Xiao Yi's mother arrived at the scene, she collapsed on the ground and cried bitterly. For so many years, mother and daughter had been dependent on each other, but now Xiao Yi left her mother behind and left first. Xiao Yi's best friend couldn't believe this fact. When I was a child, I really hated my mother’s saying, “If you don’t listen to the elders, you will suffer the consequences.” As I grew up, I found that many things have come true. I used to think that everyone has their own choices, and the choices of the elderly are not the same. It will apply to us. Now I understand that old age is still hot, and parents have a better discernment than us in recognizing and defending people.
When Xiao Yi first met her boyfriend, she deceived and concealed her job. From this point on, she should not continue to develop the relationship. Moreover, the woman’s family and friends thought that he was idle and had a good skin. It's just that Xiao Yi did not listen to her parents' advice and insisted on going her own way. This was her choice. She also secretly obtained the marriage certificate and followed her boyfriend to deceive her parents. Lies seemed to have always played a large role in their relationship.
It is understood that Xiao Yi and Wang Donglong have known each other for three years. At that time, Xiao Yi was attracted by Wang Donglong's tall and handsome appearance and insisted on being with him. But in the opinion of Xiao Yi's mother, although Wang Donglong looks talented, he is not good in other aspects. But he couldn't bear that his daughter liked it, so he didn't interfere too much.
After the two got together, Xiao Yi took Wang Donglong back to his home and lived there for two years. Over the course of two years, Xiao Yi's mother slowly discovered that Wang Donglong was not a person worth trusting. Not only was his family relationship complicated, but he also didn't go to work every day while living at home. He only slept and ate all day long, and he didn't even know to say hello to his elders when he saw them. At first, he lied to Xiao Yi that he was a regular employee of the traffic police team, and later he said he was an auxiliary police officer, and then he changed his job several times.
Xiao Yi is a clerk at the Donghu District Court. Xiao Yi’s mother increasingly feels that the two of them are inappropriate.
In fact, this topic has been discussed all the time. This does not mean that you must not accept a marriage if your parents object to it, but you must be cautious! Because sometimes children see love, but parents see more of life. Just like what Jin Xing said in "The Voice": Love can be discussed apart from life, but marriage is not. Marriage is life. When it comes to emotional matters, your parents' opinions are important, but the final decision still rests with you. It’s not that you shouldn’t get married if your parents object to any marriage. It’s just that marriages that your parents object to must have their reasons. As an independent thinking person, what you have to do is to judge whether the reason is reasonable or unreasonable.
Also, Xiao Yi’s boyfriend has lived in her house for two years. Anyone with some ability would not be like this. It is conceivable that this person is indeed a bit bad. Finally, don’t find any reason to kill someone. There are problems with his own personality and psychology.