Regardless of men and women, almost no one can escape the obsession of first love.

You have been in a single-minded relationship, but then the person you like no longer pretends to be just you.

When the editor just graduated, without exception, he ushered in his own breakup season. Later, I dated a girlfriend, but I still couldn't let go of my girlfriend from college. Although I didn't take any action, I just thought about it occasionally, but I still felt uncomfortable in my heart. Being with a girl but still pretending to be another girl in your heart, isn't this the behavior of a scumbag that I thought at first? So I simply broke up later, thinking about when I could let go and be able to accept someone wholeheartedly before falling in love. As a result... I accidentally ended up single now.

First love seems to have an inexplicable status in everyone's heart and plays a decisive role. Even after a long time, when she appears in your life again, she can still make your world turbulent. I used to think that after a breakup, it would not take long for me to forget that person and find a more suitable and better girlfriend. However, even if you meet another person you like again, from now on you will no longer pretend to be anything else. Just one person. I believe many people will have the same sentiment as me.

I have asked several friends, and every time they mention their first love, they can’t help but think about it, either with full praise or with deep resentment, but no matter what it is, I You all understand, is it because you have a place for that person in your heart? "Do you like your first love more than your current girlfriend?" Every time I asked the question, I got a negative answer. Some of them loved their current girlfriends deeply and were grateful for their dedication and waiting for me, but they were still uncontrollable. Reminiscing about first love.

The love you have experienced is like the veins on a leaf, deeply engraved in your life, and will follow you until it melts into the soil, and cannot be forgotten.

Later I discovered that maybe what we cannot forget is not that person or a certain period of passionate love. What I can't forget is actually myself during that beautiful time, my emotions and feelings at that time, and my dedication at that time without hesitation. What I can't forget is my excitement, ignorance and beauty of my first emotional contact. If you really want to ask, is it true that you can't forget that particular person, it's not true. Because if you change another person, the person you can’t forget becomes this person.

Emotions have nothing to do with the quality of the other person. It just happens that someone appears in your unforgettable time and does unforgettable things with you. It doesn't seem to matter who this person is. Maybe the first love complex is like this.

Finally, I hope that everyone can cherish the people in front of them, hide the ones that cannot be forgotten, and keep them in their hearts. Even later we are no longer just one person in our hearts.

Do you have a first love complex? What does that feel like?

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