Du Qiuniang (Tang Dynasty)
Advise you not to cherish the golden robe, and advise you to cherish the youth.
When a flower can be folded straight, don't wait for it to be empty.
I wonder why my inlaid harp has fifty strings, each with its flower-like fret an interval of youth.
the sage Chuangzi is day-dreaming, bewitched by butterflies, the spring-heart of Emperor Wang is crying in a cuckoo.
mermen weep their pearly tears down a moon-green sea, blue fields are breathing their jade to the sun.
and a moment that ought to have lasted for ever, has come and gone before I knew.
—— Li Shangyin's "Jinse"
The green poplar grass is Changting Road,
It is easy to throw people away when young.
The dream at the top of the building is at five o'clock,
The flower bottom is sad about the March rain.
ruthlessness is not like sentimentality,
an inch is still thousands of strands.
when the horizon is poor,
there is only endless lovesickness.
——— Yan Shu's "Spring on the Jade Tower"
After a slight rain,
it was dyed red with apricot.
people are thin when spring is fine.
mirror cold makeup is not enough.
an oriole crows outside the willow.
I'm not interested in Chinese wine,
Because my eyebrows are half bent, my sleeves are printed.
—— Xu Fei's "Uncovering the Golden Gate" 2. An ancient poem about restraining impulses
Adolescents have sexual desires and impulses, which is a normal phenomenon in physical and psychological development. What is important is how to correctly understand sexual desire, how to effectively restrain sexual impulse, how to understand scientific knowledge and pay attention to hygiene, so that sexual organs and sexual functions can develop normally, and how to improve the ability of self-control, self-restraint and sexual impulse. To this end, we put forward the following suggestions for teenagers' reference:
(1) Set up lofty ideals and cultivate strong enterprising spirit. A person has an ideal, a goal in life, a strong sense of professionalism, and a persistent spirit. Teenagers with ideals and enterprising spirit will devote their energy to their studies and prepare for the success of their future careers, so that they will not put the issue of love in an inappropriate position prematurely;
(2) Communicate with the opposite sex normally: Young men and women should communicate normally naturally, frankly and amicably, so that their psychological needs for the opposite sex can be met. On the issue of communication, we should advocate collective communication and avoid frequent individual contact;
(3) Actively participate in cultural and sports activities and develop proper after-school hobbies. Actively participating in literature, art, science and sports activities beneficial to the healthy development of body and mind can release exuberant energy, dilute and transfer desires and sexual impulses, and achieve psychological balance;
(4) Avoid sexual teasing: read healthy books and newspapers, pictures, movies and TV. Don't look at anything sexually provocative. Nowadays, there are many sexual descriptions on literary works and film and television screens, and teenagers should try their best to avoid them. In addition, students should not talk and laugh too much about contact content;
(5) Be especially careful when making friends: Teenagers often show a strong sense of friendship and like to make friends, but this emotional demand for making friends is often childish and impulsive, and it is easy to be deceived because of their inexperience. Nowadays, there are many and varied communication places in the society, and people with bad conduct hang out in them, so a little carelessness may make mistakes and even regret for life. We believe that it is appropriate for teenagers to make friends between school classmates;
(6). From the aspect of physiological factors, it is helpful to restrain sexual impulse to do the following: 1). Strictly abide by the life schedule system; Go to bed on time, get up on time, and avoid excessive excitement before going to bed; 2). Pay attention to the cleanliness of genitals and wash them with warm water before going to bed every day. In addition to cleaning the surface of penis and scrotum, men should turn the foreskin upside down so that the penis head is completely exposed and washed with water; 3). Underwear should be loose, too tight will rub and stimulate reproductive organs; 4). Bedding should not be too heavy, too warm, and dinner should not be too full; 5). Go to sleep as soon as possible after going to bed, and don't think about it; 6). Sleep posture should be correct, it is best to lie on the right side, the lower limbs are slightly bent, and the whole body muscles are relaxed. Don't sleep on your back or stomach.
The above is quite nonsense. In fact, don't think too much. It's more effective to divert your attention. 3. The sentence about "impulse" is better to be compared, with a little momentum.
Impulse is the devil, and impulse will definitely destroy you.
impulsiveness confuses people's brains, and it is difficult to tell the difference between east, west, north and south.
impulsiveness makes people angry, and anger rushes over every day.
impulsiveness creates evil in people's hearts, and evil creates evil consequences in bravery.
impulse makes people angry, but I didn't know that fire can turn into steel.
impulsiveness makes people lose their senses, and brutality is cruel and stupid.
impulsiveness will make people lose their humanity, and animals are worse than animals.
Impulse is a wolf-eater, and a big mouth hurts people.
Impulse is a cobra, and its toxicity goes straight through people's hearts.
impulsiveness is a killing knife, which will kill you.
Impulse is an arrow through the heart, and pain is beyond words.
Impulse is more like a killer, but it's not the death that demands the soul.
Impulse is the devil. Sticking to it will definitely make you regret it.