In our life, people around us come and go. There are basically no people who can always accompany them. There are always many new faces coming into your life. Your good friends who used to be inseparable at school have basically become nodding acquaintances now. Time is like a sieve, screening all your friends again and again, and finally there are only a few good friends around you to confide in. Why do you have fewer friends when you grow up? I think it should be caused by the following reasons.
0 1. Busy with love and work, no time to contact them.
When we work, you will find that 24 hours a day really flies. After work every day, there are many miscellaneous things to do besides washing. When you have time, you have to exchange feelings with your relatives. Then you will have time to contact old friends. Even if you want to get together during the holidays, even in the same city, it is difficult for everyone to unify the holiday time. It's hard to get together. That's it.
02. It's too far away to meet.
Many friends are my classmates, but after graduation, everyone went their separate ways. Everyone is scattered in different cities, so it is difficult to meet once or twice a year. Even if you can contact online, the influence of distance is completely beyond your imagination. After a long time, your life circles are different, and there is nothing to talk about. This is how long-distance lovers break up, and so is friendship.
The geographical gap can really cut off the friendship between two people, because the geographical gap will bring you a spiritual gap. Not together for a long time, different lifestyles, different views and insights. In the end, you will find that you can never go back to the original, and everyone has changed.
When we grow up, everyone's ideas have changed.
What friends fear most is the spiritual gap. When we grow up, we come into contact with people and things at different levels. From the campus span to the society, everyone's ideas will change, but everyone's ideas will change in different directions and at different speeds. These things will affect whether friends have something to talk about. When your concept changes, you will talk about everything from the beginning to nothing now. It's normal not to contact, so I will lie silently in the other person's friend list.
The above three points are the reasons why the older you get, the fewer friends you have. Generally speaking, when you grow up, your heart is alienated, which may be the price of growth! The answer is really realistic and makes people feel very sad! If there are still good friends around you whose friendship has never changed for many years, please cherish your friendship.