1 The trick recognizes the meaning of life and the goal of going all out in life.

Why do you work so hard? Because you have to live up to your conscience.

If you want to be a master of interpersonal relationships, you must first confirm your values; If you can't understand this, it will be difficult to see through the meaning of life, let alone a sense of accomplishment.

The second trick lists five great achievements so far.

Knowing the other is wise; A bosom friend is a wise man.

The third trick is to know what expertise and resources you have that others urgently need.

God gave me the ultimate useful talent.

Whether your specialty comes from professional training or amateur exploration, it can be transformed into powerful "interpersonal kinetic energy". Do not underestimate yourself.

The fourth move is to bid farewell to the days of the lone ranger.

Do you still want to compete for the first place in the subject like primary school students? Don't be silly. In this world, there are only team achievements and no individual achievements, so there is no so-called "first place".

Say goodbye to your career as a lone ranger, and your life will change from black and white to color and start over.

Fifth, build self-confidence for yourself and help others.

Everyone has the ability to change the world, and you are no exception.

Take part in more activities, help others and help yourself.

Sixth, set short-term and long-term goals, review and revise them regularly.

Is the work plan useful? Yes, it can make a person have a fever for at least three minutes.

Setting goals can not only urge yourself, but also let others know what you need As long as you are diligent in communicating with others, your friends will naturally know what difficulties you have, and then help you realize your dream as soon as possible through the large network of interpersonal relationships.

The seventh trick is to draw a "network diagram" of interpersonal relationships to show their diversity and reach in this resource.

The characteristic of interpersonal network is that every member is the boss.

If you can keep the latest version of the interpersonal relationship diagram, it is not difficult to know how to take yourself as the protagonist and make good use of your interpersonal resources at this moment.

The eighth trick is to introduce yourself in a quite professional way.

On many occasions, your external image is far more important than your real ability.

The ninth trick is to introduce yourself concisely, appropriately and skillfully.

No matter what kind of social occasions, the first lesson in expanding interpersonal relationships is to learn to introduce yourself.

Try to win by surprise. Let the other person remember you firmly and remember a positive image.

10 trick to open the chatterbox skillfully.

Why do we often miss many opportunities to make friends? It is because we often use those prime time to rack our brains, but we still can't squeeze out a suitable opening remark.

Whether it is active or passive, it is handy to open a chatterbox. Once you can reach this level, no matter you are dumped on any occasion, you can quickly enter the state, expand your popularity at will, and create excellent development opportunities for yourself in life and career.

When necessary, introduce yourself again.

If someone comes to meet you, it must be a big shot.

Practice "condescending" and introduce yourself often, and your interpersonal channels will be wider and smoother.

12 recruits see their faces and remember their names.

People don't care how much you know about them, but whether you are listening carefully.

13 is good at being a competent host in social situations.

As long as there are human beings on the earth, there is no need to express your kindness.

14 recruits are willing to stand up and make a name for themselves.

You don't need to do anything to make yourself famous; On the contrary, it will help to realize your idea as soon as possible.

Recommend yourself moderately, let people know when they can ask you for help or advice, so as not to make your hero useless.

15 This trick is always treated with courtesy.

Even if life is short, it is more than enough to learn etiquette.

If you want to win by surprise, turn over and be the master. You don't have to go far, just practice your lines first.

16 business card must be a carefully designed work.

The role of business cards is to remind others that there are people like you in the world.

When others want to use interpersonal relationships to help, your business card is a very important clue. Don't design it hastily.

17 Mobile carries enough business cards anytime and anywhere.

Before going into battle, check whether you are "fully armed".

18 trick only hand in your business card when the situation is right.

When you are sure that you have something to say to each other, when the time is ripe, you should respectfully show your business card and agree on the way of contact and cooperation in the future. Only on this solid foundation can interpersonal relationships stand the test.

19 unique skill records the date and related matters on every business card received, which is convenient for sorting and checking in the future.

When others don't know whether you care about them, it is impossible to care about you.

Don't be stingy to express your gratitude.

Successful people have one characteristic, that is, they are always grateful.

Treat all the friends who have supported you with gratitude, and actively express sincere thanks. Slowly, you will find that not only your interpersonal relationship is stronger, but others will follow you.

No.265438 +0 trick, whether you know it or not, as long as it can inspire or inspire you, you should sincerely thank them.

It really takes a lot of courage to replace jealousy with praise.

How do you feel when you are rewarded by others for putting forward a great idea? Look at your heart. No matter who you know or don't know, as long as you can provide honest words or deeds, don't forget to smile and say thank you. After you form a habit, not only your career prospects, but also your outlook on life will be rewritten.

The 22nd trick is to make timely phone calls, send small cards, and send small gifts to express gratitude to each other.

As long as you are willing to praise others, you are the biggest winner.

Irrigation of a tree requires sufficient sunshine, water and nutrients, and the cultivation of your evergreen interpersonal tree depends on your constant care, through phone calls, cards and gifts. Don't let it die of malnutrition.

The 23rd trick is to have your own special letter, card and note paper.

Writing letters by hand is more intimate and gives people a different feeling.

Want to build your own golden signboard? Want to establish a good professional image? Make a small investment and print some special stationery. When you want to send it to customers, colleagues or friends, you will feel more decent.

The 24th trick is to accept others' thanks and help.

From whether a person is willing to accept others' thanks, we can get a glimpse of his interpersonal skills.

The 25th trick is to establish a systematic and effective interpersonal network.

Will be able to more effectively improve your operational efficiency in interpersonal relationships.

Why do some people get twice the result with half the effort and others get twice the result with half the effort? Because there is no discipline in doing things.

There is absolutely no outdated information on the business card.

If you don't have time to record new data every day, log in at least once a week to ensure the correctness and integrity of the data.

The 27th trick is to establish an effective time management system.

You may delay, but time will not. We can't ask for time delay to keep up with our pace, we can only try to catch up ... If you can control time, you can control everything.

Mind you, as long as you are willing to respect your own worksheet, others will not dare to take you on a business trip. Once time and resources are completely in your hands, it will be more than enough to rule the country and level the world.

Step 28 Check the work arrangement of the day in detail every day.

How do you know if you are getting closer and closer to success, or are you spinning around in circles? ..... The best way is to "check out" once a day and see how the schedule is implemented.

If you pay the bill once a day, your psychological burden will not be so heavy. Even if it is a huge project, we can feel the steady progress.

Twenty-ninth trick: Do what you can do today.

In fact, managing time is nothing, because every day is 24 hours. What you should worry about is how to settle the thousands of plans to eat this pie.

Never follow the example of a chronic doctor, or you will not be able to pay for it until midnight. Don't abuse your notebook. Don't put off what you can solve on the spot. Invisible, your work efficiency will naturally improve.

The 30th move must answer all calls within 24 hours.

If your business philosophy is "If you can put it off until tomorrow, you don't have to do it today", then it will be difficult for you to get ahead in this life.

Get into the habit of answering all calls within 24 hours, and you can ensure the smooth flow of information on your interpersonal network.

3 1 Before picking up the receiver, think about what to say later.

There are four steps to success: deliberate action, preparation, courage and persistence.

32. Refuse unnecessary socializing and entertainment.

If you waste time now, time will waste you in the future.

33. Make a plan before participating in social activities.

As long as everything is ready, you can still make a fortune even if your ancestors have no virtue.

The 34th trick is to actively seek the support of others.

You live in a harmonious society where everything exists, and it is not feasible to fight alone.

Most people are helpful, so give them a chance to show off as long as you think they won't help.

When you open your mouth, you should state your requirements simply and clearly, and you can't show an aggressive attitude.

How are interpersonal networks pulled together? It's simple, when a man is willing to fight. This kind of marriage is formed when another person is willing to get married.

Just seize the opportunity and don't forget to say, "By the way, who do you know ..."

If you ask, you will get it.

Next time you hit a wall, you might as well review whether your oral English can be improved. In fact, most people are helpful. Don't close the door of opportunity easily.

Thirty-seventh, immediately know the suggestions made by others.

Otherwise, after three minutes of heat, everything will return to the original point. It's no use talking without practice.

38. Every time I chat with my friends, I can feel many benefits.

I'm afraid it's hard for people who know how to let nature take its course.

39. Actively participate in various non-governmental organizations.

Incorporating into this big family, you have not only created your own career, but also achieved the dreams of many companions, and your merits are boundless.

When a group of people get together for the same purpose, interpersonal relationships sprout.

The 40th trick is to try to occupy a powerful position in the club.

Once you are promoted to a cadre, it symbolizes that you are a respected elder, not a mediocre person who just wants to come and carve up resources.

4 1 is diligent in handling other people's requests for help through interpersonal networks.

The most praised thing in * * * is that everyone is a winner, because the fruits of victory belong to everyone.

If you want friends to help you when you are down and out, the best way to deal with it is to invest more in peacetime.

Forty-two strokes, lift three feet with God and three feet with others.

How to cultivate self-confidence? It's very simple, just pick something that you are not good at ... As long as you can break through your own defense line, make a bold attack, and stick to it for a while, you will definitely feel like eating sugar cane backwards, and you will get better.

43. Always evaluate your network and expand it.

The establishment of interpersonal network needs persistence, not once and for all.

Rule 44: Trust your intuition.

Listen to your inner voice and you will get all the answers.

Unless you feel insensitive, there is no reason to ignore this voice from the bottom of your heart; Let it lead you, and you can grasp the situation as soon as possible and understand everything around you.

45 strokes will do their best to help every ally on the interpersonal network to rise step by step.

The maintenance of interpersonal network needs sincerity and patience.

It is only a matter of time before you cultivate your own strength by supporting your allies and build a building on this solid foundation, and then you will create a "win-win" situation.

The forty-sixth trick is to provide first-class service to friends.

Even if you don't set foot in the service industry, there are still many opportunities to serve others.

First of all, you should put up your own golden signboard to let people in the interpersonal circle know that you are reliable, so that they will be willing to make this investment, because they know that you will give back more in the future.

The forty-seventh trick is to like listening to friends' voices.

Normal hearing doesn't mean you will listen.

The art of listening is: listen to others patiently and don't listen wrong!

The forty-eighth trick is to have noble moral integrity and professional self-restraint.

If you don't say anything, there will be endless trouble.

Interpersonal relationships are useful, but never abuse them. As long as you can show a noble moral integrity and professional self-restraint, even your sworn enemies will be impressed and admired by you.

The 49th trick is to face every opportunity of "combination" with an open mind.

The difference between a great man and a mortal is that the former can respect everyone, including a tramp with a poor appetite.

The 50 th move laid a huge "intelligence network", which was watertight.

A benevolent person who can make others famous will definitely go down in history.

When you become a tinkling figure, it means that you have more resources to invite others to share, and this "virtuous circle" continues. This is not good!

5 1 the trick is to use interpersonal network to cultivate yourself, benefit others, achieve career and change your life.

If you need a bridge between your public life and your private life to exchange what you need, it is your personal network.

The 52nd trick is to keep thinking about networking.

This sword will rust and dull when not in use. If everyone can regard interpersonal relationship as a habit, the face of the world will be completely changed.

Zhao is determined to be a model student with strong interpersonal relationships.

A master of interpersonal relationships will never take hoarding resources as his own ability. Instead, he will invite others to share it from time to time and encourage others to do the same.

The 54th trick is to arrest the whole world with the interpersonal network.

There are so many interpersonal networks in this world that almost everyone is connected by an umbilical cord.