Recently, a platform launched a topic: What makes you feel relaxed after you figure it out? The content of many netizens' messages contains a process of "facing, accepting and letting go". These feelings about intimacy and personal growth ultimately lead to "letting go"-letting go of people and things that make you feel tired, leaving your hands on the road lightly and preparing for new hugs.

1

Friends come and go in life,

It is normal to be close and distant.

@ evening dress mask

2

Don't please "friends" who don't consider your feelings.

@dot

3

Friendship can't be overdrawn, so always keep some points.

Liang Shiqiu's Talking about Friendship

4

Making friends is natural, and there is no need to pursue it deliberately.

Zhou Guoping's Friends

5

It's better to have fun at first sight than to stay here for a long time.

@ Still

6

Emotions also have memories,

Stay away from those who make you feel negative and pessimistic.

@abrakadabra anna

7

Don't waste time on people who don't cherish you.

@ Eat Watermelon with a stove

8

People can only hope others to share their happiness, but

they can't force others to live according to their own ideas.

[America] Saul Bellow

9

What you think of yourself and what others think of you,

are completely different things.

@ ǐ hen'

1

A mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer people to blame,

Everyone has his difficulties.

Yi Shu

11

can choose to let go if he doesn't get it,

thinking that he missed it,

in fact, he may have escaped.

@Cha

12

Although my love experience was not smooth,

Although it brought me pain, anxiety and despair,

Although I wanted to leave early,

I always believed in the value of love in my heart.

[France] roland barthes's

13

The person you love at first is not the person you love at last.

Love is not the ultimate goal but a process.

With this process,

one wants to know another person.

[America] john williams

14

We are different from last year, and so are the people we love.

We are changing all the time,

If we can continue to love another changed person,

this is a lucky thing.

[English] Mao Mu's Reading is a Portable Refuge

15

To love someone,

is to give him your heart and that hammer at the same time,

because he has the ability to break this heart from now on,

because this is the person in your heart.

Li Jingrui

16

Don't rush to do anything.

you must remember that.

Everything about love

takes time.

[Japanese] nanae Aoyama

17

Husband and wife are like two people rowing together,

Neither of them can make it smoothly.

[Japan] Tsuhara Hiroshi

18

Perhaps,

the noblest feeling a person can have for another person is respect,

not love or liking.

[Spanish] Milena busquets

19

What the elders say is not necessarily right.

Sometimes they look at the past world and

take the past road.

@ A Di

2

Sometimes the longing aroused from afar is not to lead to a strange place,

but a call to go home.

[Germany] walter benjamin

21

No matter how long the journey is, pedestrians will be brought home.

The soles of boots are stuck with dust in the distance.

All bridges and roads in the world,

No matter how many times you turn left and right,

you always return to your own door in the end.

Yu Guangzhong's How to Relieve Worry

22

It's normal to be born and die.

Learn to spend more time with your family in a limited time,

and love yourself.

@ things

23

I don't know why you want to make yourself suffer from the past!

The past,

should be buried deeply.

we should look at the present and think about the future.

Ba Jin's Home

24

You should have the courage to be an ordinary person.

@ I often think about one or two

25

Whenever I encounter difficulties that I dare not face directly,

I will close my eyes,

imagine that I am an 8-year-old man,

because I have given up and escaped countless difficulties and regrets in my life.

When I get into the old man's mind,

I will say to myself:

"What I want most now is to be young again."

Then I opened my eyes ...

Bang! I am young again.

@ anonymous

26

If there is an award in life,

even if we don't win the first prize,

at least we deserve a participation award and an encouragement award.

[Japan] Kotaro Isaka

27

When you understand that

life and ego are not used to conquer, but to get along,

you will understand that some things are unreasonable,

but you must believe;

some things are not strong,

but you must rely on them.

[Canadian] Yann Martel's The Fantasy Drifting of Pi

28

What you chase away is

just like catching the moonlight with your hands.

You think you caught it with your hands,

You can take a closer look,

Your hands are empty.

Chi Zijian's Right Bank of the Ergun River

29

is not what others pursue,

it is what you should pursue,

People should have their own independent judgment.

@ Amy Xia

3

There are many things in life that can't be helped.

Giving up is not necessarily a proof of failure.

@ is better than braised pork

31

If one day,

I happen to have a carefree life,

I know I will miss this precarious life.

[Portuguese] femando pessoa

32

The world also needs useless things,

If everything must have its meaning,

it will make people breathless.

[Japanese] Hirokazu Koreeda

33

Many things that worry about anxiety are actually not so terrible.

It is better to relax and solve them step by step.

@ 丫丫丫

34

In our life,

time is spent talking to people in various languages:

naive, loving, faith, experience, history, fatigue, cynicism and decadent languages.

The language of love is obviously the lingua franca.

[America] joseph brodsky

35

Beauty, youth, wealth and even love itself

can't keep people from anxiety and pain,

stay away from sadness,

and can't keep them from losing what they love most.

Because, in life, some rains are bound to fall,

Some days are bound to be sad.

[America] Little Women, louisa may alcott

36

Life is not what you lived,

but what you remember.

The Sea of Life by Mai Jia

37

You can find a reason to be sad, and

you can also find a reason to be happy.

[America] Mark Twain's The Prince and the Poor Child

38

You can change your job if you don't like it,

There is no need to stick to a job safely.

Development should be long-term,

Happiness and health are more important.

@ Band-Aid

39

I regard life as the first important thing in life,

so I don't agree to talk about specialization early;

Talking about specialization early means taking a narrow road early,

And those who take a narrow road early,

often can't see everything in life.

Zhu Guangqian's Twelve Letters to Youth

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She loved and lost,

that should be enough.

She touched the essence of life,

She also visited dance academy,

One day,

we will all close the door and

put everything down.

[English] Rachel Joyce

Text/CCTV News Compilation

Figure/vision china

Seeing more people's troubles,

I found out that those who lived a transparent life

all knew how to let go of the past.

In life,

flowers and thorns always coexist.

I hope we can all figure out the problems we encounter in life slowly.

Face, accept and let go ...

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