People suffer from pursuing the wrong things. If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of my heart, I can't let go. You should always thank all beings who have given you adversity. You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they have hurt you, you should let go before you can get real happiness. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal. Persistence today will cause regret tomorrow. You can have love, but don't be persistent, because separation is inevitable. Don't waste your life where you will regret it. If you put it down, there will be no worries. 10 Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity. 1 1 Arrogant people can be saved, but people with inferiority can't. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others. 12 Don't always be dissatisfied with others, but always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, it is yourself who suffers. 13 If a person can't forgive others from the heart, he will never feel at ease. 14 People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear other people's voices. 15 It only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please have mercy. 16 Don't look back to see who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite back? 17 Never waste a minute thinking about someone you don't like. 18 Please speak out your dissatisfaction and grievances with sympathy and gentleness, others will accept it easily. 19 Why did you put the poison in the same bottle? Why is the same heart full of troubles? We always feel that what we can't get is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. One day, when you know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think. 2 1 It's lucky to live a day, so cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet. The more you care about others, the less you care about yourself, understand? It is a great loss to hate others. Everyone has a life, but not everyone knows life and even cherishes it. Life is a punishment for people who don't understand life. Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of your emotional attachment can you feel at ease. Don't be too sure of your opinion, so you will have less regrets. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can cheat you. It is shameful for a person to cover up his shortcomings by hurting others. Caring and blessing others silently is an invisible charity. Don't try to guess what others think. If there is no correct judgment with wisdom and experience, mistakes will usually be made. 3 1 To know a person, we only need to see whether his starting point and destination are consistent, so we can know whether he is sincere or not. The truth of life is hidden in the plain. People who don't take a shower won't smell good if they wear perfume hard. Fame and honor come from real talent and knowledge. Germany is naturally fragrant. To forgive others is to leave room for manoeuvre in your heart. Time will pass, let time drive away your troubles! If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be very painful. There is no cure for people who always distort the goodwill of others. Why tell one lie and make up ten lies to make up for it? Living a day in vain and doing nothing is like committing theft. Making friends with many people means not hurting anyone. Silence is the best answer to slander. 4 1 To be respectful to others is to be solemn to yourself. If you have a selfless love, you have everything. What comes is accidental, and what goes is inevitable. So you must, with the fate unchanged, with the fate unchanged. Compassion is your best weapon. As long as we face the reality, we can surpass it. Conscience is everyone's fairest judge. You can fool others, but you can never fool your own conscience. People who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves calmly, what are we pursuing? What are we living for? Don't stay away from your closest friends because of small disputes, and don't forget the kindness of others because of small resentment. Thank God for what I have, and thank God for what I don't have. 5 1 Anyone who can think of others from their perspective is compassionate. Don't be aggressive, don't be lethal, don't brag about your abilities, and don't preach the evil of others. Naturally, you can turn your enemies into your friends. Be honest with your inner contradictions and stains, and don't deceive yourself. Cause and effect never owe us anything, so please don't complain. Most people only do three things in their lives; Self-deception, cheating, being cheated. Heart is the biggest liar. Others can cheat you for a while, but they will cheat you for a lifetime. As long as you are at ease, everything is fine, both north and south. Don't run by yourself before one of you reaches the limit. When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person is obsessed with his own ideas and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level. It will be a blessing if you can spend the day safely. How many people today can't see the sun tomorrow, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their homes today. You have your outlook on life, I have my outlook on life, and I won't interfere with you. As long as I can, I will influence you. If not, then I'll accept my fate. 6 1 If you want to master eternity, then you must master the present. A bad mouth should never come from our mouth, no matter how bad or evil it is. The more you scold him, your heart will be polluted. Think about it, he is your good knowledge. Others can violate the cause and effect, others can harm us, beat us and slander us. But we can't hate others for it. Why? We must keep a complete nature and a pure heart. If a person does not feel pain, it is not easy to feel sympathy for others. If you want to learn the spirit of saving the suffering, you have to suffer first. The world doesn't belong to you, so you don't have to abandon it. What you want to abandon is persistence. Everything is for my use, not for my use. Although we can't change the world around us, we should change ourselves and face it with compassion and wisdom.