If you put it on the window sill of an ape, it is the same as a dolphin.

If you are unlucky, you can do whatever you want.

If you put an ape in a cage, it will be like a pig. It's not that it doesn't have the ability to climb skillfully and jump lightly, but it doesn't have the opportunity to display its skills.

People must learn to actively find the environment and opportunities suitable for their strengths in order to truly show their talents.

If it is not the right time, you should learn to wait.

02

Can withstand the wind and rain, can sharpen an iron man, not to be envied, is a mediocrity.

Life always goes through difficulties and hardships, and only those who can persist can be regarded as real men; Talented people are bound to be envied. If no one is jealous, it only shows that he is a mediocre person.

People always experience many hardships and setbacks in their lives, and only through these hardships can they achieve real maturity.

In this world, you should be a talented person who can make a difference. Even if you are envied by some people around you, you should go ahead and do your best.

Others will not envy mediocrity and stupidity. Others are jealous, proving your Excellence and Excellence.

In the face of others' jealousy, we should have our own way in our hearts. You might as well make a big step to open the gap and let others turn jealousy into respect for you.

03

Serving people is too frugal, and treating people is too heavy. Everything is simple, you don't need it. This is the way to cherish blessings and protect your family.

I'd rather live too frugally; I would rather be generous to others. Everything should be simple and economical, and it must not be wasted.

Thrift is the way to cultivate one's self-cultivation and keep a house. A thrifty person does not stand, and an thrifty family does not prosper.

With the prosperity of material life, extravagant and wasteful phenomena such as "face consumption" and "ostentatious consumption" abound in life.

This consumption concept not only wastes resources, but also makes people lose themselves in the extravagant wind and make no progress.

04

Let the bank not lose money for life.

When dealing with people, you should learn to suffer.

This is a sentence from Zuo Zhang's army.

No one wants to be wronged, but life will always make you wronged. The value of being a man lies in being willing to bear hardships.

"Caigen Tan" said, "Losing the world is a blessing, and human feelings are long." You must suffer some losses first, and then you will be blessed.

* * * With others, taking the initiative to eat some losses can often solve thorny problems. If two people, no one will suffer, cooperation will naturally be unable to start.

Losing money is a hidden investment. People who want to take advantage of everything in communication will become lonely sooner or later. In order to get more returns, they will suffer some losses in time.

05

Be careful to make friends and study hard; Go to glitz.

To be a good person, we must do the following: make friends seriously and work hard.

Be down-to-earth and not opportunistic. Too ambitious, with impetuous emotions, will only be a mess.

Only by starting from small things and abandoning impetuous mentality can we continuously improve our ability in basic work and accumulate strength for future development.

There is no overnight success in the world, and the road to success comes step by step.

If you don't work hard, you won't succeed even if you meet more noble people and have the best opportunity.

06

Deer hunter ignored the rabbit.

Deer hunter doesn't care about rabbits.

To be a man and do things, we must learn to grasp the roots, focus on the goals and go all out.

In this state, there is no time to be half-hearted and look around. On the contrary, you are still outside the door, not yet in the state.

07

A good swimmer will drown, a good rider will fall,

Everyone does his own thing, but it hurts himself.

Those who are good at swimming are easy to drown, and those who are good at riding are easy to fall off. It is because of their strengths that they get into trouble.

The same is true in life. The more you face what you are good at, the easier it is to be arrogant, the easier it is to take it lightly, so the easier it is to stumble.

Be careful in everything, be careful to sail for thousands of years.

08

I don't know the night, the moon doesn't know the day,

The sun and the moon are bright and full of energy.

The sun doesn't know the night and the moon doesn't know the sun. Both the sun and the moon have light, but they can't know both night and day.

Everything, including people, is inevitably one-sided. Look at people, things, and yourself, and you must have this understanding.

On this basis, we should learn to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, keep and follow our own trajectory like the sun and the moon, and shine by ourselves, so as to get out of a smooth road and last forever.

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