Chatting online has become the most common way to make friends, and many lovers are often born from the list of friends.
The secrecy of online chat objects also forces people to be vigilant.
The use of online chat tools such as headphones and cameras improves the authenticity of online chat.
The object of online chat sneaked into my heart.
Almost everyone has several long MSN or QQ lists. Everyone has several names like "old cat" and "curly bun" in their mobile phones. Almost everyone has experienced online dating at least once ... the name "netizen" has become blurred, because many netizens have quietly become a member of our lives.
From ICQ, QQ, Bubble, Yahoo! To MSN, from voice chat to video chat to QQ, from chat room to group chat, from forums to clubs, from online games to blogs ... The colorful online life almost makes up for all the boredom, monotony and verbosity in real life.
As the saying goes, there are rivers and lakes where there are people, and there is love where there are rivers and lakes. The rose flower of social networking is online dating.
No matter how unreliable experts say online dating is, the success factors are very small, but it is far from the romance of "first intimate contact". Moreover, there is a legend that a woman from Henan fell in love with a Polish presidential candidate and got married recently, not to mention a living example of online dating turning into a positive result. Now, no one can ignore this courtship mode.
golden rule
"Bold Imagination" is super rich in imagination, imagining the other person as a handsome guy with a well-proportioned tree, a beautiful woman who is ashamed to enjoy flowers, a talented person who talks eloquently, and a confidant who knows mountains and rivers.
From online to offline, from meeting to communication, "careful verification" began a rigorous and critical verification journey, including real name, age, identity, experience, personality, medical history, love history, bad hobbies and so on.
"Super endurance" has a great influence on the gap between imagination and verification results, and all disappointments are laughed off.
Online blind date is practical and not embarrassing.
Wang Hongyu, female, 30 years old, magazine editor.
These two years are basically online dating. The so-called online blind date is the online version of traditional blind date. After I turned 27, my friends and relatives began to introduce me to friends, but it was embarrassing to meet directly, and it was easier to die than online dating. Secondly, we don't have much time, so after the introducer introduces each other's situation, they will exchange QQ numbers or MSN of both parties and chat first. If chatting feels good, we'll meet ourselves.
Except for the traces of identity, the rest are no different from netizens. I usually talk to him for a few days first, and it's nothing to take a ride. See if we can make an appointment, as long as the screen name is not too retarded and the chat is not too slow. That kind of feeling is similar to knowing a netizen-in the process of online chat, my personality hobby is probably estimated, and my appearance size is also conveyed by the introducer-a little curious and kind, but blind date is second. However, I met some men who care about looks. They insisted on seeing your photos and then asked to video with you. I often video with ordinary netizens, but I refuse this because I am very photogenic, and I am afraid that they will be disappointed when they see me, hehe.
Reporter (hereinafter referred to as reporter): We have been chatting and making friends online for many years, and there are also many negative news. Why is it an important social way among mature white-collar workers?
(hereinafter referred to as Wang): In real life, the social circle of many young people is actually very narrow. On the one hand, there are too few diversified social ways. On the other hand, the busy life of urbanites makes them have little leisure to experience the traditional ways of making friends, and the fast and diversified Internet provides a good starting point for making friends.
On the Internet, you can not only make friends with comrades (meeting the objective conditions), such as lawyers' forums and doctors' forums, but also make friends with different interests (not meeting the objective conditions), such as F 1 clubs and game forums.
Reporter: What do you think is the new trend of chatting and making friends online?
Wang: Younger. Most people who have been surfing the internet around the age of 30 have had the experience of making friends online. But now those who chat, make friends or love online late at night are mostly teenagers.
Reporter: What do you think of online chatting as a way to make friends?
Wang: Single urbanites should expand various ways of making friends. Sometimes, chatting and making friends online, with its most direct spiritual communication, is purer and easier to make friends than traditional utilitarian friends. However, in further understanding, as a communicative individual, we must have a mature and prudent attitude.
better late than never
Trying to break into each other's social circles.
Although compared with the early rambling chat rooms and QQ dating, many online dating methods are more connected now, and the biggest weakness of online dating is that it is easier to know than to know. Therefore, no matter what kind of online dating, caution is the first. Besides knowing more about yourself, you should also try to know his social circle, including classmates, relatives, colleagues and non-network friends. In addition, in the process of online dating, your own mentality is also very important. Although you can't help yourself in the depths, you should know that this method is illusory and simulated. Don't be too emotional, let it go. Once it is over, you should leave as soon as possible.
Adventure opportunity
Under the three layers of contacts are "familiar" people.
The famous French detective Poirot said that the relationship between any two strangers can be discovered through three layers of contact. So the probability of making friends online is almost as high as 99.999%. The most common thing is that your net friend turns out to be a classmate of a classmate's colleague, and then there are neighbors, classmates, alumni, colleagues, classmates' sisters, 70-year-old grandfather, ex-girlfriend, boss, Jay Chou, and a Dalmatian named Derby. ...
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