Don't give me too much love
Zhang Ruonan was born in a village in Wenzhou, Zhejiang. She has four children. She is the eldest daughter. Compared with her two sisters, Zhang Ruonan is lucky. She inherited the best genes from her parents and was beautiful since she was a child. Wherever she goes, she is the focus of everyone. Every time her father takes her out shopping, the return rate is super high. However, Zhang Ruonan did not get more love from her parents because she was beautiful since childhood. The love parents give their four children is a one-size-fits-all experience. I don't want others to love me too much, I will have a burden. This is also Zhang Ruonan's heartfelt words. Because grandma prefers boys to girls, Zhang Ruonan and her two sisters didn't get much love from grandma, which also helped her develop an independent and sensible character. With grandma as a comparison, Zhang Ruonan's requirements for his parents are even lower.
When Zhang Ruonan was in her early twenties, her mother told her that because she was the eldest daughter, she would take care of her family in the future. From the standpoint of ordinary people, a mother can tell her daughter that she has to support her family and has no sense of boundaries. After all, it is the duty and responsibility of parents to support their families. In Zhang Ruonan's cognitive concept, this foreign word spoken by her mother is accepted and recognized. She has been keeping her promise. Four years after her debut, she spent all the money she earned to support her family.
Love is hard to find.
If you haven't met anyone this year, you'll have to go home for a blind date. Zhang Ruonan had a blind date with a 30-year-old man before her debut. Parents also have very traditional views on Zhang Ruonan's marriage. The elders think that women will eventually return to their families. Although Zhang Ruonan is born in 1995, she is a woman in the new era. In fact, her bones are still very traditional. Getting married and having children is also a way for her to go. Growing up in rural Wenzhou, her peers and girlfriends are married. This increased her desire for marriage. The biggest wish this year is to get rid of orders. Zhang Ruonan claimed that she never wanted to spend New Year's Eve alone again.
It is even more difficult for Zhang Ruonan, who is now a minor celebrity, to fall in love. First of all, she doesn't know whether the other person loves her reputation or her. Secondly, it is too difficult to find a serious person with the same frequency. For the conditions of mate selection, Zhang Ruonan also disclosed four conditions. First, you don't need to be handsome, you just need to be mature and steady. This actually ruled out Zhai Zilu, who plays opposite Zhang Ruonan. Both of them have a little sugar in and out of the play, but I didn't expect Zhai Luzi to meet Zhang Ruonan's mate selection conditions. Second, he should have a bright spot. For example, the other party can act, sing and play musical instruments. Third, people should have good personality and humor. Fourth, the most crucial point is that he can only be good to her, not to the central air conditioner.
Zhang Ruonan's public mate selection criteria are actually very high, and few can meet these four points. Zhang Ruonan claims to be a woman who is willing to give up a lot for love, except her own career. When career and love are on the same scale, she will decisively choose career. In Zhang Ruonan's view, women must have their own careers. Only in this way can they have self-esteem and will not be looked down upon by men. She doesn't appreciate a woman who asks her boyfriend for money with her palms up, and she doesn't appreciate a woman who has plastic surgery for her boyfriend.
self-contemptuous
Zhang Ruonan, as soon as she debuted, was a symbol of the school flower. She has a pair of smart big eyes, fair skin, a good face and figure, and is a veritable beauty. However, Zhang Ruonan is not confident about her appearance. She regrets that girls with foreign looks like her have caught a lot. This sentence by Zhang Ruonan is not from Versailles. In the eyes of ordinary people, Zhang Ruonan is a goddess. However, Zhang Ruonan is not really a beautiful female artist in the entertainment circle. Because there are too many beautiful female artists in the entertainment circle. Another reason why Zhang Ruonan feels inferior is that she doesn't have her own core values. In the entertainment circle, she is not irreplaceable. There will never be a shortage of anyone in the mainland entertainment circle. Zhang Ruonan has a clear understanding of herself. She can only try to improve her acting skills, so she is confident. Otherwise it will be replaced one day. As an actor, the most important thing is not appearance, but acting. Appearance will fade with time, but acting will not.
Zhang Ruonan's greatest wish is to win an award in the future. Now 25 years old, she feels that winning the prize is far away from her. This is also the reason why Zhang Re wants to switch to a producer. If one day an actress can't walk this road well, she still has a way out. After four years of debut, Zhang Ruonan still has no such life as an entertainment circle. In her own words, she is only half a step in the entertainment circle. It's too difficult to make friends in the entertainment circle, and you need to be versatile. However, she can't do this. What Zhang Ruonan fears most is to walk the red carpet every time. Every time she walks on the red carpet, she is so nervous and depressed that she even walks with her hands and feet. As a female artist, she wants to have her own exposure, but she is afraid of being photographed by many cameras. This is where Zhang Ruonan is entangled. In the final analysis, I am not confident enough, not confident enough. Because there is no job to take. Zhang Ruonan is a girl who lives very clearly. She never became a star. After becoming famous, she went out shopping to buy clothes. She also sat on the sofa and tried on the clothes outside at will.
Happy is also Zhang Ruonan's current state of mind. Without any constraints, live easily, face everything indifferently, and focus on what you should do more. Zhang Ruonan doesn't classify herself as a high-flying female star, but is just an ordinary artist in the entertainment circle. She will be like an ordinary girl eager to get married and have children, without the vanity mentality of a female star. Female stars have physical anxiety, but Zhang Ruonan doesn't. Faced with fried food and carbohydrates, she still eats with her mouth open. She really leads a very self-centered life. Zhang Ruonan is a very strange girl. At the age of 25, in the colorful entertainment circle, she has not been affected, and she can be so arrogant and so indifferent to fame and fortune. This is definitely a realm. Love and affection are still her main chapters.