Living in an era of materialistic desires, everyone is accustomed to showing the most perfect side of themselves to others, using smiles and calmness to cover up their inner loneliness and confusion. If you can have a sincere and reliable confidant, Friends are a very gratifying and fortunate thing.
Among adults, the most difficult thing is not communication and getting along, but heart-to-heart communication and honesty. We have all experienced too many disappointments to achieve our current maturity. We are all used to being on guard and no longer believe and be moved easily. In reality, only those who have experienced the sifting of time can be relied upon with confidence.
1. A true friend does not have to be with you every day, as long as you have a sincere relationship with each other.
Many people think that making friends means finding someone to accompany them, but in fact, the meaning of friends is not to have someone by our side, but to have two people’s souls that are in harmony and that their souls are together. "Mary and Max" tells the story between two pen pals. It is simple but touching.
Mary is a lonely and depressed little girl living in Melbourne, while Max is an autistic Jew living in New York. The two exchanged letters across two continents, but continued to correspond for twenty years.
You can't see or touch it, but you can open your heart to each other, showing an in-depth analysis of friendship and self. There are no complicated storylines or scene changes in this movie, but it makes people believe that friendship , can make two people become soul mates no matter how far apart they are.
"Always remember, you are my best friend, you are my only friend, this world is no longer lonely because of you."
I think this is it The true value of friendship is what distinguishes it from other emotions. There is you and me in this world. No matter when, we don’t have to be lonely, even if we are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers and cannot see each other.
2. Long-term friendship is hard to come by.
What is a friend? You don't just get to know someone casually, talk a few words, and have a few drinks, you can become a friend. In this life, people will always meet many people, encounter many things, and gradually understand various truths. However, what can really move people is the patient companionship over the long years.
You know so many people, but how many of them treat you sincerely? By your side, you have "Miss Lu", "Brother Lin", "Fatty Wang", etc. that you trust. What a lucky fate this is! You know, many people never have a true friend in their lives.
Someone asked me, which one do I prefer, "a long time" or "a long time"? I like "a long time" because it sounds like a long, long time.
What we look forward to more is actually "forever", but we don't easily say these two words anymore. Good friends like Boya and Ziqi are hard to find in a lifetime, and long-lasting friendship is even rarer.
Looking at the names in the address book that I have not contacted for many years, I understand that sometimes it is not that we do not know how to cherish, but that from beginning to end, we have never had the determination to stay together for life. Maybe each of us , are all waiting for the heart that we are willing to accompany.
3. Friendship is very valuable, cherish it when you encounter it.
Life is very long. In decades, we have to go through countless hardships and ups and downs to find the value and meaning of our existence. Life is also very short, because time will not treat anyone. Be merciful, no matter how many people and things you are reluctant to let go of in this world, you can only keep moving forward.
Just like in "The Bucket List", Carter and Edward, two strangers who were originally incompatible with each other, lived together because of illness. Their status was very different, but their time was running out. In the end, In their lives, they fulfill each other, support each other, and fulfill their last wish in this life.
Friendship is very valuable. Maybe some people appear later, but it is not easy to meet them. Once you meet them, cherish them with all your heart.
After all, not everyone can enter our hearts and leave unforgettable touches and surprises.
I hope that my deep love will not be let down, and I hope that the outcome will be worthy of my sacrifice.
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