Ceng Zi avoided the seat.
"Ceng Zi is not at his seat" is a very famous story in the Book of Filial Piety. Ceng Zi is a disciple of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, and Confucius asked him, "The king of the sages has supreme virtue, and he needs mysterious theories to teach people all over the world and make people live in harmony. There is no dissatisfaction between the monarch and the minister." Do you know what they are? " Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that Confucius wanted to point out the deepest truth in his heart, so he immediately stood up from the mat where he was sitting, walked outside the mat and respectfully replied, "I'm not smart enough. How can I know?" Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. " Here, "avoiding the seat" is a very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher.
Standing outside the door on a snowy day, waiting for Cheng Yi (Cheng Yi) to wake up and teach-respect the teacher and emphasize the road.
The story of "It snows when you open the door" tells the story of Shi Yang and You Zuo, scholars in Song Dynasty, asking for advice from Cheng Yi and Cheng Hao. Cheng, a native of Yichuan, Luoyang, was a famous Neo-Confucianism in the Song Dynasty. Cheng's theory was inherited and developed by Zhu, which is called "Cheng-Zhu School". Shi Yang and Zuo You, who are studying Chengcheng, have great respect. You Yang, two people, originally studied under Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, both of them were forty years old and had been admitted to Jinshi. However, they had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day when they first visited Cheng Yi in Songyang Academy.
According to legend, one day, Shi Yang and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to visit Cheng Yi, and met an old gentleman who closed his eyes and took a nap. Cheng Yi knew that two guests were coming, but he wanted to keep silent and ignored them. Yang Heyou dared not disturb Mr. Wang's rest, but stood in awe and said nothing until he opened his eyes. After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yicai woke up like Luo, met Yang Heyou, and pretended to be surprised and said, "Ah! Ah! Sages have been calling here for a long time! " It means you two are still here. It was a very cold day in winter, and I don't know when it began to snow. There is more than a foot of snow outside the door.
This story is called "Cheng Men Sydney". It was widely circulated among scholars in the Song Dynasty. Later, when people describe respecting teachers and earnestly seeking advice, they often quote this allusion and idiom.
Four foreign classic stories
1. Misunderstanding
Early in Alaska, a young couple got married and had children. His wife died in childbirth, leaving a child. He is busy living and looking after the house. He trained a dog because no one helped to look after the children. Dogs are smart and obedient, can take care of children, can bite bottles to feed children and can raise children.
One day, the master went out and asked him to take care of the children. He went to another village and couldn't come back that day because of the heavy snow. When he got home the next day, the dog immediately heard the sound and came out to see his master. He opened the door and saw blood everywhere. He looked up, there was blood on the bed and the child was gone. The dog is nearby, and its mouth is full of blood. After discovering this situation, the owner thought that the dog was sexually assaulted and ate the child. In a rage, he cut the dog's head with a knife and killed it.
Then I suddenly heard the child's voice, saw him climb out from under the bed and picked him up. Although he had blood on him, he was not hurt. He's weird. I don't know what's going on. Look at the dog's body. There is no meat on his leg. There is a fox next to him, still biting dog meat in his mouth. The dog saved the little master, but he was killed by the master by mistake. This is really the most amazing misunderstanding in the world.
Misunderstandings often occur when people are ignorant, irrational, impatient, lack of thinking, unable to understand each other in many ways, reflect on themselves and feel extremely impulsive. At the beginning of misunderstanding, I always only think about each other's mistakes; So the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper and get out of hand. If people misunderstand ignorant animals and puppies, there will be such terrible and serious consequences, and the consequences of this misunderstanding between people will be even more unimaginable.
nail
There was a boy with a bad temper, so his father gave him a bag of nails. And told him that whenever he lost his temper, he would nail a nail in the fence in the backyard. On the first day, the boy nailed 37 nails. Slowly, the number of nails hammered down every day decreased. He found it easier to control his temper than to hammer those nails.
Finally, one day, the boy will never lose patience and lose his temper again. He told his father about it, and his father told him that from now on, as long as he could control his temper, he would pull out a nail. Day by day passed, and finally the boy told his father that he had finally pulled out all the nails.
My father took him by the hand and came to the backyard, saying, You have done well, my good boy. But look at those holes in the fence. These fences will never be repaired. What you say when you are angry will leave a scar like these nails. If you stab someone with a knife, no matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will last forever. The pain of words is as unbearable as the real pain.
People often hurt each other forever because of some persistent insistence. If we can all start from ourselves and start to be tolerant of others, I believe you (you) will receive many unexpected effects ... helping others open a window is to let themselves see a more complete sky. ....
Step 3 wait a minute
Most of my colleagues are very excited because a new director who is said to be very capable has been sent to rectify the company. However, as the days passed, the new supervisor did nothing. Every day, he walks into the office politely and hides in it. It's rare to go out. Those nervous bad elements are even more rampant now. "He is an artist there! He is very nice, and he is more gullible than the previous supervisor!
Four months later, just when I was really disappointed in the new director, the new director flew into a rage-all the bad guys were fired and the capable people were promoted. He started quickly and judged things accurately, and he was almost like a completely different person from the conservative one in April.
At the new year's end-of-year dinner, the new director made a speech after three rounds of drinking: "I believe everyone must be puzzled by my performance during my new appointment and the radical measures taken later." Now listen to a story and you will understand: "I have a friend who bought a house with a yard." As soon as he moved in, he completely renovated the yard, cleared all the weeds, planted his newly bought flowers, and one day the original owner visited. My friend just found out that he actually used peony as a grass shovel.
Later, he bought another house. Although the yard was more messy, he stayed where he was. Sure enough, plants that were thought to be miscellaneous trees in winter bloomed in spring. I thought spring was a weed, but summer turned into brocade; A small tree that hasn't moved for half a year turns red in autumn. It was not until late autumn that it really realized which plants were useless, and vigorously eradicated and preserved all the precious vegetation. At this point, the supervisor raised his glass: Let me propose a toast to all of you here, because if this office is a garden, you are all rare trees in it. Rare trees can't blossom and bear fruit all year round. You can recognize them only by long-term observation!
be very generous and hospitable
This is the story of a soldier who came back from the Vietnam War. He called his parents from San Francisco and told them, "Mom and Dad, I'm back, but I have a reluctant request. I want to take a friend home. " "Of course!" They replied, "We will be glad to see it." But my son went on. "But there is one thing I want to tell you first. He was seriously injured in the Vietnam War and lost an arm and a foot. Now he is desperate. I want to invite him back to live with us. " "I'm sorry, son, but maybe we can help him find a place to live." The father went on to say, "Son, you don't know what you are talking about. Disabled people like him will bring a great burden to our lives. We have our own lives to live, and we can't let him ruin them like this. I suggest you go home first and forget about him. He will find his own sky. " At this time? Hung up the phone and his parents never heard from him again. A few days later, the parents got a call from the San Francisco Police Department, telling them that their dear son had fallen to his death. The police think this is just a simple suicide case. So they flew to San Francisco heartbroken and led by the police to the morgue to identify their son's body. That's their son, yes, but surprisingly, the son has only one arm and one leg.
The parents in the story are like most of us. It's easy to like people who look good or talk funny, but it's too difficult to like people who bring us inconvenience and unhappiness. We are always more willing to keep our distance from those who are not as healthy, beautiful and intelligent as us.
However, thank God, some people are not so cruel to us. They will love us without regrets, and they will always accept us no matter how bad we are. Pray to God before you go to bed tonight, okay? Give you the strength to accept others, no matter who they are; Please. Help us understand those who are different from us. There is a magical thing hidden in everyone's heart, which is called "love". You don't know how and when it happened, but you know it always brings us special gifts.
You will also understand that friendship is the most precious gift given by God! Friends are like rare treasures. They bring laughter and inspire us to succeed. They listen to our inner words and share every compliment with us. Their hearts are always open to us. Tell your friends how much you care about them now.
Liuzhou 1 10 has many stories about the selfless dedication of the police.
65438, February 3, 2002 +09:52.
People's Network Guangxi Window 65438+February 3rd (Qin Fulin Liu Shan) On February 30th, 2002, the alarm service desk of Liuzhou Public Security Bureau1/kloc-0 turned 6 years old. More than 2,000 days and nights, "1 10" activities were held among the masses. There are 16 policemen in the center, including 15 girls in their early twenties. In the process of receiving the police, they interpreted a touching story of selfless dedication to the people.
One of the stories: We must find her.
On a recent day, the alarm service desk of Liuzhou Public Security Bureau 1 10 received a call from a Jiangsu couple: "We just got a call from our daughter who works in Liuzhou, saying that she has lost confidence in life. Let's take care. Comrade police, help us find her! Don't let her do anything stupid. " The only clue left by the couple to the alarm desk is the phone number displayed when the daughter and her family are on the phone, and the mobile phone number of her boyfriend.
We have to find her. The police officers at the alarm desk kept calling the victim's boyfriend's cell phone, but no one answered, but they didn't give up. After more than half an hour, my boyfriend finally answered the phone. It turned out that the woman had just quarreled with her boyfriend and broke up. According to the dress characteristics provided by her boyfriend, the police finally found a woman who was suicide because of lovelorn under Liujiang Bridge. The news was fed back to the command center, and the four policemen on duty and the director on duty took a long breath.
Story 2: The Art of Receiving Police
"Someone molested me, come and save me, come and save me." As soon as the police officer picked up the phone, a woman's pleading voice came from the other end.
"Where are you?"
"I don't know."
"Don't worry, please speak slowly. What car did you take to go out? " Xiao Zhao felt that she could not ask questions directly like other policemen, so she was guided. Receiving police is actually very artistic, so we have to take different methods to deal with some special alarm calls.
"I went out by motorcycle."
"Where to?"
"Have tea with a group of friends."
"Then what happened?"
"After drinking tea, I felt so sleepy that I fell asleep. I woke up to find two men sleeping naked next to me. "
Under the guidance of Xiao Zhao, the woman who called the police gradually explained what had happened.
The police in Liucheng county searched for the woman according to the instructions of the command center. The public security police tracked down two perverts and quickly cracked an anesthetic gang rape case.
Story 3: Everyone is a "living map"
There are 1500 to 2,000 calls to the 1 0 alarm service desk every day, with an average of 1 calls to1minute every half minute. After receiving the general call for help, the police officer should inquire about the situation within 1 minute, and quickly input it into the computer and display it in front of the police officer on duty.
The alarm service desk requires every policeman to be very familiar with the streets in all urban areas of the city, so that when giving an alarm, he can quickly judge the road section where the alarm occurred through the description of the masses, so that "1 10" can quickly send out the police and handle the alarm situation. In order to meet this requirement, the girls at the alarm service desk rode bicycles or motorcycles up and down the street after work and got into small streets. Now these girls not only remember the names of all the roads in the city, but also tell the characteristics of any road, which is simply a "living map".
Story 4: The troubles of the police flower
According to the statistics of 1 10 alarm service desk, nearly 60% of the calls received by 1 10 every day are false alarm calls and harassing calls. The girls continue to work with their hands, eyes, ears and mouths, but most of their energy is wasted.
Once, a man made harassing phone calls for one night in a row. First, he wanted to chat with the police flower, then he wanted to make friends with the police flower, and then he kept scolding the police. When the young policewoman heard the man's foul language, she was so angry that tears rolled in her eyes, but she still suppressed her anger and repeatedly discouraged the man from interfering with the normal work of the 1 10 alarm service desk. Another time, a fashionable girl took a pet bitch to Liujiang levee and happened to meet an old man with a male dog. In an instant, the two dogs separated from their owners and became close. In a rage, the girl dialed "1 10" with her mobile phone and complained to the girl who called the police. An old ghost's male dog molested her female dog and asked "1 10" to call the police, which made the girl who called the police laugh and cry.
We can't let a party member fall behind —— The story of a community party branch secretary's selfless dedication in preschool education activities.
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Xingyi News Center Zhang English Liu Xingcai 2005-08- 19 09:55:59
In late summer, the heat is unbearable. In the early morning of August 5th, Sun Changxin, the producer of party member, drove his own Changhe van and bumped on the rugged mountain road in the depths of Wan Fenglin. There are four people sitting in the car, including Zhang Baizhen, the general party branch secretary of Fumin Road Community in Huangcao Sub-district Office of Xingyi City. This is a special trip for party member Qin Wengang, a 62-year-old native of Qinjiaping Formation in Biliang Village, Jingnan Town.
Sun Changxin himself doesn't know how many times he went to the countryside to "make up lessons".
Qin Wengang is a retired worker of the former brick and tile factory in Southwest Guizhou. Because there is no housing in Xingyi, he has to return to his hometown in Jingnan, which is more than 30 kilometers away from the city. As a * * * party member, although he lives in the mountains after retirement, Qin Wengang's heart is always connected with the Party organization. At the beginning of the second batch of party member's advanced education activities in Xingyi City, he learned that he was party member, who was born in Xingyi City and participated in this activity. He climbed mountains and walked more than 8 kilometers to Chenshang Village, Yaoshang Town, Jingnan Town, and went home to study with his first textbook. Because Chen and he are colleagues, they both belong to the second branch of Wenhua Road, the general party branch of Fumin Road Community.
Although Qin Wengang's enthusiasm for participating in pre-teaching activities is very high, because the communication and transportation where he lives are very backward, the branch can't inform him every time he organizes a concentrated study in party member. As the secretary of the second branch of Wenhua Road, the general party branch of Fumin Road Community, Sun Changxin clearly knows that there are 27 party member in his branch. Like Qin Wengang, more than 10 people have organized relations in Xingyi City and live in remote rural areas. "To carry out pre-education activities, we must not let these party member fall behind." Sun Changxin made up his mind. Therefore, "sending students home" and inviting the leaders of the superior branches to "make up lessons" for these party member have naturally become the long-standing work of the Second Branch of Wenhua Road in pre-school education activities. Every time he goes to the countryside to "make up lessons", Sun Changxin pays for his own gas and drives his own Changhe van.
The frequency of sending students home is much higher, and some party member feel guilty. As long as they know the time of concentrated study, they all take the initiative to go to the city to participate in the study. Yu Dashun, an old party member who lives in the rural area of Weishe, said: "Every time I take part in intensive study, I have to spend 30 to 40 yuan to go back and forth, but compared with the selfless dedication of Sun Zhishu, this is nothing."
The second branch of Wenhua Road is a special branch in Fumin Road community. First, because this branch is a young branch, it was established in late February this year, and in March 18, it was elected as branch secretary Sun Changxin; Secondly, all the 27 party member in this branch are from the original brick and tile factory in southwest Guizhou (the factory was restructured and reorganized in 2004), with an average age of over 60, and 15 people live in rural areas.
It is such a special club, but Sun Changxin organized the activity of teaching first vividly. Without the activity room in party member, Sun Changxin vacated his own house of more than 30 square meters, and paid more than 1 1,000 yuan to buy home appliances such as sofas, tables and chairs and put them in it as the activity room and branch office in party member. Lack of study materials, Sun Changxin found a copy of the materials at his own expense, and guaranteed one for each person in party member. For more than a month, he copied more than 30 documents at his own expense and sent them to everyone in party member. Among these materials, the least is several pages, and the most is 120 pages. In order to facilitate the communication and study of the branch in party member, Sun Changxin set up a publicity column in the activity room in party member, posting the rules and regulations of the branch, photos of activities, materials issued by the higher party organizations and articles published in newspapers.
Sun Changxin is a restless man. After retirement, I set up a fleet and engaged in transportation services, and I have considerable economic income every month. Since he became the branch secretary, he has been focusing on the branch work. He said: "Since everyone has elected me as the branch secretary, I will be a good monitor seriously. Making money is a trivial matter, and the cause of the party is a major event. A * * * party member should make his own efforts when the cause of the party needs it. "