second, the matching degree is too low. Many people have encountered this situation. Introducers always like to introduce excellent boys and excellent girls, but they often end up dead. It must be affirmed that boys and girls are really excellent individuals. However, Excellence does not mean matching each other. Maybe they like and value each other differently. Normal communication is no problem. Being friends is like-minded, but being lovers can only be lover not full. Thus, the disadvantages of the introduction are revealed. However, what I want to point out is that even if you are in free love, there are cases where you find that you are not suitable for each other and break up peacefully. Why do you have to demand that blind date must be destiny takes a hand?
thirdly, it is too transparent. Almost all married people admit that when they got married, they were more or less in a fog. Without careful consideration, they just let it go. Nowadays, unmarried people have basically received higher education, have certain knowledge and insight, and have honed in society for many years. They have formed a set of their own unique opinions, which can quickly judge whether this person meets their own preferences, or they are not so gullible and easy to handle.
fourth, I don't want to wronged myself. This is a typical argument of older unmarried young people. Everyone has lived independently for nearly 3 years, and many of them are only children. No one wants to be wronged or even compromised for someone who doesn't like them very much. More is to think that since you have been wasting so many years, why not find someone you like and are satisfied with?
if parents and elders say so, their thoughts are still in their time. What I think is the consistency of material life, and I don't think about what the real thoughts of young people are now.
besides, you don't know much about what my elders introduced. There may be different levels in thought. Parents yearn for a stable life. For young people, what parents recommend is not necessarily the best, because they just want to have a haircut before. I was watching my parents' introduction before, and I was already forcing myself to accept it. If they accept it, they are compromising with their parents, so many young people are rebellious in the face of blind date. What they need is a kind of comfortable love, not a kind of bound love, which is equivalent to marriage. What they want is freedom. The blind date introduced by their parents may be the better young people in the village. For the young people outside, they may have a bad attitude towards the blind date introduced by us.