Generally speaking, I feel nervous when I get along with girls alone, which may be because I don't have much contact with the opposite sex, I am introverted and lack of experience in group life since I was a child. Or because you have too strong a purpose (such as the purpose of getting married) to get to know the opposite sex, expect too much from this relationship, and then force yourself to communicate unnecessarily, and don't like it.

Here are a few small suggestions, hoping to give you some help:

1, get in touch with the opposite sex and make friends. You can first try to get on well with colleagues and women of the opposite sex around you, help you occasionally, share snacks, have dinner together when something happens, then slowly desensitize yourself, get rid of shyness and gradually broaden your circle of friends of the opposite sex.

2. It's not bad to be a netizen first. Introverts usually prefer to put "real self-image" in virtual social interaction, so that on the one hand, you can meet new friends through social networking communities; On the other hand, you can also try online blind date, choose a big platform and have strict supervision. Real-name registration system certification is safe and secure, such as a partner, only marriage, light love, city love and other apps are very reliable. In short, find yourself a comfortable environment, and then let go of your inner restrictions step by step, and one day you will lead yourself out of the maze.

In short, when you meet a nice person, first try to make friends, explore hobbies together, do interesting things, talk about topics of concern, eat delicious food and have fun, and make yourself happy. Naturally, you can attract that like-minded colleague. Let's go