Parents who neglect to discipline their children should be alert to the occurrence of such incidents, and left-behind children living in rural areas should be alert to the occurrence of such incidents.
Recently, a 13-year-old child in Beiliu, Guangxi, was sexually assaulted four times by a 69-year-old man from the same village, which also led to the child becoming pregnant. The old man’s behavior was simply worse than a beast. The old man used candies and popsicles to deceive the girl. He went to his house on the second floor to commit crimes. It is understood that the girl has many brothers and sisters, but her parents have passed away.
About this type of incident, people are really angry and sighing. What is angry is the behavior of the old man, and what is sighing is the tragic experience of children without parental supervision.
I remember there was a sensational news story a few years ago about a school teacher in a rural area who sexually assaulted one of his female students. After a police investigation, it was discovered that he had raped more than one female student. Children, many children did not expose him, making him more and more unscrupulous and emboldened.
From these incidents, it is not difficult to see that many children are caused by not having their parents around. There are orphans and left-behind children. On the contrary, there will be fewer children with parents. These sexual assaults It is to seize the loopholes in the child's heart that is not yet sound, and make an agreement with the child to make the child a good, tight-lipped child. Many children do not understand, and are taken advantage of by these beasts.
As for other children, although I want to say that their parents may be helpless, as left-behind children, their parents are not around all year round, so they can only live with their grandparents. In order not to worry their elderly grandparents, they choose to be conservative. Secrecy also fuels the flames of these people committing crimes again.
I sympathize with children without parents, but some parents go to work in other provinces. For four or five years, they always say they are busy and want to make money. If you want to make money, do you have time to send a video with your children? No? Isn’t it okay to buy a long-distance ticket to go home and see the children during the New Year and holidays? Besides, can’t you take your children with you to work? Are these problems all reasons for not giving love to your children?
In addition, as parents, if we are accompanying our children to grow up, we should not find sex education difficult to talk about. We must treat this behavior positively so that children can establish correct concepts and protect their private parts. , If you don’t educate yourself, will you let these beasts succeed?
When children are relatively young, it is necessary to convey to them the differences in the body structures of men and women through entertaining and educational methods. For example, girls have ovaries, boys have testicles, etc., so men and women cannot be intimate with each other. It is best to convey this information through some popular science books. When the child is older, about ten years old, and slowly starts to dress fashionably, you should tell her to protect her private parts, even when she wears less clothes in the summer. Some parts that will not be exposed must be protected.
There is a saying that boys should be raised poor and girls should be raised rich.
I think as parents, we really need to "raise" our daughters well. This "rich support" is not only material, but also in terms of love for the children. If you use "poor support" "If she doesn't get the things and love from you, she will go to society to ask for them, and she will suffer a loss if she is not careful.
I remember there was a neighbor who seemed to be an irresponsible father. He often got drunk and probably didn’t care much about his daughter. Her daughter looked to be 13-17 years old and dressed up every day. It was very unseemly. She hung out with a bunch of bad friends (mostly men). Suddenly one day her daughter came back with blood on her face and cried that she had been beaten. No friend cared about her, so her father had no choice but to say, "Stop." Go out and fool around, you have to go, your father’s words are correct, but how much love do you give your children?
So as parents, we must give our children necessary sex education from an early age, and at the same time give them enough fatherly and motherly love, so that they can grow up healthily and happily and be protected from beasts!