Problem description:

Married, my lover wants to take me to meet her friends, but I don't want to go. They always talk about things that I'm not interested in (everyone talks about this and that in their circle). If I don't go, she doesn't want to, saying that I lose face. We are always unhappy about this!

what should I do?

analysis:

I hope my answer can help you! ! !

first of all, I suggest you go. Because you're his husband. She takes you to meet her friends and shows that she wants you to know about her life (including family and friendship). You don't want to go. The simplest (superficial) understanding is that you don't want to touch her life (real life). Everyone has friends. If you want to introduce your girl to your friend (someone he doesn't know or is not familiar with), what is your starting point? I hope she can know more about you.

Secondly, I still support you to go, and pay attention to etiquette and proper manners. Because after women get married or have boyfriends, they are their boyfriends or husbands except themselves (their figure, family background and other valuable things). Because this is a person they choose, and they think they can entrust their life to him, which is very important in their hearts. When her friends, family, colleagues and other people (especially those in her own life circle) boast that he has a good husband, their psychology will be greatly satisfied, which is 1 thousand times better than any sweet words you give him. You should have the same idea.

Finally, I want to tell you that when you feel that you shouldn't go to the party or that it's not suitable for you, you should clearly state your attitude, explain to him the reason why you don't go, and tell him that if you go, you will feel uncomfortable (unnatural) and cause an embarrassing situation, so it's better not to go. She should understand. Of course, she will be unhappy, although he understands you and what you mean. (The remedy is: ask her the exact time when the party will end (very important), and then pick her up, so that she won't feel that you don't care about her)

Finally, I wish you a happy life.