interpersonal relationship is the biggest problem in people's life. compared with study, if you are willing to work hard, it will definitely pay off, but interpersonal relationship is not the case. even if you work hard, some people will gossip about you and offend some people who are very attractive. of course, your performance will cause controversy to some extent. remember, not everyone is human, and the habits, hobbies and character that people gradually develop after birth are all the same as yours. So you don't have to worry about who hates who has offended you, who cliques and who speaks ill of you behind your back (remember this, don't speak ill of others behind their backs, and those who speak ill of others must be right and wrong)

Get along with colleagues, try to avoid fighting, such as promotion, such as bonuses, and never treat colleagues as friends, because you are a group that is together because of economic interests, theoretically. I guess you have offended many leaders in the workplace. It's not your colleagues who can make you resign, but important people who decide your life and death, such as your boss. These people must never offend, speak tactfully, pay attention to heart and scale, and think carefully before you speak. Don't think that the boss won't hate you. Sometimes, a word will ruin your life! I estimate that you already have some experience in other aspects, such as how to make a dinner, how to propose a toast, compliment others, etc. Finally, I suggest that you keep a low profile when you have no career and no achievements, and then show off yourself when you are promoted and have the right, and only when you have the ability can someone listen to you. Now we can only listen, do, learn and behave modestly. We must not have too many calculations, but others will hate you. Sometimes, don't be afraid to offend some people who have offended you, hate each other, or even be tough appropriately, and solve contradictions by force. Sometimes, you will get the approval of the just side. Don't just give in to others, just show it when there are just reasons. If you have friends, you will teach those "hooligans" a lesson for a while, especially when it affects your family, friends and lovers. Now the legal system is not perfect, and sometimes you have to look at fists and knives.

all of the above are my hands, and I hope to adopt them. Finally, I wish you success in your work and happiness in your life.