In the process of growing up, it is normal to lose some friends. Everyone has their own work and life. There is no need to get entangled, there are several reasons in summary.

1. Distance factor, for example: at every turning point in life, you will lose a wave of friends and welcome new ones. When you entered college, you and your friends went to different cities; after graduating from college, you stayed in different cities to work and settle down. This means that you are not only disconnected from your classmates, but also gradually lost contact with your friends back home. The further the distance, the easier it is for friendship to be broken up. Many times, friends who are too far apart are more likely to experience crisis than "long-distance lovers". There is a saying that "near neighbors are not as good as distant relatives." No matter how good the relationship is between friends, if they never see each other and don't have some common things to connect the relationship, the relationship will be weak.

2. The need for friends is not that strong

After the age of 25, your energy, social circle, and life have all entered another stage. Some people will get married, have children, and start their own families. At this time, most of the energy is taken away by the family, leaving little time for socializing. Some people will choose a career, stay away from meaningless social interactions, and reserve their limited time for important things. There are also some people who are tired of the "fair-weather friends" relationship and are unwilling to waste time on those people. Of course, the most important factor is that he has too many friends, so he has no extra energy to take care of everyone's emotions. In the end, I discovered that there were so many friends that I couldn’t even name.

3. Most people’s friendships are “short-lived”.

In other words: the "freshness" of friendship disappears faster than the passion between lovers. The love period of a couple usually lasts about 3 months; while the freshness between friends fades away after more than 1 month. You chat with some friends every day, but after a long time, you will find it boring. A friend who can always be by your side must have the following qualities: beneficial contact, close enough, and you have participated in important nodes of each other's lives.