? In this world, some people deserve your kindness to them, and some people don’t. Not everyone knows how to be grateful and will accept your kindness. In life, you often find that when you treat someone nicer, she takes it for granted. Not only does she not reciprocate, she also has a bad attitude. Therefore, if you treat people well, you should also treat them differently. If you are grateful, give her more, and if you are not grateful, stay further away from her.
Every person who comes into your life is not an accident. Fate is not a simple arrangement from God, but a kind of personal attraction. Everyone has a mysterious magnetic field that attracts companions with similar temperaments. The kind of people you meet also prove the kind of person you are. Some people complain, "Why can't I always meet someone reliable?" Indeed, this is a question you should ask yourself.
A lifetime, a moment, if you look away, you will probably be happy; if you care, you will probably be troubled; if you care, you will probably be tired; if you let go, you will probably be relaxed; if you understand, you will probably understand; if you are busy, you will probably be fulfilled; If you work hard, you will probably get it; if you understand it, you will probably be mature; if you are content, you will probably be happy. In life, there are gains and losses. In life, there are advancements and retreats. Be good to yourself and do a good job in your family. Life is mostly happy.
A benefactor will help you; an enemy will help you wake up; a friend will join hands with you; a relative will be by your side; a noble person will bring you blessings; a capable person will cure your problems; a villain will make you happy. Be cautious; love will give you strength; wise people will help you solve your problems; everyone will help you succeed. When you have time, go see more relatives and friends that you usually have no time to take care of, and be kind to everyone around you; they are the ones who make your life happen!
What is most important in this era? Answer: I have the most friends. Successful people who have only met once or twice, and successful people who have only met one person in person, are all included in the "friend camp" and keep saying "that's my friend". When friendship becomes a way to show off your status, it can explain why many people are still lonely even though they have so many friends. Utilitarian dating makes friendship less valuable. Friends, the simpler the more precious. Add a magical WeChat "zlrsyl" to make you look good every day!
Flowers bloom for a season, and people live for a lifetime. If you are more optimistic and casual, you will be more relaxed and comfortable. Impulse comes from passion, calmness comes from practice, don't let the outside world make you impetuous. The good or bad external environment is not the source of happiness and suffering. The real initiator is our heart. Cultivation is to achieve happiness by perfecting oneself; to dilute pain by tolerating others. Smile naturally when you think about it, and let it go after seeing through it. Only when you let go of greed and look down upon gains and losses can you have the leisure to enjoy happiness.
When you go out, it doesn’t matter whether others give you a warm face or a cold face. The outside world respects the background, not the person himself. Between friends, it doesn't matter whether they are hot or cold. True friendship is about the heart, not the face. Don't pay too much attention to some superficial emotions between people. People who are close friends don't need it, and people who have casual acquaintances don't need it. If you don't care about "emotion", it won't hurt you.
Fate: Between people, it is a kind of fate; between heart and heart, it is a kind of communication; between love and love, it is a kind of emotion; between love and affection, it is a kind of relationship. A sincere heart; between a mistake and a mistake, there is forgiveness. Life is such a kind of communication. Everyone has self-esteem, everyone has difficulties, and everyone has his own ideas, practices, and ways of living. Different ideas, different practices, different ways of living. Don’t change others, just be yourself!
Keep doing it all your life, not because you have hope, but because you have hope! It’s not that you fight for it because you have the opportunity, but that you get the opportunity because you fight for it! It’s not that you take on the responsibility because you grow up, but you grow because you take on it! You don’t pay because you have it, but you have it because you pay!
The original intention of being busy is for the satisfaction and happiness of the heart. Sometimes the soul will get tired in the pursuit. Once a person is tired, his emotions will lead to psychological imbalance. So hard to shuttle between reinforced concrete, what is the purpose? One day, you can quietly introspect and feel your current happiness and joy. Only then did I realize that my desire for material things is endless.
If you are greedy for too much, you will easily go astray by hook or by crook, so you must learn to stop in moderation.
It is the dullness of firewood, rice, oil and salt; it is the rush of leaving early and returning late; it is the regret that people have joys and sorrows, and the moon waxes and wanes; it is the twists and turns when walking to the end of the water and sitting and watching the clouds rise; It is the blooming smile of the soul after experiencing pain; it is the strength after the frustrations are exposed; it is the freedom and ease of looking back and smiling after traveling through thousands of mountains and rivers. Time, shades and shades are suitable; people's hearts, far and near, are at peace. The beauty of life lies in peace, and the beauty of life lies in plainness.