First, I haven't been in touch for a long time, which shows that my relationship with my colleagues is very general and I shouldn't follow the rules.
? Under normal circumstances, the relationship between colleagues is relatively weak and there will be no deep friendship. It is normal not to contact after leaving the company. Maybe we will never meet again, or even meet again. The other party may not really want you to attend such a message, so there is no need to attend the ceremony at all.
Second, courtesy is a kind of etiquette, which can be used to close the relationship with colleagues.
Custom often knows people's behavior in people's lives. Of course, some places pay more attention to etiquette. If you think this colleague is not bad and hope to be friends in the future, you can take this opportunity to narrow the distance between the two people. Because he sent a message and you participated, he will be very happy and think that you are a sentimental person. Maybe in the future, the two people will really become good friends because of this. There are many ways to make friends, and there are many ways, depending on whether you want to find them. Of course, in the process of making friends, you should try to be proactive yourself.
Third, we should not only obey the ceremony, but also rush to help.
Colleagues send messages to show that they pay special attention to themselves, and even if they don't contact often, their feelings are always there. There are many good friends, and there are few contacts at ordinary times. This may be what people call a friendship between gentlemen as light as water. If two people are really like this, then don't think about it. You must give a gift. Otherwise, it will affect the friendship between two people, and it is not the common sense of each other. If you have time and energy, you can also go and help. This is not only human nature, but also can deepen the friendship between friends. The difference between friends is that they should help each other when they are in trouble, otherwise they can't be called friends.