Small question 1: Moderate (moderate) communication principle (2 points) (moderate, 1 point)
Small question 2: First of all, the object of communication You must have choices and use "benevolence" as the standard; (1 point) Secondly, you must maintain your (subject) independence in the process of communication ("Be careful but not fight") (1 point) Adhere to principles and cannot give up your own will and become dependent. To others ("everyone's faults belong to his own party") (1 point); thirdly, communication must be both honest ("advice and good manners") and moderate ("stop if it is not possible") to avoid bringing trouble on oneself. (1 point)
Small question 1:
Test question analysis: To answer this question, you must combine the first sentence. "A gentleman is dignified and does not quarrel with others; he is gregarious and does not form cliques for personal gain or forming gangs." The third sentence, "Friends should just let it go if they don't accept persuasion, and stop asking for trouble and humiliation." It can be seen that Confucius's principles of communication It's moderation.
Small question 2:
Test question analysis: To answer this question, you need to connect the above three sentences. You should answer from the following perspectives: the criteria for choosing a partner; your own behavior in the process of communication and maintaining your independence; communication must be both honest and moderate.
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(1) Confucius said: "A gentleman is dignified and does not quarrel with others; he is gregarious and does not form parties for personal gain or form gangs."
(2) Confucius said: "People's mistakes are always of the same nature as the mistakes made by people in his group. Therefore, if you examine the mistakes a person makes, you can know that he has no benevolence."
(3) Zigong asked about the principle of making friends. Confucius said: "When a friend makes a mistake, you should try your best to advise him faithfully, and enlighten him tactfully and appropriately. A friend should just let it go if he doesn't accept the advice, and stop asking for trouble and humiliation."