1. If you are a soldier, I suggest you go to jiayuan's dating website to register, and Lily ... real-name registration system to register. You may meet fate. Forget the little one, or let you pay.
2. If you want to find a soldier: I suggest you go to the community street where the army is located and explain your situation, so when doing activities or exchanges in the local street, it is better to recommend introductions and know the roots. I hosted a friend-making activity in their street.
I hope I can help you.
Finally, I hope you don't blindly choose the internet to avoid being deceived. Especially the introduction that needs to be paid must be cautious!