Many times, children want to play with other children and make friends with them, but they don’t know how to get along with others. If he doesn't dare to talk to the other person, he will ask adults for help. When the children are young, they think it's okay, but when the children grow up and still don't know how to interact with others, parents can't continue to help. Therefore, it is necessary to slowly develop children's communication skills from now on.

Xiao Wang is a single mother, living a wonderful life with her children alone. I am usually very busy at work, so I ask my children’s grandparents to help me take care of them at home. Grandpa and grandma are old and it is inconvenient to take the children out, so they always take Miaomiao at home. One day, Xiao Wang took Miaomiao, his friends and their children out to play. It was during this long-awaited gathering that I discovered the gap between Miaomiao and her little sister's children. The other children are lively, cheerful, and very outgoing, and several children play very well. But Miaomiao, who was alone, was very shy and did not dare to play with other children. Xiao Wang asked Miaomiao to join the children's games, but she was unwilling and would only hide behind him. Xiao Wang didn't understand why other people's children were so lively, but his own was so introverted?

After the party, Xiao Wang returned home and was thinking about why the child was so bad at interacting with other children. After chatting with the little sisters, I found out that their children often play with other children and participate in various activities to cultivate their children's communication skills. Miaomiao, on the other hand, stayed at home all day and only played with her grandparents, which limited her ability to interact. Xiao Wang suddenly realized this and regretted repeatedly that he had neglected to cultivate this aspect.

1. What are the characteristics of children who know how to interact with others?

1. Children with high emotional intelligence

Knowing how to interact with others means that children are very good at observing words and emotions, so He has a very good control over details and can figure out the other person's psychology through simple observation and communication. They will even adjust the way they get along with each other according to different objects. Therefore, communication is a skill that even adults may not be able to do well. This requires a high level of emotional intelligence.

2. Be more understanding of others and not selfish

Being good at getting along with others means that children will not only focus on their own wishes, nor put personal wishes above others. But we will try to achieve a balance. Therefore, his empathy will be stronger, so the child will understand the other party better, respect the other party's wishes, will not force the other party to do things they do not want, and will maintain an appropriate mode of getting along.

3. Good at summarizing and summarizing

Such children are very good at extracting important information from communication with each other, and can deeply remember it in their hearts. From this, he knows the other person's preferences, will choose the appropriate way of getting along according to the other person's needs and preferences, and knows what to do to make the other person happy. Children like this tend to pay attention to details, and it is these small things that impress others more.

Knowing how to interact with others is a very important skill. This skill will be of great help to him in the future. Having this ability can make his children stand out from other children. children have an advantage.

2. What advantages do children who know how to interact with others have over those who do not?

·Have more personal connections

Children understand The ability to interact with people reflects from the side that children must be good at making friends. The more friends he has, the wider his network will be. People like this will be popular wherever they go. If everyone is willing to be friends with you, it means that there must be something in the child that the other party appreciates. And if there are any difficulties in the future, everyone is willing to help. This will undoubtedly be of great help to him in both study and work in the future.

·More likeable and expressive

Children with strong communication skills and better understanding of others, especially some teachers and elders, will prefer such children because they feel that Communicating with children is effortless, which makes people feel that such children are particularly sensible.

Moreover, the personality of such children is more lively and cheerful, and adults will like them more, and they are more willing to communicate and get along with such children.