The influence of son preference on children will make them feel inferior, lack self-confidence and love. They are easy to be deceived in interpersonal relationships, they will be deceived by themselves, they will not have confidence and dignity, and their children will not have feelings. This will make her children feel inferior and insecure, and even close parents will not love her. She will feel humble and subconsciously unworthy of being loved, and will seriously doubt whether she was born wrong. She always feels that everyone in the world will look at her with disgust.

She is like a hedgehog. It is difficult to get close to her daughter, so she lacks love and is easily deceived in interpersonal relationships. Because she has never experienced fatherly love and maternal love before, once someone greets her, she will treat her wholeheartedly. She thinks that someone will be nice to her in the end, and she must cherish this kindness, but when she finds out that she has been cheated, she will be heartbroken, unable to believe in love and feel inferior. She will feel that women's gender is a great insult to her life. She even thinks that as a girl, she is a bad person and will keep people away, which will have a great negative impact on her later life. In the future, when she gets married and gives birth to a boy and a girl, she will like her son more, and the vicious circle will continue.

The daughter has no self-confidence and dignity and is forced to subsidize her family. If the family burden is heavy, she doesn't even dare to talk about love and marriage. Even if she gets married, the family will continue to squeeze her. She will lose face and lift her head at her husband's house. She will find it hard to be a human being, which is better than her mother not being born. It is terrible for a child to have no affection. Sometimes a child struggles for her family, but when she loses the love of her family, she no longer has any goals, so she gives up on herself and makes no progress, so she loses a lot. Because of the lack of love when she was young, she often doubted her own value and felt that there was no one to rely on, so she was prone to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss in relationships.

When others are kind to her, they will start to dig their own hearts and be easily deceived. Whenever there is a change, they begin to doubt whether they will be abandoned and suffer from loss. Insecurity and excitement are everywhere. Her self-esteem is very low, because her parents don't love herself, which will make her doubt her value and feel that she deserves to be loved. She will feel extremely insecure because she can't get your unconditional love, and she is afraid of not getting paid. If you stop loving yourself, he will feel that she has no support, she will lack love and be mean easily.