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Confucius said: "Three friends will benefit you, and three friends will harm you. Friends who are straight, friends who are forgiving, friends who are knowledgeable, are beneficial. Friends who are friendly are open, friends who are soft, friends who are sycophantic." It's a loss." Zengzi said: "I have to examine myself three times in a day - have I been unfaithful in my plans for others? Have I not trusted my friends in my dealings? Have I not been accustomed to preaching?"

Confucius said: "The beauty of a gentleman is not to be unfaithful. The evil of adults is the evil of villains." Confucius said: "When you see the virtuous, you should think about it. When you see the virtuous, you should introspect yourself." Confucius said: "Be generous to yourself and blame others lightly, and you will be far away from resentment."

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Confucius said: "There are three kinds of useful friends and three kinds of harmful friends. Make friends with upright people and make friends with honest (forgiveness, integrity) people. "It is beneficial to make friends with knowledgeable people. It is harmful to make friends with flattering people, to make friends with people who flatter others but slander them behind their backs, and to make friends with people who are good at rhetoric." Zengzi said: " I reflect on myself many times every day - have I tried my best to do things for others? Have I been sincere in my interactions with friends? Have I reviewed the knowledge taught by the teacher?" Confucius said: "A gentleman does good things for others and does not do them for others. Bad things and bad people are the opposite." Confucius said: "When you see a worthy person, you should have the same thoughts as him; when you see an unworthy person, you should reflect on yourself!" Confucius said: "Blame yourself more and blame others less. You can stay away from other people's resentment."

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Friends are friendly, friendly and soft, friends are sycophantic, and it is harmful. Bianpi means that people who are flattering and flattering are kind. A soft person refers to a person who flatters others on the surface but slanders others behind his back. A sycophantic person refers to a person who is good at rhetoric.