1. Parental overprotection
Li Minghe's wife didn't have children of her own until she got married for five years, so she took special care of them. Every time his children want to make friends with other children, Li Ming is worried that his children will be bullied by other children, so he has always defended his children. In the end, Li Ming's children had no communication with his children, and even had social fear.
2. Parents are strict and correct.
Moral cultivation has a great influence on everyone, even irreversible, so many parents have very clear rules for their children. At the same time, they fully consider the pro-Mexican pro-Zhu Zhechi principle, so they have very strict rules on their children's friends. Under the strong and correct guidance of parents, many children have high standards of making friends, which also makes it difficult for babies to give themselves to friends around them.
Reject children
Every child cares about his parents' opinions, so praise is very important. But in reality, many parents are very stingy when praising their babies, and often even deny their children's interpersonal skills. After the child's interpersonal skills are denied by his parents, it will leave him with psychological trauma. Of course, the child will not want to make friends with the child.
Second, what is the harm of being too introverted?
1. Make children less and less confident.
If children don't communicate with others for a long time, it will endanger their identity and be afraid of getting along with others. However, everyone will constantly come into contact with different strangers in their daily lives. At this time, children who are too introverted tend to show lack of confidence, which further aggravates the problem of children's relationship with others. Conversely, children become less and less confident.
2. Make children less and less assertive.
If children are too introverted or lack self-confidence, it is easy to deny themselves and it is difficult to hesitate in the face of some purchases. At the same time, his determination is easily hurt by others. However, if we have to rely on others to determine every choice in our daily life, it will be very terrible for every child, and they will be easily hurt by others. That is also the influence of the child's introverted personality.