A simple question can arouse our endless thinking: is it because of the poor quality of our classmates? No. Is it because you don't want to make friends with your classmates? Not exactly. Is it because you like being alone? Not at all. But why can't we get along well with our classmates? Maybe you will say, "I really want to get along with him (her), but he (she) doesn't agree with me …" Is this true? Maybe, maybe not. If you really want to build a bridge of communication with your classmates, then listen to me carefully-
Endure, endure anyway. If you don't learn to endure, you can't live in peace with your classmates. Endurance is the basic condition for getting along well with others. If you can't bear it, you will always be with the lone ranger. If you always quarrel with others because of a little thing, who wants to keep a good relationship with you?
Throw away, throw away your bad habits. In fact, bad habits often destroy the relationship between classmates. Such as swearing, swearing, littering, spitting and other bad behaviors, as well as language habits such as too strong tone and hurtful words, may lead to the collapse of the bridge of friendship.
Toughness, everything needs patience. You can't do great things without patience. A temporary Excellence is not a real Excellence, but a long-term Excellence is a real real Excellence.
Concession and humility are the excellent qualities of our Chinese nation. Remember the tragic story of the little black sheep and the little white sheep? Can't the lessons they bought with their lives wake us up? There is a good saying: take a step back and broaden the horizon.
Punctuality and trustworthiness. Heine, a German poet, once famously said, "Life cannot blossom brilliantly from lies." In the five thousand years of China, there are many honest stories before us: in ancient times, Sun Bin kept his promise; Song Lian copied books overnight; In modern times, Deng went on a date in the rain; Zhou Enlai returned the book on time ... so many examples, so many examples. They are bright pearls in the long river of history, and they are the ever-burning lamps in people's hearts. Honesty and trustworthiness are the basics of being a man. If you just promised to lend your classmates something, but later you refused to lend them, how can you win their friendship?
Read this article carefully from beginning to end, and maybe you will understand how to get along with your classmates.
First of all, we should get along with others boldly and correctly treat the contradictions arising from getting along. We must realize that it is very normal for some contradictions and disputes to occur in our relationship with relatives, friends, classmates, teachers and even everyone. Teeth and tongues sometimes "fight", not to mention ordinary people with different personalities and preferences. There is a saying: "Gold is not full of red, and no one is perfect." It is inevitable that each of us will have such shortcomings. When there are differences of opinion and conflicts of interest, they often expose their shortcomings and bargain with each other. Contradictions arise from this, disputes arise from this, and harmonious and friendly interpersonal relationships cast a shadow. In this case, it will definitely have a great negative impact on our study and life. If we can't treat it correctly and resolve it in time, it is easy to enlarge the contradiction and even cause unimaginable consequences. On the contrary, if we have close and harmonious interpersonal relationships, we can feel like a duck to water and greatly improve our learning efficiency. It's good to be so kind to others and yourself!