(This does not include giving up arguing about right and wrong for personal reasons at work) This refers to what you will do when you have an argument about some issues in your life.
Don't care who wins or loses, don't argue about who is higher or lower, and don't argue clearly.
I am a person who likes to argue about right and wrong. I don't necessarily mean to win, but I must make clear the principles and facts. Sometimes I feel a little serious. If I misunderstand something, I feel very uncomfortable.
In the life that I yearn for, He Laoshi once said a word that I quite agree with: Sometimes, we should just be vague about our friends. The meaning here should be not to be too serious. I hope everyone will encourage you.