Strategy 1: Diversion has entered the ranks of older leftover women. Don't continue to be reserved. If you meet someone you are satisfied with, start immediately. But women who are too direct are sometimes unflattering and may fail to pursue a boy rashly. Start with his friends, pretending to attack other boys who are more likely to succeed. In the process of dealing with these boys, you can get to know the boy's situation in a roundabout way. At the same time, you can frequently visit their places to deepen his impression of you, let him know something about you, and slowly test whether he has feelings for you. Good impression. If you like, you can attack at the right time and defeat it in one fell swoop. Strategy 2: Let your husband join your circle of friends. If he is out of town, it is best to let him work in your hometown. In this way, within your sphere of influence, he is like a tiger far away from the mountains and a dragon far away from the sea. When he faces an unfamiliar environment, of course you will take the initiative. Coupled with the constant promotion of your benefits by your friends, relatives, and friends, it will not be difficult to appease him. Strategy 3: Use bricks and mortar to attract new ideas. Although it is customary for boys to use money to treat guests, don't take this approach for granted. Sometimes, it is necessary for you to take the initiative to pay the bill, so as not to make the other party think that you are always taking advantage of him. You can also buy him some small gifts when the time is right. Gifts don’t need to be expensive, but a clever little gift can bring you more material and emotional rewards. Strategy 4: Win the finals. Although we usually say that girls should be smarter and be as perfect as possible, not all men like smart women, but women who are too smart will make men afraid to approach her. Sometimes playing dumb can bring unexpected results, especially in front of intellectual men who fight all day long. It will be mentally tiring if they continue to play with you. Your finals and cuteness can put them at ease. Strategy 5: Dress up carefully. Don’t be naive and think that a man who truly loves you won’t care about your appearance, but only cares about your heart and knowledge. This is the ultimate expression of love, but at the beginning of love, the visual experience still dominates. If the way you dress doesn't impress him, he won't understand your thoughts any further. Therefore, older women should learn to dress up carefully, such as wearing clothes of different colors and styles every day, and have some makeup artists to make themselves more attractive to men.